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hissing kitty
I have a cat just about 1 year old and she always hisses at my dog. But
lately if she is sitting with me and the dog comes by she will hiss at me for petting her and then put her teeth around me like she wants to bite me. She never chomps down at all but I want her to know that this is not allowed but it would be my understanding that if I punish her for growling that it would just **** her off more. any suggestions? Geoff |
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Geoff wrote:
I have a cat just about 1 year old and she always hisses at my dog. But lately if she is sitting with me and the dog comes by she will hiss at me for petting her and then put her teeth around me like she wants to bite me. She never chomps down at all but I want her to know that this is not allowed but it would be my understanding that if I punish her for growling that it would just **** her off more. any suggestions? Put her down, walk away, and completely ignore her when she does that. Give her the message that bad behavior means no attention from you. In my experience, that's how mama cats handle bad behavior from kittens. -- jamie ) "There's a seeker born every minute." |
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Geoff wrote:
I have a cat just about 1 year old and she always hisses at my dog. But lately if she is sitting with me and the dog comes by she will hiss at me for petting her and then put her teeth around me like she wants to bite me. She never chomps down at all but I want her to know that this is not allowed but it would be my understanding that if I punish her for growling that it would just **** her off more. any suggestions? Put her down, walk away, and completely ignore her when she does that. Give her the message that bad behavior means no attention from you. In my experience, that's how mama cats handle bad behavior from kittens. -- jamie ) "There's a seeker born every minute." |
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In article 7qGRc.50780$hw6.12760@edtnps84, enlightened us
with... I have a cat just about 1 year old and she always hisses at my dog. But lately if she is sitting with me and the dog comes by she will hiss at me for petting her and then put her teeth around me like she wants to bite me. She never chomps down at all but I want her to know that this is not allowed but it would be my understanding that if I punish her for growling that it would just **** her off more. any suggestions? Listen to her. She's trying to tell you something ("put me down, I don't feel safe here"). She has claws and teeth and could hurt you if she wanted to, but she isn't hurting you. She loves you. She is feeling afraid of (or angry at) the dog. She gets a little jumpy when the dog is there. She feels a touch and goes to bite at it, sees it's you, and pulls back. My Rowan used to do this - she doesn't much like my dog, either. Just put her down so she can go somewhere she feels safer or, better yet, let her know you will protect her and make the dog go away when you're holding your cat. Once she understands that you won't make her sit there while the dog is close enough for her to be threatened, she'll lighten up. NEVER force your cat to stay on your lap if the dog is close enough to make her feel uncomfortable. If you've been doing that, that might be why she just started this behavior. Keep in mind that some cats will never really like the family dog. She may hiss at the dog for the rest of their lives when she feels threatened. -- -- ~kaeli~ The best part of having kids is giving them back to their parents. http://www.ipwebdesign.net/wildAtHeart http://www.ipwebdesign.net/kaelisSpace |
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"Geoff" wrote in message
news:7qGRc.50780$hw6.12760@edtnps84... I have a cat just about 1 year old and she always hisses at my dog. But lately if she is sitting with me and the dog comes by she will hiss at me for petting her and then put her teeth around me like she wants to bite me. She never chomps down at all but I want her to know that this is not allowed but it would be my understanding that if I punish her for growling that it would just **** her off more. any suggestions? Geoff My guess is misplaced aggression. She directs it toward you instead of the dog - you're more handy, even though the dog's the cause. Or maybe a low saturation point - petting, due to the dog being in the vicinity. Have you ever been petting her when her tail starts to twitch, & instead of liking the petting, she becomes ambivalent about it instead? That's when she starts to hit her saturation point. If you continue to pet her, she may then scratch or bite. As time goes by, she will probably become more tolerant of the dog. Cathy |
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"Geoff" wrote in message
news:7qGRc.50780$hw6.12760@edtnps84... I have a cat just about 1 year old and she always hisses at my dog. But lately if she is sitting with me and the dog comes by she will hiss at me for petting her and then put her teeth around me like she wants to bite me. She never chomps down at all but I want her to know that this is not allowed but it would be my understanding that if I punish her for growling that it would just **** her off more. any suggestions? Geoff My guess is misplaced aggression. She directs it toward you instead of the dog - you're more handy, even though the dog's the cause. Or maybe a low saturation point - petting, due to the dog being in the vicinity. Have you ever been petting her when her tail starts to twitch, & instead of liking the petting, she becomes ambivalent about it instead? That's when she starts to hit her saturation point. If you continue to pet her, she may then scratch or bite. As time goes by, she will probably become more tolerant of the dog. Cathy |
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"kaeli" wrote in message ... In article 7qGRc.50780$hw6.12760@edtnps84, enlightened us with... I have a cat just about 1 year old and she always hisses at my dog. But lately if she is sitting with me and the dog comes by she will hiss at me for petting her and then put her teeth around me like she wants to bite me. She never chomps down at all but I want her to know that this is not allowed but it would be my understanding that if I punish her for growling that it would just **** her off more. any suggestions? Listen to her. She's trying to tell you something ("put me down, I don't feel safe here"). She has claws and teeth and could hurt you if she wanted to, but she isn't hurting you. She loves you. She is feeling afraid of (or angry at) the dog. She gets a little jumpy when the dog is there. She feels a touch and goes to bite at it, sees it's you, and pulls back. My Rowan used to do this - she doesn't much like my dog, either. Just put her down so she can go somewhere she feels safer or, better yet, let her know you will protect her and make the dog go away when you're holding your cat. Once she understands that you won't make her sit there while the dog is close enough for her to be threatened, she'll lighten up. NEVER force your cat to stay on your lap if the dog is close enough to make her feel uncomfortable. If you've been doing that, that might be why she just started this behavior. Keep in mind that some cats will never really like the family dog. She may hiss at the dog for the rest of their lives when she feels threatened. -- -- Just wanted to say that this sounds very reasonable. After all, instinct is instinct and many dogs can kill a cat in an instant. |
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"kaeli" wrote in message ... In article 7qGRc.50780$hw6.12760@edtnps84, enlightened us with... I have a cat just about 1 year old and she always hisses at my dog. But lately if she is sitting with me and the dog comes by she will hiss at me for petting her and then put her teeth around me like she wants to bite me. She never chomps down at all but I want her to know that this is not allowed but it would be my understanding that if I punish her for growling that it would just **** her off more. any suggestions? Listen to her. She's trying to tell you something ("put me down, I don't feel safe here"). She has claws and teeth and could hurt you if she wanted to, but she isn't hurting you. She loves you. She is feeling afraid of (or angry at) the dog. She gets a little jumpy when the dog is there. She feels a touch and goes to bite at it, sees it's you, and pulls back. My Rowan used to do this - she doesn't much like my dog, either. Just put her down so she can go somewhere she feels safer or, better yet, let her know you will protect her and make the dog go away when you're holding your cat. Once she understands that you won't make her sit there while the dog is close enough for her to be threatened, she'll lighten up. NEVER force your cat to stay on your lap if the dog is close enough to make her feel uncomfortable. If you've been doing that, that might be why she just started this behavior. Keep in mind that some cats will never really like the family dog. She may hiss at the dog for the rest of their lives when she feels threatened. -- -- Just wanted to say that this sounds very reasonable. After all, instinct is instinct and many dogs can kill a cat in an instant. |
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