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Cats and human babies?
Hi,
my wife and I have two indoor only cats (female and male, both fixed, about 1 1/2 years old, healthy). We are going to have a baby early next year and some of our friends keep telling us that cats and babies don't mix. My wife is starting to wonder if we will have to give away the kitties once the baby is born. Both our cats are very people friendly (the tomcat in particular loves to interact with humans) both to us and strangers alike and neither of them scratches or bites (haven't had a single scratch in over a year). Should I expect problems? Thx, Matt |
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There are loads of good sights, that help you to get the cats ready for the
baby before it arrives home... eg getting the nursery ready, cot etc and training the cats to stay out of there... of course you would never leave the nursery door open if the baby was in there, and use cat net etc.... millions of people have cats and babies, make sure you empty the litter trays not your wife, and if she has to she always wears rubber gloves, and washes her hands afterwards. good luck, to you :-) -- Luv'n'Stuff *~*SooZy*~* New Pictures added every few days http://community.webshots.com/user/ragdollcatsuk "Matt" wrote in message om... Hi, my wife and I have two indoor only cats (female and male, both fixed, about 1 1/2 years old, healthy). We are going to have a baby early next year and some of our friends keep telling us that cats and babies don't mix. My wife is starting to wonder if we will have to give away the kitties once the baby is born. Both our cats are very people friendly (the tomcat in particular loves to interact with humans) both to us and strangers alike and neither of them scratches or bites (haven't had a single scratch in over a year). Should I expect problems? Thx, Matt |
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There are loads of good sights, that help you to get the cats ready for the
baby before it arrives home... eg getting the nursery ready, cot etc and training the cats to stay out of there... of course you would never leave the nursery door open if the baby was in there, and use cat net etc.... millions of people have cats and babies, make sure you empty the litter trays not your wife, and if she has to she always wears rubber gloves, and washes her hands afterwards. good luck, to you :-) -- Luv'n'Stuff *~*SooZy*~* New Pictures added every few days http://community.webshots.com/user/ragdollcatsuk "Matt" wrote in message om... Hi, my wife and I have two indoor only cats (female and male, both fixed, about 1 1/2 years old, healthy). We are going to have a baby early next year and some of our friends keep telling us that cats and babies don't mix. My wife is starting to wonder if we will have to give away the kitties once the baby is born. Both our cats are very people friendly (the tomcat in particular loves to interact with humans) both to us and strangers alike and neither of them scratches or bites (haven't had a single scratch in over a year). Should I expect problems? Thx, Matt |
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There are loads of good sights, that help you to get the cats ready for the
baby before it arrives home... eg getting the nursery ready, cot etc and training the cats to stay out of there... of course you would never leave the nursery door open if the baby was in there, and use cat net etc.... millions of people have cats and babies, make sure you empty the litter trays not your wife, and if she has to she always wears rubber gloves, and washes her hands afterwards. good luck, to you :-) -- Luv'n'Stuff *~*SooZy*~* New Pictures added every few days http://community.webshots.com/user/ragdollcatsuk "Matt" wrote in message om... Hi, my wife and I have two indoor only cats (female and male, both fixed, about 1 1/2 years old, healthy). We are going to have a baby early next year and some of our friends keep telling us that cats and babies don't mix. My wife is starting to wonder if we will have to give away the kitties once the baby is born. Both our cats are very people friendly (the tomcat in particular loves to interact with humans) both to us and strangers alike and neither of them scratches or bites (haven't had a single scratch in over a year). Should I expect problems? Thx, Matt |
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wrote on 9/12/03 7:02 AM: Hi, my wife and I have two indoor only cats (female and male, both fixed, about 1 1/2 years old, healthy). We are going to have a baby early next year and some of our friends keep telling us that cats and babies don't mix. My wife is starting to wonder if we will have to give away the kitties once the baby is born. Both our cats are very people friendly (the tomcat in particular loves to interact with humans) both to us and strangers alike and neither of them scratches or bites (haven't had a single scratch in over a year). Should I expect problems? Thx, Matt People are so strange. I have friends with cats and babies and they do fine. I grew up with cats. It was fine. Try to give them the same amount of attention as usual. Heck, my best friend was often to be found, big pillow on her lap, baby nursing, kitty cuddled up behind the baby. They all adapted fine. Karen |
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in article , Matt at
wrote on 9/12/03 7:02 AM: Hi, my wife and I have two indoor only cats (female and male, both fixed, about 1 1/2 years old, healthy). We are going to have a baby early next year and some of our friends keep telling us that cats and babies don't mix. My wife is starting to wonder if we will have to give away the kitties once the baby is born. Both our cats are very people friendly (the tomcat in particular loves to interact with humans) both to us and strangers alike and neither of them scratches or bites (haven't had a single scratch in over a year). Should I expect problems? Thx, Matt People are so strange. I have friends with cats and babies and they do fine. I grew up with cats. It was fine. Try to give them the same amount of attention as usual. Heck, my best friend was often to be found, big pillow on her lap, baby nursing, kitty cuddled up behind the baby. They all adapted fine. Karen |
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In article ,
enlightened us with... my wife and I have two indoor only cats (female and male, both fixed, about 1 1/2 years old, healthy). We are going to have a baby early next year and some of our friends keep telling us that cats and babies don't mix. My wife is starting to wonder if we will have to give away the kitties once the baby is born. Both our cats are very people friendly (the tomcat in particular loves to interact with humans) both to us and strangers alike and neither of them scratches or bites (haven't had a single scratch in over a year). Should I expect problems? Many of us grew up with cats, including myself. You should not have to surrender your cats just because you're having a child. However, you will need to supervise the baby and the cats until the baby is old enough to understand how to properly treat a pet. Expect to need to supervise interaction until the child is at least 3 or 4, and even after that, I wouldn't leave them unattended for long. Babies grab and don't mean to hurt - the cat doesn't know why the baby hurt it, but scratches or bites to get away. Some cats are far more tolerant that others. Supervision is the best way to avoid that situation. Toddlers chase and just don't know when to leave the cat be. So have a "safe space" for the cats - a room with a baby gate in the doorway allows the cats to go somewhere the toddler can't follow. This also allows you to put the food and litterbox where the toddler can't get into them. As your baby grows and can understand, make sure you teach him or her to respect the cats and love the cats, and you'll have a very happy household. Don't forget to still pay attention to your kitties! Make playtime with your baby and your cats together a part of your day to teach your cats to love and be tolerant of your child as well as teach your child how to interact with your cats. Congrats on the new baby. ------------------------------------------------- ~kaeli~ Hey, if you got it flaunt it! If you don't, stare at someone who does. Just don't lick the TV screen, it leaves streaks. http://www.ipwebdesign.net/wildAtHeart http://www.ipwebdesign.net/kaelisSpace ------------------------------------------------- |
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In article ,
enlightened us with... my wife and I have two indoor only cats (female and male, both fixed, about 1 1/2 years old, healthy). We are going to have a baby early next year and some of our friends keep telling us that cats and babies don't mix. My wife is starting to wonder if we will have to give away the kitties once the baby is born. Both our cats are very people friendly (the tomcat in particular loves to interact with humans) both to us and strangers alike and neither of them scratches or bites (haven't had a single scratch in over a year). Should I expect problems? Many of us grew up with cats, including myself. You should not have to surrender your cats just because you're having a child. However, you will need to supervise the baby and the cats until the baby is old enough to understand how to properly treat a pet. Expect to need to supervise interaction until the child is at least 3 or 4, and even after that, I wouldn't leave them unattended for long. Babies grab and don't mean to hurt - the cat doesn't know why the baby hurt it, but scratches or bites to get away. Some cats are far more tolerant that others. Supervision is the best way to avoid that situation. Toddlers chase and just don't know when to leave the cat be. So have a "safe space" for the cats - a room with a baby gate in the doorway allows the cats to go somewhere the toddler can't follow. This also allows you to put the food and litterbox where the toddler can't get into them. As your baby grows and can understand, make sure you teach him or her to respect the cats and love the cats, and you'll have a very happy household. Don't forget to still pay attention to your kitties! Make playtime with your baby and your cats together a part of your day to teach your cats to love and be tolerant of your child as well as teach your child how to interact with your cats. Congrats on the new baby. ------------------------------------------------- ~kaeli~ Hey, if you got it flaunt it! If you don't, stare at someone who does. Just don't lick the TV screen, it leaves streaks. http://www.ipwebdesign.net/wildAtHeart http://www.ipwebdesign.net/kaelisSpace ------------------------------------------------- |
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In article ,
enlightened us with... my wife and I have two indoor only cats (female and male, both fixed, about 1 1/2 years old, healthy). We are going to have a baby early next year and some of our friends keep telling us that cats and babies don't mix. My wife is starting to wonder if we will have to give away the kitties once the baby is born. Both our cats are very people friendly (the tomcat in particular loves to interact with humans) both to us and strangers alike and neither of them scratches or bites (haven't had a single scratch in over a year). Should I expect problems? Many of us grew up with cats, including myself. You should not have to surrender your cats just because you're having a child. However, you will need to supervise the baby and the cats until the baby is old enough to understand how to properly treat a pet. Expect to need to supervise interaction until the child is at least 3 or 4, and even after that, I wouldn't leave them unattended for long. Babies grab and don't mean to hurt - the cat doesn't know why the baby hurt it, but scratches or bites to get away. Some cats are far more tolerant that others. Supervision is the best way to avoid that situation. Toddlers chase and just don't know when to leave the cat be. So have a "safe space" for the cats - a room with a baby gate in the doorway allows the cats to go somewhere the toddler can't follow. This also allows you to put the food and litterbox where the toddler can't get into them. As your baby grows and can understand, make sure you teach him or her to respect the cats and love the cats, and you'll have a very happy household. Don't forget to still pay attention to your kitties! Make playtime with your baby and your cats together a part of your day to teach your cats to love and be tolerant of your child as well as teach your child how to interact with your cats. Congrats on the new baby. ------------------------------------------------- ~kaeli~ Hey, if you got it flaunt it! If you don't, stare at someone who does. Just don't lick the TV screen, it leaves streaks. http://www.ipwebdesign.net/wildAtHeart http://www.ipwebdesign.net/kaelisSpace ------------------------------------------------- |
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