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I am an idiot - Star
I have been to visit Star twice now. This second time, he settled on my
lap and purred again. Curled up in the tiniest little cat disc (how can a cat be so small?) and purred. He kneaded and rubbed and mrrp'd. He looked at me with his beautiful golden orbs. He likes me and he trusts me. They said that they thought that he must have been abused because of how careful you have to be around his head. Also, he has cowered when men have been in the room. I have now developed a story about him which may be completely incorrect. He seemed so comfortable and loving on my lap and it made me think that he was some girl's or woman's pet and some nasty guy hurt the girl by taking the cat and dumping him in the park behind our house. I haven't slept well in 11 months and I'm very emotional. I'm trying to wean the baby for a variety of medical reasons and the baby is hysterical. I'm not sleeping. Fred is not sleeping, and the baby is not sleeping. My MIL has pancreatic cancer, I'm going in for major surgery (non-elective but non-life threatening) in four weeks and will be unable to lift the baby after for 12 weeks (very stressful for both of us), my husband is travelling with his new job, my son is still unhappy, my son still has allergies, and my cats seem to be slowing down. I found out that, if he isn't adopted tonight, Star will be PTS tomorrow AM. I didn't save the cat to have him killed off. So, I put my name in to call if no angel shows up tonight. I will go and adopt him and foster him until I can find him a home. And I have to find him a home. I can't inflict 3 cats on Sam and I can't have 3 outdoor cats in the neighbourhood - its impossible to keep one in while the others go outside. So, I will segregate him in Jane's bedroom and Otis will go berserk keeping all of us up, including my school-aged daughter. Fred is not happy about this. He is afraid that Otis will start peeing again and/or Star will. I am worried about the disruption in our already stressed out over-tired household. What else am I to do? Susan M Otis and Chester |
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I am an idiot - Star
On Jan 17, 8:06 pm, Susan M wrote:
I have been to visit Star twice now. This second time, he settled on my lap and purred again. Curled up in the tiniest little cat disc (how can a cat be so small?) and purred. He kneaded and rubbed and mrrp'd. He looked at me with his beautiful golden orbs. He likes me and he trusts me. They said that they thought that he must have been abused because of how careful you have to be around his head. Also, he has cowered when men have been in the room. I have now developed a story about him which may be completely incorrect. He seemed so comfortable and loving on my lap and it made me think that he was some girl's or woman's pet and some nasty guy hurt the girl by taking the cat and dumping him in the park behind our house. I haven't slept well in 11 months and I'm very emotional. I'm trying to wean the baby for a variety of medical reasons and the baby is hysterical. I'm not sleeping. Fred is not sleeping, and the baby is not sleeping. My MIL has pancreatic cancer, I'm going in for major surgery (non-elective but non-life threatening) in four weeks and will be unable to lift the baby after for 12 weeks (very stressful for both of us), my husband is travelling with his new job, my son is still unhappy, my son still has allergies, and my cats seem to be slowing down. I found out that, if he isn't adopted tonight, Star will be PTS tomorrow AM. I didn't save the cat to have him killed off. So, I put my name in to call if no angel shows up tonight. I will go and adopt him and foster him until I can find him a home. And I have to find him a home. I can't inflict 3 cats on Sam and I can't have 3 outdoor cats in the neighbourhood - its impossible to keep one in while the others go outside. So, I will segregate him in Jane's bedroom and Otis will go berserk keeping all of us up, including my school-aged daughter. Fred is not happy about this. He is afraid that Otis will start peeing again and/or Star will. I am worried about the disruption in our already stressed out over-tired household. What else am I to do? Susan M Otis and Chester Susan, We are sending you lots of purrs that you are able to find Star a onetruehome really soon. We all know you couldn't have done anything less than what you have because we all know you, but we also know it isn't an ideal situation for you so hopefully it won't last long. You are hero in the eyes of my furry family. Julie, Hobbes, Lacey, Sam and Barnabus |
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I am an idiot - Star
"Susan M" wrote in message
... I have been to visit Star twice now. This second time, he settled on my lap and purred again. Curled up in the tiniest little cat disc (how can a cat be so small?) and purred. He kneaded and rubbed and mrrp'd. He looked at me with his beautiful golden orbs. He likes me and he trusts me. They said that they thought that he must have been abused because of how careful you have to be around his head. Also, he has cowered when men have been in the room. I have now developed a story about him which may be completely incorrect. He seemed so comfortable and loving on my lap and it made me think that he was some girl's or woman's pet and some nasty guy hurt the girl by taking the cat and dumping him in the park behind our house. I haven't slept well in 11 months and I'm very emotional. I'm trying to wean the baby for a variety of medical reasons and the baby is hysterical. I'm not sleeping. Fred is not sleeping, and the baby is not sleeping. My MIL has pancreatic cancer, I'm going in for major surgery (non-elective but non-life threatening) in four weeks and will be unable to lift the baby after for 12 weeks (very stressful for both of us), my husband is travelling with his new job, my son is still unhappy, my son still has allergies, and my cats seem to be slowing down. I found out that, if he isn't adopted tonight, Star will be PTS tomorrow AM. I didn't save the cat to have him killed off. So, I put my name in to call if no angel shows up tonight. I will go and adopt him and foster him until I can find him a home. And I have to find him a home. I can't inflict 3 cats on Sam and I can't have 3 outdoor cats in the neighbourhood - its impossible to keep one in while the others go outside. So, I will segregate him in Jane's bedroom and Otis will go berserk keeping all of us up, including my school-aged daughter. Fred is not happy about this. He is afraid that Otis will start peeing again and/or Star will. I am worried about the disruption in our already stressed out over-tired household. What else am I to do? Susan M Otis and Chester ((((((((Susan)))))))) |
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I am an idiot - Star
Right now, taking Star in is as non-elective as any of the other things that
are going on in your life. And like the other things that are going on, I pray and purr that everything works out as it should and in the fairly near future. While taking in Star will of course make things more difficult, so will not taking him. I really don't mean this to sound as if I'm telling you what to do, just trying to repeat make what you've already said you have to do. I'm guessing your emotional state is one of the most critical things going on for all of you right now. And it is what it is. Anyone in their almost right mind would be feeling extremely emotional right now in the same circumstances. So you have to do what you need to do for you as much as you are able. Sitting and holding Star the next while could be a Godsend. Purrs of course for you and your family. Remember, you aren't doing anything wrong. It just feels that way sometimes. Such is being a parent. The baby will adjust. Of course he's unhappy about it right now, but he has been so lucky to have all these months. Extra purrs that Otis behaves a lot better than you expect. Jo "Susan M" wrote in message ... I have been to visit Star twice now. This second time, he settled on my lap and purred again. Curled up in the tiniest little cat disc (how can a cat be so small?) and purred. He kneaded and rubbed and mrrp'd. He looked at me with his beautiful golden orbs. He likes me and he trusts me. They said that they thought that he must have been abused because of how careful you have to be around his head. Also, he has cowered when men have been in the room. I have now developed a story about him which may be completely incorrect. He seemed so comfortable and loving on my lap and it made me think that he was some girl's or woman's pet and some nasty guy hurt the girl by taking the cat and dumping him in the park behind our house. I haven't slept well in 11 months and I'm very emotional. I'm trying to wean the baby for a variety of medical reasons and the baby is hysterical. I'm not sleeping. Fred is not sleeping, and the baby is not sleeping. My MIL has pancreatic cancer, I'm going in for major surgery (non-elective but non-life threatening) in four weeks and will be unable to lift the baby after for 12 weeks (very stressful for both of us), my husband is travelling with his new job, my son is still unhappy, my son still has allergies, and my cats seem to be slowing down. I found out that, if he isn't adopted tonight, Star will be PTS tomorrow AM. I didn't save the cat to have him killed off. So, I put my name in to call if no angel shows up tonight. I will go and adopt him and foster him until I can find him a home. And I have to find him a home. I can't inflict 3 cats on Sam and I can't have 3 outdoor cats in the neighbourhood - its impossible to keep one in while the others go outside. So, I will segregate him in Jane's bedroom and Otis will go berserk keeping all of us up, including my school-aged daughter. Fred is not happy about this. He is afraid that Otis will start peeing again and/or Star will. I am worried about the disruption in our already stressed out over-tired household. What else am I to do? Susan M Otis and Chester |
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Susan M wrote:
What else am I to do? You are not an idiot, you are a wonderful, caring and loving human being. Purrs that Star finds his forever home soon! -- Victor M. Martinez Owned and operated by the Fantastic Seven (TM) Send your spam he Email me he |
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"GaDragonfly" wrote in message
... On Jan 17, 8:06 pm, Susan M wrote: I have been to visit Star twice now. This second time, he settled on my lap and purred again. Curled up in the tiniest little cat disc (how can a cat be so small?) and purred. He kneaded and rubbed and mrrp'd. He looked at me with his beautiful golden orbs. He likes me and he trusts me. They said that they thought that he must have been abused because of how careful you have to be around his head. Also, he has cowered when men have been in the room. I have now developed a story about him which may be completely incorrect. He seemed so comfortable and loving on my lap and it made me think that he was some girl's or woman's pet and some nasty guy hurt the girl by taking the cat and dumping him in the park behind our house. I haven't slept well in 11 months and I'm very emotional. I'm trying to wean the baby for a variety of medical reasons and the baby is hysterical. I'm not sleeping. Fred is not sleeping, and the baby is not sleeping. My MIL has pancreatic cancer, I'm going in for major surgery (non-elective but non-life threatening) in four weeks and will be unable to lift the baby after for 12 weeks (very stressful for both of us), my husband is travelling with his new job, my son is still unhappy, my son still has allergies, and my cats seem to be slowing down. I found out that, if he isn't adopted tonight, Star will be PTS tomorrow AM. I didn't save the cat to have him killed off. So, I put my name in to call if no angel shows up tonight. I will go and adopt him and foster him until I can find him a home. And I have to find him a home. I can't inflict 3 cats on Sam and I can't have 3 outdoor cats in the neighbourhood - its impossible to keep one in while the others go outside. So, I will segregate him in Jane's bedroom and Otis will go berserk keeping all of us up, including my school-aged daughter. Fred is not happy about this. He is afraid that Otis will start peeing again and/or Star will. I am worried about the disruption in our already stressed out over-tired household. What else am I to do? Susan M Otis and Chester Susan, We are sending you lots of purrs that you are able to find Star a onetruehome really soon. We all know you couldn't have done anything less than what you have because we all know you, but we also know it isn't an ideal situation for you so hopefully it won't last long. You are hero in the eyes of my furry family. What Julie said. You are a hero, doing your best for everyone if a very tough situation. We are so proud of you. Purrs that your life gets less hectic.... Yowie |
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I am an idiot - Star
Susan M wrote:
I have been to visit Star twice now. This second time, he settled on my lap and purred again. Curled up in the tiniest little cat disc (how can a cat be so small?) and purred. He kneaded and rubbed and mrrp'd. He looked at me with his beautiful golden orbs. He likes me and he trusts me. They said that they thought that he must have been abused because of how careful you have to be around his head. Also, he has cowered when men have been in the room. I have now developed a story about him which may be completely incorrect. He seemed so comfortable and loving on my lap and it made me think that he was some girl's or woman's pet and some nasty guy hurt the girl by taking the cat and dumping him in the park behind our house. I haven't slept well in 11 months and I'm very emotional. I'm trying to wean the baby for a variety of medical reasons and the baby is hysterical. I'm not sleeping. Fred is not sleeping, and the baby is not sleeping. My MIL has pancreatic cancer, I'm going in for major surgery (non-elective but non-life threatening) in four weeks and will be unable to lift the baby after for 12 weeks (very stressful for both of us), my husband is travelling with his new job, my son is still unhappy, my son still has allergies, and my cats seem to be slowing down. I found out that, if he isn't adopted tonight, Star will be PTS tomorrow AM. I didn't save the cat to have him killed off. So, I put my name in to call if no angel shows up tonight. I will go and adopt him and foster him until I can find him a home. And I have to find him a home. I can't inflict 3 cats on Sam and I can't have 3 outdoor cats in the neighbourhood - its impossible to keep one in while the others go outside. So, I will segregate him in Jane's bedroom and Otis will go berserk keeping all of us up, including my school-aged daughter. Fred is not happy about this. He is afraid that Otis will start peeing again and/or Star will. I am worried about the disruption in our already stressed out over-tired household. What else am I to do? Susan M Otis and Chester First of all, you are *not* an idiot. You a sensitive and caring person who can't bear the alternative to fostering Star to give him a chance. Sending you and your family our strongest purrs and prayers that everyone comes through these ordeals as well as can be expected. Sam, supervised by Mistletoe |
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sam wrote:
First of all, you are *not* an idiot. You a sensitive and caring person who can't bear the alternative to fostering Star to give him a chance. Sending you and your family our strongest purrs and prayers that everyone comes through these ordeals as well as can be expected. I clicked on their website to see his picture again tonight and there were tons of kitties on there - more than I've ever seen. He is but one of whole bunch of kitties who won't make it. Every one of them is deserving. Ugh. Susan M Otis and Chester |
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Susan M wrote:
What else am I to do? I agree with Julie, you're not an idiot but definitely a hero. It is a very difficult situation, and I wish I could help you bear the burden of it all. We will be purring for Star to find a perfect forever home ASAP. And we will be purring for you and the rest of your family in this difficult situation. -- Marina, Miranda and Caliban. In loving memory of Frank and Nikki. |
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I am an idiot - Star
On Jan 17, 11:44 pm, Susan M wrote:
sam wrote: First of all, you are *not* an idiot. You a sensitive and caring person who can't bear the alternative to fostering Star to give him a chance. Sending you and your family our strongest purrs and prayers that everyone comes through these ordeals as well as can be expected. I clicked on their website to see his picture again tonight and there were tons of kitties on there - more than I've ever seen. He is but one of whole bunch of kitties who won't make it. Every one of them is deserving. Ugh. Susan M Otis and Chester Susan, Every one of those kittens is deserving, this is true, but only one of those kittens has captured your heart right now and even helping that one is stretching your resources. Do not think about what is going to happen to the others. Sometimes that is the only way to stay sane. Stay focused on the good you are doing by rescuing Star and giving him a chance at a better home. After this experience you might find that Otis doesn't respond as violently as you suspect might happen, that young Sam might not be as allergic to a foster cat. You might learn that you can foster one cat at a time and help some of the others, but right now, focus on yourself, your family and what you can do for Star. Remember you are doing a very good thing, don't get depressed over the ones you can't help, enjoy the pride in helping Star. Hugs, Julie |
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