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bringing in a second cat
I have a 6 year old neutered male cat. He is an inside cat and has always
been an only cat. Last week I brought home a 2 year old spayed female (half his size) and have had her in one room in our house (a room that male cat has definitely spent time). Today I put a hook on the door so that the door is slightly ajar. Male cat on the outside, female cat in the room that she has been in all week. Male cat spends some time at the door with low sounding growls and some hissing. The female has hissed back only once but definitely spends time clawing at the door wanting to get out. I just spent time in the room with her and she seems nervous when she looks at the door. Is this a good way for them to get to tolerate one another? If so, how long should I keep them apart this way? What should be my next step? Any comment about my reversing their positions for a short period of time (male in room, female in the rest of the house)? |
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"jr via CatKB.com" wrote:
I have a 6 year old neutered male cat. He is an inside cat and has always been an only cat. Last week I brought home a 2 year old spayed female (half his size) and have had her in one room in our house (a room that male cat has definitely spent time). Today I put a hook on the door so that the door is slightly ajar. Male cat on the outside, female cat in the room that she has been in all week. Male cat spends some time at the door with low sounding growls and some hissing. The female has hissed back only once but definitely spends time clawing at the door wanting to get out. I just spent time in the room with her and she seems nervous when she looks at the door. Is this a good way for them to get to tolerate one another? If so, how long should I keep them apart this way? What should be my next step? Any comment about my reversing their positions for a short period of time (male in room, female in the rest of the house)? Definitely clip their claws. Clipping the aggressor's claws might be best if you know which is the aggressor. Otherwise, clip them both. Clipping is probably most easily done upon waking your cat up from a nap. There is a whole lot of difference doing it then compared to doing it when the cat has been awake and alert. If she wants to get away, maybe you should make sure she has a collar/tag just in case she gets outside. If she does not hurt him, do not clip her claws. Accidentally getting outside with clipped claws is not good. I guess you expect your male will not run away. If I were in your shoes, I might expect those two cats to get along. One would think that having another same type creature would provide companionship. Much to my surprise, apparently some cats do just fine without other cats around. Arg. Interestingly, your male is growling at your female. My female of about seven years in the same situation as your male, was upset with a new male. Over a year later, she still does not like him but she tolerates him now. If I were you, I might show your male cat lots of affection. But do clip his claws if he is the aggressor. Attention might not make him like the female, but it might make him feel better. I would like to know how things work out after a few months. Good luck. |
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jr via CatKB.com wrote: I have a 6 year old neutered male cat. He is an inside cat and has always been an only cat. snip A week sniffing through the door is enough. Clip their nails and open the door. Let her come out on her own but make sure she has a safe place to hide if she should be attacked. There will ge growling and spatting but after a few days, they will settle down. I have always don this on the weekend when I could be around to supervise the introduction. If you have to be gone all day at work, wait to do this until you can be home with them. good luck, -L. |
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Sounds perfectly normal to me. At this point, I'd do some supervised
time together (maybe an afternoon or evening when you're home) for a few hours. Let them hiss and chase a bit, if they must, and just make sure the new girl has a hiding place (usually under the bed in her room) to retreat to. Do this for a few days and then separate them again when you're out so they can both relax. After a few days, just open all the doors, brace yourself for a little adjustment time and let them work it out. It should all be fine in a month or two or maybe even faster (if you're lucky - lol). That's what's worked for me anyway .... |
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"jr via CatKB.com" wrote in message ... I have a 6 year old neutered male cat. He is an inside cat and has always been an only cat. Last week I brought home a 2 year old spayed female (half his size) and have had her in one room in our house (a room that male cat has definitely spent time). Today I put a hook on the door so that the door is slightly ajar. Male cat on the outside, female cat in the room that she has been in all week. Male cat spends some time at the door with low sounding growls and some hissing. The female has hissed back only once but definitely spends time clawing at the door wanting to get out. I just spent time in the room with her and she seems nervous when she looks at the door. Is this a good way for them to get to tolerate one another? If so, how long should I keep them apart this way? What should be my next step? Any comment about my reversing their positions for a short period of time (male in room, female in the rest of the house)? Reversing is a good idea, also feed them at your meeting-point door if possible. Also wipe each cat with a separate cloth and place it in the 'other room' to familiarise the other cat with the scent. Bring the cloths closer to the feeding station as well over a period of several days at least. Open the door wider and wider. Introductions like this can take a week or two, don't rush them. There may even be some aggression when they finally meet, but that is quite normal, a hierarchy has to be established. Search for 'cat introductions' on google. |
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A summary of what I saw on the net, and based on my own recent experience:
The newcomer should be placed in a cage or large pen in a separate room for about a week. No face-to-face interactions allowed during this first week. Put the resident cat in a separate room and let the newcomer roam the rest of the house. The idea is to mix their respective scents and get them used to their respective scents. Use separate kitty litters at first. After a week, let the cats meet face-to-face through the bars of the pen or having the newcomer in a carrier. There may be a few hisses, but see if that diminishes and they start chatting with each other. Continue these introductions through the pen or carrier until there's no hissing. With no food in the room, and all doors closed, let the newcomer out of his/her pen carrier and see whether the cats are friendly. Supervise the whole time. After they become friendly, or maybe as they are becoming friendly, set two dishes of food at opposite ends of the room. Let the two cats eat in the same room together, from separate dishes. Supervise. Similar approaches are described at the following: http://www.fourpaws.org/pages/adopti...cing_cats.html http://www.cuhumane.org/topics/catcat.html http://www.fabcats.org/introducing.html http://www.thecatsite.com/Cats/Cat_B...cing_Cats.html "jr via CatKB.com" wrote I have a 6 year old neutered male cat. He is an inside cat and has always been an only cat. Last week I brought home a 2 year old spayed female (half his size) and have had her in one room in our house (a room that male cat has definitely spent time). Today I put a hook on the door so that the door is slightly ajar. Male cat on the outside, female cat in the room that she has been in all week. Male cat spends some time at the door with low sounding growls and some hissing. The female has hissed back only once but definitely spends time clawing at the door wanting to get out. I just spent time in the room with her and she seems nervous when she looks at the door. Is this a good way for them to get to tolerate one another? If so, how long should I keep them apart this way? What should be my next step? Any comment about my reversing their positions for a short period of time (male in room, female in the rest of the house)? |
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I like the idea of changing the cats in the rooms - it will give the
female a chance to explore your house and will give the male a chance to become even more familiar with the scent of the female. Just be sure they can't get to one another during the change. Also, I think the idea of putting the latch on the door so it can open a little bit is a great idea. Best of luck with the pair! KR2T "jr via CatKB.com" wrote: I have a 6 year old neutered male cat. He is an inside cat and has always been an only cat. Last week I brought home a 2 year old spayed female (half his size) and have had her in one room in our house (a room that male cat has definitely spent time). Today I put a hook on the door so that the door is slightly ajar. Male cat on the outside, female cat in the room that she has been in all week. Male cat spends some time at the door with low sounding growls and some hissing. The female has hissed back only once but definitely spends time clawing at the door wanting to get out. I just spent time in the room with her and she seems nervous when she looks at the door. Is this a good way for them to get to tolerate one another? If so, how long should I keep them apart this way? What should be my next step? Any comment about my reversing their positions for a short period of time (male in room, female in the rest of the house)? |
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