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Euthanasia Time for our Cat :(
Well, It's time now. Our cat Amber (for anyone who followed my
previous thread) is going to be euthanized tomorrow. She seems ready now, no spunk left, tired look, diareah (just started yesterday), etc. No full meals for 23 days. Little bites of food here an there through the days, that's it. Was still drinking water regularly up until yesterday. I just hope we did not make a mistake by not trying surgery. All the docs said not to do it, the primary vet, oncologist, etc. The surgeon said he could operate, but hes a surgeon and would favor this to some degree, but even he gave a "guarded" prognosis on the outcome. So the consensus was the tumor could not be removed. It was too big they said. We had xrays and ultrasound done. We also had a fine needle aspirate that cells came back consistent with cancer. Here's the xray's and ultrasound for anyone that either knows how to read them or has/had similar xrays of their pet with cancer. I think the xrays of the organs are clouded from the effusion (fluid buildup/ internal drainage from the Cancer) but you might be able to make out where they say the tumor is in the xray. The ultrasound identifies it by the markings. The Xray does not. http://www.bmecom.com/cat/xray_thorax.jpg http://www.bmecom.com/cat/xray_whole-body.jpg http://www.bmecom.com/cat/ultsnd_mass.jpg |
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Euthanasia Time for our Cat :(
"Billy" wrote in message ... Well, It's time now. Our cat Amber (for anyone who followed my previous thread) is going to be euthanized tomorrow. She seems ready now, no spunk left, tired look, diareah (just started yesterday), etc. No full meals for 23 days. Little bites of food here an there through the days, that's it. Was still drinking water regularly up until yesterday. I just hope we did not make a mistake by not trying surgery. All the docs said not to do it, the primary vet, oncologist, etc. The surgeon said he could operate, but hes a surgeon and would favor this to some degree, but even he gave a "guarded" prognosis on the outcome. So the consensus was the tumor could not be removed. It was too big they said. We had xrays and ultrasound done. We also had a fine needle aspirate that cells came back consistent with cancer. Here's the xray's and ultrasound for anyone that either knows how to read them or has/had similar xrays of their pet with cancer. I think the xrays of the organs are clouded from the effusion (fluid buildup/ internal drainage from the Cancer) but you might be able to make out where they say the tumor is in the xray. The ultrasound identifies it by the markings. The Xray does not. http://www.bmecom.com/cat/xray_thorax.jpg http://www.bmecom.com/cat/xray_whole-body.jpg http://www.bmecom.com/cat/ultsnd_mass.jpg Billy, I think this is the right decision. It's always difficult to know when the time is "right," and we tend to second-guess ourselves. However, I think any other decision--given the circumstances you have described--would be selfish and an act of cruelty. In other words, you would be doing it for yourself and not for Amber. What you are doing for her is the final gift of love. You are sparing her unncecessary pain and you are being a responsible guardian. I have had friends who have agonized because they waited *too long* and saw their beloved pets suffer unbearable pain. So, try to console yourself with the knowledge that you did everything reasonable for Amber and that you sought medical counsel before making this most painful of decisions. I have been through the same process, and you have my deepest sympathy--and my acknowledgement that you are making the right decision. MaryL |
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Euthanasia Time for our Cat :(
"Billy" wrote in message ... Well, It's time now. Our cat Amber (for anyone who followed my previous thread) is going to be euthanized tomorrow. I'm so very sorry, Billy. You have done every loving thing you could for her. |
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Euthanasia Time for our Cat :(
It sounds like you did the best you could and that is all that can be asked
of you. To second guess yourself will do no good. It sounds like even the kitty knows it is time to go to the Bridge. Purrs for you all. "Billy" wrote in message ... Well, It's time now. Our cat Amber (for anyone who followed my previous thread) is going to be euthanized tomorrow. She seems ready now, no spunk left, tired look, diareah (just started yesterday), etc. No full meals for 23 days. Little bites of food here an there through the days, that's it. Was still drinking water regularly up until yesterday. I just hope we did not make a mistake by not trying surgery. All the docs said not to do it, the primary vet, oncologist, etc. The surgeon said he could operate, but hes a surgeon and would favor this to some degree, but even he gave a "guarded" prognosis on the outcome. So the consensus was the tumor could not be removed. It was too big they said. We had xrays and ultrasound done. We also had a fine needle aspirate that cells came back consistent with cancer. Here's the xray's and ultrasound for anyone that either knows how to read them or has/had similar xrays of their pet with cancer. I think the xrays of the organs are clouded from the effusion (fluid buildup/ internal drainage from the Cancer) but you might be able to make out where they say the tumor is in the xray. The ultrasound identifies it by the markings. The Xray does not. http://www.bmecom.com/cat/xray_thorax.jpg http://www.bmecom.com/cat/xray_whole-body.jpg http://www.bmecom.com/cat/ultsnd_mass.jpg |
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Euthanasia Time for our Cat :(
I am very sorry Billy
"Billy" wrote in message ... Well, It's time now. Our cat Amber (for anyone who followed my previous thread) is going to be euthanized tomorrow. She seems ready now, no spunk left, tired look, diareah (just started yesterday), etc. No full meals for 23 days. Little bites of food here an there through the days, that's it. Was still drinking water regularly up until yesterday. I just hope we did not make a mistake by not trying surgery. All the docs said not to do it, the primary vet, oncologist, etc. The surgeon said he could operate, but hes a surgeon and would favor this to some degree, but even he gave a "guarded" prognosis on the outcome. So the consensus was the tumor could not be removed. It was too big they said. We had xrays and ultrasound done. We also had a fine needle aspirate that cells came back consistent with cancer. Here's the xray's and ultrasound for anyone that either knows how to read them or has/had similar xrays of their pet with cancer. I think the xrays of the organs are clouded from the effusion (fluid buildup/ internal drainage from the Cancer) but you might be able to make out where they say the tumor is in the xray. The ultrasound identifies it by the markings. The Xray does not. http://www.bmecom.com/cat/xray_thorax.jpg http://www.bmecom.com/cat/xray_whole-body.jpg http://www.bmecom.com/cat/ultsnd_mass.jpg |
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Euthanasia Time for our Cat :(
Billy wrote:
Well, It's time now. Our cat Amber (for anyone who followed my previous thread) is going to be euthanized tomorrow. She seems ready now, no spunk left, tired look, diareah (just started yesterday), etc. No full meals for 23 days. Little bites of food here an there through the days, that's it. Was still drinking water regularly up until yesterday. I just hope we did not make a mistake by not trying surgery. All the docs said not to do it, the primary vet, oncologist, etc. The surgeon said he could operate, but hes a surgeon and would favor this to some degree, but even he gave a "guarded" prognosis on the outcome. So the consensus was the tumor could not be removed. It was too big they said. We had xrays and ultrasound done. We also had a fine needle aspirate that cells came back consistent with cancer. Here's the xray's and ultrasound for anyone that either knows how to read them or has/had similar xrays of their pet with cancer. I think the xrays of the organs are clouded from the effusion (fluid buildup/ internal drainage from the Cancer) but you might be able to make out where they say the tumor is in the xray. The ultrasound identifies it by the markings. The Xray does not. http://www.bmecom.com/cat/xray_thorax.jpg http://www.bmecom.com/cat/xray_whole-body.jpg http://www.bmecom.com/cat/ultsnd_mass.jpg You have done your best for Amber - picking the right time is always hard. My thoughts are with you and I'm sure you will feel her protective presence for sometime as I do for my recently passed over Max. |
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Euthanasia Time for our Cat :(
On Tue, 23 Jun 2009 13:48:54 -0700 (PDT), Billy
wrote: Well, It's time now. Our cat Amber (for anyone who followed my previous thread) is going to be euthanized tomorrow. She seems ready now, no spunk left, tired look, diareah (just started yesterday), etc. No full meals for 23 days. Little bites of food here an there through the days, that's it. Was still drinking water regularly up until yesterday. I just hope we did not make a mistake by not trying surgery. All the docs said not to do it, the primary vet, oncologist, etc. The surgeon said he could operate, but hes a surgeon and would favor this to some degree, but even he gave a "guarded" prognosis on the outcome. So the consensus was the tumor could not be removed. It was too big they said. We had xrays and ultrasound done. We also had a fine needle aspirate that cells came back consistent with cancer. Here's the xray's and ultrasound for anyone that either knows how to read them or has/had similar xrays of their pet with cancer. I think the xrays of the organs are clouded from the effusion (fluid buildup/ internal drainage from the Cancer) but you might be able to make out where they say the tumor is in the xray. The ultrasound identifies it by the markings. The Xray does not. http://www.bmecom.com/cat/xray_thorax.jpg http://www.bmecom.com/cat/xray_whole-body.jpg http://www.bmecom.com/cat/ultsnd_mass.jpg I have no idea about xrays but clearly you're making the right decision. I said before that you can't win, either you think you did it too soon or you regret making them suffer. Maybe in this case you get to question your decision less; everyone is saying it's time and even the surgeon isn't sounding too hopeful. We're all going to go Billy. When I go I just want it to be time. It's Amber's time I think. I share your pain. At least with people we can discuss their options, with our felines we just have to do what we think is best. Of course, we can't actually euthanize people when it's their time. |
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Euthanasia Time for our Cat :(
From reading your posts, it seems you have done everything you can for
Amber (love her name BTW). Hugs to you today as you say goodbye to her friend. She will be waiting for you at the Bridge. I found this poem a couple of months ago, and thought it was wonderful: Is Heaven all you asked of it, O little cat? Did Peter fit A halo for your graceless head? Is there a quilt for your special bed, And a bowl of cream just out of reach Of your thieving paw? Or do They teach You not to steal in paradise? Does the flapping of Their wings entice? Do you scamper and swing on a golden fence, Or are They teaching you reverence? And are there really golden thrones Up there? Or do the Mighty Ones Have nice fat chairs that you can claw And tear and snag with an impious paw? And do the angels understand That a little cat in a lonely land Still longs for a kiss and a friendly cuff? Celestial joys are not enough. Please, some small saint in shining white, Hold her close in your arms tonight. --Bianca Bradbury |
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Euthanasia Time for our Cat :(
I want to thank each and every one of you who provided support and
your time to comment on my posts. You have truly been remarkable and you made such a difference to our feelings by your sensitive and caring comments. I did have her Euthanized yesterday, but we postponed it for a few hours so we would have more time with her. Amazingly, for the past day and a half before this, she hid under the bed and did not eat at all. However, 10 minutes before sending her to her final destination, she limped down the stairs without us calling for her (her belly and sides so bloated looking from the apparent fluids made that hard for her to walk) to our lower floor. My wife held her perched with Amber's head on my wife's shoulders and her body suspended along my wife's chest. Amber purred so loud like she never did in years. We then placed her on my lap and she sat there content and allowed me to stroke her for the final few times. She let the kids stroke her without a hiss, whine, etc. (very unusual). She usually would not let me or esp the kids pet her for more than 20 seconds before she hissed during her later years. She was a very loving, independant "people" cat but could be moody and did what *she* wanted at at *her* decision, so this was also an unusual moment. I woke suddenly in the middle of last night thinking I should have operated to see if the docs were wrong - maybe something she swallowed was lodged somewhere and caused stomach or intestinal issues and the perifontal effusion (I think that was what it was, sort of like the wet form of FIP), maybe something the xrays could not absolutely show. We had her creamated so there is no chance of ever knowing. I just hope and pray that it was *not* something like a swallowed object that lodged somewhere and caused all the fluid buildup from one of the digestive parts being strangulated or partially blocked. Just hope it's not something that we could have corrected.....I'm haunted with the lack of a *100%* definitive diagnosis, and I doubt that I would do this the same way again for another cat. Next time I'll HAVE TO KNOW. Here is Amber at home right after we first saved her from the shelter (just a kitten, maybe three months - this one kills me to look at, the napkin on the floor was almost as big as her)..... http://www.bmecom.com/cat/9809XX_1 And here's Amber as an early adult cat (I think a she was 1.5 years here)...... http://www.bmecom.com/cat/991004_1 On Jun 23, 5:59*pm, "MaryL" -OUT-THE-LITTER wrote: "Billy" wrote in message ... Well, It's time now. Our cat Amber (for anyone who followed my previous thread) is going to be euthanized tomorrow. She seems ready now, no spunk left, tired look, diareah (just started yesterday), etc. No full meals for 23 days. Little bites of food here an there through the days, that's it. Was still drinking water regularly up until yesterday. I just hope we did not make a mistake by not trying surgery. All the docs said not to do it, the primary vet, oncologist, etc. The surgeon said he could operate, but hes a surgeon and would favor this to some degree, but even he gave a "guarded" prognosis on the outcome. So the consensus was the tumor could not be removed. It was too big they said. We had xrays and ultrasound done. We also had a fine needle aspirate that cells came back consistent with cancer. Here's the xray's and ultrasound for anyone that either knows how to read them or has/had similar xrays of their pet with cancer. I think the xrays of the organs are clouded from the effusion (fluid buildup/ internal drainage from the Cancer) but you might be able to make out where they say the tumor is in the xray. The ultrasound identifies it by the markings. The Xray does not. http://www.bmecom.com/cat/xray_thorax.jpg http://www.bmecom.com/cat/xray_whole-body.jpg http://www.bmecom.com/cat/ultsnd_mass.jpg Billy, I think this is the right decision. *It's always difficult to know when the time is "right," and we tend to second-guess ourselves. *However, I think any other decision--given the circumstances you have described--would be selfish and an act of cruelty. *In other words, you would be doing it for yourself and not for Amber. *What you are doing for her is the final gift of love. *You are sparing her unncecessary pain and you are being a responsible guardian. *I have had friends who have agonized because they waited *too long* and saw their beloved pets suffer unbearable pain. *So, try to console yourself with the knowledge that you did everything reasonable for Amber and that you sought medical counsel before making this most painful of decisions. *I have been through the same process, and you have my deepest sympathy--and my acknowledgement that you are making the right decision. MaryL- Hide quoted text - - Show quoted text - |
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