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What to do with cat for 5 days?
Hey folks,
We are going on a 5 day trip in the next few days and would like to know everyone's opinion on what to do with the cat. I have a 1 year old (we got when he was 7 months) that is very affectionate people friendly. We don't want that to change! We are unsure if we should give him to a friend for the 5 days or simply have someone drop by for 20 mins. each day to make sure he is OK. Do you think it would be more traumatic to move him to a strange house or to leave him alone for 5 days? Do you think 5 days alone will make him less "people friendly"? Do you think that sending him to a strange new house will affect him more? Just wondering what other people's thoughts on this are.. Felix |
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From: (Felix)
Do you think 5 days alone will make him less "people friendly"? Do you think that sending him to a strange new house will affect him more? Since he's only 1 year old and people friendly, I might be inclined to have him taken care of by your friend. How good is your friend with cats? Will he/she be around a lot to give the cat attention? Will they be very careful that the cat does not get out? For the future, have you ever considered getting a second cat as a companion/playmate for the first one? We have 2 cats and I think it helps that they have each other for company when we're at work or out of town. Lauren ________ See my cats: http://community.webshots.com/album/56955940rWhxAe Raw Diet Info: http://www.holisticat.com/drjletter.html http://www.geocities.com/rawfeeders/ForCatsOnly.html Declawing Info: http://www.wholecatjournal.com/articles/claws.htm |
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Felix wrote:
Hey folks, We are going on a 5 day trip in the next few days and would like to know everyone's opinion on what to do with the cat. I have a 1 year old (we got when he was 7 months) that is very affectionate people friendly. We don't want that to change! Uh, you're kind of waiting for the last minute to investigate this, aren't you? I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you just learned about the trip possibility. We are unsure if we should give him to a friend for the 5 days or simply have someone drop by for 20 mins. each day to make sure he is OK. Do you think it would be more traumatic to move him to a strange house or to leave him alone for 5 days? Do you think 5 days alone will make him less "people friendly"? Do you think that sending him to a strange new house will affect him more? I've always understood cats to be strongly bonded to their location. Because of this, when I go away someone comes in to feed them, clean the boxes, and give them a little TLC. That's what I recommend to you. When I catsit my neighbors' cat, I try to spend a little time with her, and if they're away for a week I'll often take a book over and occupy their couch for a while to give the cat a sense of someone else being there for more than a flying minute. This is one hostile cat, so petting and snuggling and so on are OUT. After six years she's getting better, though. She doesn't hiss *immediately* any more. ;-) Whatever her attitude, she deserves to know she's not been abandonned. Now, this does not mean that your cat may not be royally ****ed off at you when you return. Shredded toilet paper or paper towels and dug-up house plants should be written off as your fault for daring to abandon the poor ickle kitty, and said puss may either be very clingy upon your return or may give you the cold shoulder for a bit. This will wear off, and once you've re-ingratiated yourself, you will be forgiven. Have fun on your trip! Priscilla |
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Felix wrote:
Hey folks, We are going on a 5 day trip in the next few days and would like to know everyone's opinion on what to do with the cat. I have a 1 year old (we got when he was 7 months) that is very affectionate people friendly. We don't want that to change! Uh, you're kind of waiting for the last minute to investigate this, aren't you? I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you just learned about the trip possibility. We are unsure if we should give him to a friend for the 5 days or simply have someone drop by for 20 mins. each day to make sure he is OK. Do you think it would be more traumatic to move him to a strange house or to leave him alone for 5 days? Do you think 5 days alone will make him less "people friendly"? Do you think that sending him to a strange new house will affect him more? I've always understood cats to be strongly bonded to their location. Because of this, when I go away someone comes in to feed them, clean the boxes, and give them a little TLC. That's what I recommend to you. When I catsit my neighbors' cat, I try to spend a little time with her, and if they're away for a week I'll often take a book over and occupy their couch for a while to give the cat a sense of someone else being there for more than a flying minute. This is one hostile cat, so petting and snuggling and so on are OUT. After six years she's getting better, though. She doesn't hiss *immediately* any more. ;-) Whatever her attitude, she deserves to know she's not been abandonned. Now, this does not mean that your cat may not be royally ****ed off at you when you return. Shredded toilet paper or paper towels and dug-up house plants should be written off as your fault for daring to abandon the poor ickle kitty, and said puss may either be very clingy upon your return or may give you the cold shoulder for a bit. This will wear off, and once you've re-ingratiated yourself, you will be forgiven. Have fun on your trip! Priscilla |
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@hotmail.com enlightened us with... We are going on a 5 day trip in the next few days and would like to know everyone's opinion on what to do with the cat. I have a 1 year old (we got when he was 7 months) that is very affectionate people friendly. We don't want that to change! We are unsure if we should give him to a friend for the 5 days or simply have someone drop by for 20 mins. each day to make sure he is OK. I have had friendly cats and not so friendly cats, and not a one ever liked going to other people's homes. Is he an indoor-only cat? They like going to strange places about as much as I like getting a root canal, IME. Try this - take him over to the friend's house now, before you go anywhere, and see how he does for a couple hours with you there. If he's all cool and relaxed and everything is peachy, you pretty much have your answer. If he falls asleep somewhere, bonus points. If he hides and won't come out, subtract 100 points. *G* If, however, he's more like my cats and gets really peeved about being brought someplace strange, you'll be best with a sitter. Have a cat sitter come by your home for at least 30 minutes a day, either a friend or a service. Also, make sure one at least one of your direct neighbors has contact info for you in case of emergency, such as burglary or fire. If you live in a smallish neighborhood, contact the local police dept to see if they have a program to do drive-bys of vacationing people's homes. Ours does. A cat can do fine all alone for 5 days, given enough food and water. But you want him to have company and be checked on. You can leave the radio on for some comfort for him, too. Plus, emergencies happen. So, just think of all the things that could go wrong and make sure someone can get in touch with you should any of the worst come to pass. Oh, and make sure anyone caring for the cat has not only your info, but the number of your vet and the closest emergency pet clinic. Plan for the worst, hope for the best. My 2 cents. -- -- ~kaeli~ Going to church doesn't make you a Christian any more than standing in a garage makes you a car. http://www.ipwebdesign.net/wildAtHeart http://www.ipwebdesign.net/kaelisSpace |
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In article , felix0007
@hotmail.com enlightened us with... We are going on a 5 day trip in the next few days and would like to know everyone's opinion on what to do with the cat. I have a 1 year old (we got when he was 7 months) that is very affectionate people friendly. We don't want that to change! We are unsure if we should give him to a friend for the 5 days or simply have someone drop by for 20 mins. each day to make sure he is OK. I have had friendly cats and not so friendly cats, and not a one ever liked going to other people's homes. Is he an indoor-only cat? They like going to strange places about as much as I like getting a root canal, IME. Try this - take him over to the friend's house now, before you go anywhere, and see how he does for a couple hours with you there. If he's all cool and relaxed and everything is peachy, you pretty much have your answer. If he falls asleep somewhere, bonus points. If he hides and won't come out, subtract 100 points. *G* If, however, he's more like my cats and gets really peeved about being brought someplace strange, you'll be best with a sitter. Have a cat sitter come by your home for at least 30 minutes a day, either a friend or a service. Also, make sure one at least one of your direct neighbors has contact info for you in case of emergency, such as burglary or fire. If you live in a smallish neighborhood, contact the local police dept to see if they have a program to do drive-bys of vacationing people's homes. Ours does. A cat can do fine all alone for 5 days, given enough food and water. But you want him to have company and be checked on. You can leave the radio on for some comfort for him, too. Plus, emergencies happen. So, just think of all the things that could go wrong and make sure someone can get in touch with you should any of the worst come to pass. Oh, and make sure anyone caring for the cat has not only your info, but the number of your vet and the closest emergency pet clinic. Plan for the worst, hope for the best. My 2 cents. -- -- ~kaeli~ Going to church doesn't make you a Christian any more than standing in a garage makes you a car. http://www.ipwebdesign.net/wildAtHeart http://www.ipwebdesign.net/kaelisSpace |
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I'd opt for a cat sitter. One you really trust - whether a friend,
relative, or a professional pet sitter. Professional sitters will sometimes come in twice/day, at your request (as long as you agree to their payment schedule). Cathy "Felix" wrote in message om... Hey folks, We are going on a 5 day trip in the next few days and would like to know everyone's opinion on what to do with the cat. I have a 1 year old (we got when he was 7 months) that is very affectionate people friendly. We don't want that to change! We are unsure if we should give him to a friend for the 5 days or simply have someone drop by for 20 mins. each day to make sure he is OK. Do you think it would be more traumatic to move him to a strange house or to leave him alone for 5 days? Do you think 5 days alone will make him less "people friendly"? Do you think that sending him to a strange new house will affect him more? Just wondering what other people's thoughts on this are.. Felix |
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I'd opt for a cat sitter. One you really trust - whether a friend,
relative, or a professional pet sitter. Professional sitters will sometimes come in twice/day, at your request (as long as you agree to their payment schedule). Cathy "Felix" wrote in message om... Hey folks, We are going on a 5 day trip in the next few days and would like to know everyone's opinion on what to do with the cat. I have a 1 year old (we got when he was 7 months) that is very affectionate people friendly. We don't want that to change! We are unsure if we should give him to a friend for the 5 days or simply have someone drop by for 20 mins. each day to make sure he is OK. Do you think it would be more traumatic to move him to a strange house or to leave him alone for 5 days? Do you think 5 days alone will make him less "people friendly"? Do you think that sending him to a strange new house will affect him more? Just wondering what other people's thoughts on this are.. Felix |
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Felix wrote:
We are going on a 5 day trip in the next few days and would like to know everyone's opinion on what to do with the cat. Cats are extraordinarily intelligent creatures, and very flexible. Here's a tale to inspire. My neighbours' house is two hundred yards away. We had never had any contact with their cat. A week before they went away for four days they intentionally brought their cat to us for Sunday afternoon tea, for a couple of hours. The cat wandered round the house, investigated, and no doubt noted the friendliness between the two sets of humans. A week later, on the day the neighbours were going away, they brought the cat over to us (an adult of about 9 cat-years) at 10 in the morning and left her with us, then departed. The cat wandered about, soon got worried about her owners' departure from our house, began to go from window to window. Eventually, at about 1pm, I let her out and she raced back to her own home, where she could get into the porch only and sleep in safety. At 7.30pm that night, in the pitch dark outside, we heard miaowing at our back door. We let her in, fed her, and while we ate she settled happily on the couch, washed and went to sleep. In the morning, she was eager for breakfast, but after that wanted to return to her home. We opened the door and let her go. Note that the two hundred yards between the two hours is quite an obstacle course: high wire fence, tall leylandii hedge, very wet and muddy farmland. At 7.30pm that night also, she returned, to eat and stay the night in warmth and security. In the morning she wished to depart. She followed the same pattern on two more evenings. Since the neighbours' return she has never been back. When we went over there recently for tea, she ignored us. Cats are intelligent and canny. They can look after their interests if allowed the means to do so, if shown a mechanism of which to take advantage. ---------------------------------------------- |
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