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Introducing the new cat
I picked up my new kitty tonight, and I am wondering how I should go
about introducing him to my kitten. Right now, I have them separated. The new cat is locked in the bedroom with all of his necessities, and my kitten is checking out the carrier I brought the new cat home in. How do I know when they are ready to meet? The new cat was just neutered today, so should I wait awhile? Any other suggestions for a smooth introduction would be very helpful. I also need to figure out a name for the "new cat" Justin |
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"Justin L" wrote in message . .. I picked up my new kitty tonight, and I am wondering how I should go about introducing him to my kitten. Congratulations!! I want to hear all about him. Right now, I have them separated. The new cat is locked in the bedroom with all of his necessities, and my kitten is checking out the carrier I brought the new cat home in. How do I know when they are ready to meet? The new cat was just neutered today, so should I wait awhile? There has been a lot written about this in this group so I think a Google search on "introducing" for this group might be helpful. The most experienced people recommend that it be done gradually. For example, leave the new cat in the bedroom where he is for maybe two days, then put him some place with a barrier like a screen door where the cats can see and smell one another, but not touch. I have heard others say that it may be helpful to expose each cat to the other's scent by placing a blanket or toy that one has been around in the room with the other. Any other suggestions for a smooth introduction would be very helpful. When I did it three years ago I just opened the carrier upstairs for the new cat and she and the other cat, who stays pretty much on the lowest of three levels, just worked it out on their own. These cats, two grown girls, still pretty much stay in their own turfs, one on the third floor and the other on the first floor. But at feeding times and play times they meet on the middle level. At first there was hissing and posturing, now just some half-hearted swatting. Next they will be playing together, though I doubt they will ever cuddle and groom. I also need to figure out a name for the "new cat" For that we need PICTURES!! |
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Mary wrote:
"Justin L" wrote in message . .. I picked up my new kitty tonight, and I am wondering how I should go about introducing him to my kitten. Congratulations!! I want to hear all about him. well, I don't know all the technical cat terms, but he has stripes and a white belly! I will be taking pictures sometime soon. He is very friendly though, when I went to go see him for the first time, he didn't even try to run and hide, he just came up to me and started rubbing on my leg and purring. I can hear him meowing right now, and the kitten keeps going by the door.. is this a good sign?? Right now, I have them separated. The new cat is locked in the bedroom with all of his necessities, and my kitten is checking out the carrier I brought the new cat home in. How do I know when they are ready to meet? The new cat was just neutered today, so should I wait awhile? There has been a lot written about this in this group so I think a Google search on "introducing" for this group might be helpful. The most experienced people recommend that it be done gradually. For example, leave the new cat in the bedroom where he is for maybe two days, then put him some place with a barrier like a screen door where the cats can see and smell one another, but not touch. I have heard others say that it may be helpful to expose each cat to the other's scent by placing a blanket or toy that one has been around in the room with the other. Thanks I will try those suggestions. I am mainly worried because the new cat is older and bigger than my kitten. He also was a unnuetered stray for who knows how long, so he may be used to fighting and all that jazz. Any other suggestions for a smooth introduction would be very helpful. When I did it three years ago I just opened the carrier upstairs for the new cat and she and the other cat, who stays pretty much on the lowest of three levels, just worked it out on their own. These cats, two grown girls, still pretty much stay in their own turfs, one on the third floor and the other on the first floor. But at feeding times and play times they meet on the middle level. At first there was hissing and posturing, now just some half-hearted swatting. Next they will be playing together, though I doubt they will ever cuddle and groom. I am hoping they will at least interact a little bit. The main reason for taking in this new cat was to keep my kitten company while I am away during the day. Maybe new cat can share his old fight stories over some catnip or something. I also need to figure out a name for the "new cat" For that we need PICTURES!! Yea I know, I am working on it :P I think he is pretty neat looking. He is definitely a lot different looking than my kitten. I will let you know once I get some posted. Justin |
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On Thu 03 Feb 2005 09:46:00p, Justin L wrote in
rec.pets.cats.health+behav ): Thanks I will try those suggestions. I am mainly worried because the new cat is older and bigger than my kitten. He also was a unnuetered stray for who knows how long, so he may be used to fighting and all that jazz. My experience with neutered males and kittens is that they get along great. In every instance I've seen them in, in multiple combinations. Older females sometimes act funny, but males have always sort of adopted them. Good luck! -- Cheryl |
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"Justin L" wrote in message . .. Mary wrote: "Justin L" wrote in message . .. well, I don't know all the technical cat terms, but he has stripes and a white belly! I will be taking pictures sometime soon. He is very friendly though, when I went to go see him for the first time, he didn't even try to run and hide, he just came up to me and started rubbing on my leg and purring. Oh, you got a friendly little guy! I can hear him meowing right now, and the kitten keeps going by the door.. is this a good sign?? Sure! I hope you're visiting him a lot so he isn't lonely. There has been a lot written about this in this group so I think a search on "introducing" for this group might be helpful. The most experienced people recommend that it be done gradually. For example, leave the new cat in the bedroom where he is for maybe two days, then put him some place with a barrier like a screen door where the cats can see and smell one another, but not touch. I have heard others say that it may be helpful to expose each cat to the other's scent by placing a blanket or toy that one has been around in the room with the other. Thanks I will try those suggestions. I am mainly worried because the new cat is older and bigger than my kitten. He also was a unnuetered stray for who knows how long, so he may be used to fighting and all that jazz. I see--it sounds like you have reason to be careful. Bless you for adopting an adult cat, so many people just want kittens. You're a good soul! How old is this boy, do you know? And I assume he is now neutered? Could the shelter tell you much about him? I am hoping they will at least interact a little bit. The main reason for taking in this new cat was to keep my kitten company while I am away during the day. Maybe new cat can share his old fight stories over some catnip or something. You know, the key ingredient is patience. They will probably be fine together, and play and keep one another company eventually, but just not as fast as you want them to do it. Above all don't pick one cat up and take it into the other's space. I would spend some time petting and playing with the kitten, then go in and spend some time with the new boy, to mingle their scents. I also need to figure out a name for the "new cat" For that we need PICTURES!! Yea I know, I am working on it :P I think he is pretty neat looking. He is definitely a lot different looking than my kitten. I will let you know once I get some posted. Excellent. |
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On Fri, 04 Feb 2005 01:05:14 GMT, Justin L
wrote: I picked up my new kitty tonight, and I am wondering how I should go about introducing him to my kitten. Right now, I have them separated. The new cat is locked in the bedroom with all of his necessities, and my kitten is checking out the carrier I brought the new cat home in. How do I know when they are ready to meet? The new cat was just neutered today, so should I wait awhile? Any other suggestions for a smooth introduction would be very helpful. I also need to figure out a name for the "new cat" Justin If the new cat is past sexual maturity, wait at least a month for best results, so the hormones can wash out of his system. Just an anecdotal reference, but one that is backed up with at least a little research.. Grown (male) cats and kittens seem to have a somewhat easier time acclimating. We brough Louis the Bengal (neutered male) home at about two months old, and at the first meeting Tiger the Eight-year-old neutered male) hissed once, then started grooming the new kitten! We kept them separated a couple weeks, with short times together, and Tiger fell in love almost immediately. They are now the best of friends, playing and sleeping together. Luckily, this was by design, since Tiger (a mutt) has always been a playful cat, and in our first purebred purchase we wanted a breed that would share his enthusiasm for play, after Tiger had lost two friends to disease. Bengals are advertised as such, and Louis plays to type. The ten-year age differential has us somewhat concerned, which is why we adopted the stray Henry (about Louis' age and as precocious). It's this addition which underlines the difference between introductions with kittens and introductions as adults. Hope this helps. Enjoy your new kitty! I think you'll be pleasantly surprised! BLink |
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Mary wrote:
snip Oh, you got a friendly little guy! Seems to be so far! Sure! I hope you're visiting him a lot so he isn't lonely. Yes, I was just in there now. I noticed his front claws are *very* short. It almost looks like they are broken or something, but I am afraid to try and get a real good look because he gets kind of nervous when I do. Does this mean he is declawed, or do some cats just have short claws. Poor guy I hope he isn't in pain. snip I see--it sounds like you have reason to be careful. Bless you for adopting an adult cat, so many people just want kittens. You're a good soul! How old is this boy, do you know? And I assume he is now neutered? Could the shelter tell you much about him? The vet he saw estimated about 1-1/2 yrs old, and he was just neutered this morning. I didn't get him from the shelter. I saw an ad in the paper "rescued cat from cold". The lady I got him from said he started coming around for food. Then one night he had frozen little tears running down his face, so she took him in. She already had 2 cats, and can't have anymore. I am hoping they will at least interact a little bit. The main reason for taking in this new cat was to keep my kitten company while I am away during the day. Maybe new cat can share his old fight stories over some catnip or something. You know, the key ingredient is patience. They will probably be fine together, and play and keep one another company eventually, but just not as fast as you want them to do it. Above all don't pick one cat up and take it into the other's space. I would spend some time petting and playing with the kitten, then go in and spend some time with the new boy, to mingle their scents. That is what I have been doing so far, they seem to be interested in each other, but I am going to wait at least a few days before letting them see each other. I think new cat did a spray in the room. yuck Justin snipped |
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Brian Link wrote:
On Fri, 04 Feb 2005 01:05:14 GMT, Justin L wrote: snip If the new cat is past sexual maturity, wait at least a month for best results, so the hormones can wash out of his system. When is sexual maturity? He is about 1-1/2 years old, but his exact age is unknown. Just an anecdotal reference, but one that is backed up with at least a little research.. Grown (male) cats and kittens seem to have a somewhat easier time acclimating. We brough Louis the Bengal (neutered male) home at about two months old, and at the first meeting Tiger the Eight-year-old neutered male) hissed once, then started grooming the new kitten! I hope my cats meeting goes that well! We kept them separated a couple weeks, with short times together, and Tiger fell in love almost immediately. They are now the best of friends, playing and sleeping together. Luckily, this was by design, since Tiger (a mutt) has always been a playful cat, and in our first purebred purchase we wanted a breed that would share his enthusiasm for play, after Tiger had lost two friends to disease. Bengals are advertised as such, and Louis plays to type. The ten-year age differential has us somewhat concerned, which is why we adopted the stray Henry (about Louis' age and as precocious). It's this addition which underlines the difference between introductions with kittens and introductions as adults. Hope this helps. Enjoy your new kitty! I think you'll be pleasantly surprised! Thanks Justin BLink |
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Cheryl wrote:
On Thu 03 Feb 2005 09:46:00p, Justin L wrote in rec.pets.cats.health+behav ): Thanks I will try those suggestions. I am mainly worried because the new cat is older and bigger than my kitten. He also was a unnuetered stray for who knows how long, so he may be used to fighting and all that jazz. My experience with neutered males and kittens is that they get along great. In every instance I've seen them in, in multiple combinations. Older females sometimes act funny, but males have always sort of adopted them. Good luck! That is good to know! Thanks! Justin |
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Congratulations! Good move!
I second the recommendation to wait a bit until the hormone level settles down. But I don't think a month will be necessary. Give it a week or two. Let them sniff each other under a door, then through a baby gate (or two--one on top of another) and stay in the (closed)room with them when introducing. Start with short meetings, and after a few days if all goes well let them out of the room. You want to limit it to one closed room because if the worst happens, you don't want to be running through the house after them! But I think it will be fine. Keep us up to date. "Justin L" wrote in message . .. I picked up my new kitty tonight, and I am wondering how I should go about introducing him to my kitten. Right now, I have them separated. The new cat is locked in the bedroom with all of his necessities, and my kitten is checking out the carrier I brought the new cat home in. How do I know when they are ready to meet? The new cat was just neutered today, so should I wait awhile? Any other suggestions for a smooth introduction would be very helpful. I also need to figure out a name for the "new cat" Justin |
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