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New Cat Mom Needs Help!
Hello! I am a new cat mom with some worries. I am having a hard time
leaving my cat Rudy (1.5 year old Tabby) at home while I am gone even an hour. I think part of it is I am worried he will get into something and get hurt or be lonely and decide to be overly snoopy. This is my first cat ever and my husbands first in many years. He says everything will be fine because we cat proofed, but I still worry about something we missed! Help! I am going crazy! We have a lot of toys laying around and a couch next to a window so he can peer out, but I still find myself overly anxious leaving for even an hour! Any suggestions? |
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New Cat Mom Needs Help!
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Hello! I am a new cat mom with some worries. I am having a hard time leaving my cat Rudy (1.5 year old Tabby) at home while I am gone even an hour. I think part of it is I am worried he will get into something and get hurt or be lonely and decide to be overly snoopy. This is my first cat ever and my husbands first in many years. He says everything will be fine because we cat proofed, but I still worry about something Any suggestions? Yes, relax. This isn't a dog who has to be worried about to the same levels. Sure, Rudy likes to have folks around, but he'll be fine while you go shopping. I gather he hasnt been with you long yet? |
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New Cat Mom Needs Help!
Hello and welcome to the wonderful world of cats! You're cat is in the
"adolesent" stage and has a lot of energy. Take care to keep things like string, thread, rubber bands, plastic bags, and objects like pins, needles, etc. out of reach. Also, here is a list of dangerous plants for cats: http://www.cfainc.org/articles/plants.html As with children. keep chemicals, cleaners, and the like out of reach. If your cat likes wires, buy clear plastic tubing, slit it open, and place the wires inside the tube. Do you have a cat tree? Many cats, especially energetic ones, love to climb them, or perch on them. Also, you can rotate his toys so he always has something "new" to play with. Try adding simple toys, like wads of crumpled paper, ping pong balls, or a paper bag (no handles) randomly. Lastly, he will adjust to your schedule. Cats crave routine and will adjust to when you're not at home. If you're concerned about him getting into trouble, have a vigorous play session with him just before you leave. You'll tire him out and he'll go to sleep while you're away. |
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On Jan 30, 9:16*am, "Rene S." wrote:
Hello and welcome to the wonderful world of cats! You're cat is in the "adolesent" stage and has a lot of energy. Take care to keep things like string, thread, rubber bands, plastic bags, and objects like pins, needles, etc. out of reach. Also, here is a list of dangerous plants for cats:http://www.cfainc.org/articles/plants.html As with children. keep chemicals, cleaners, and the like out of reach. If your cat likes wires, buy clear plastic tubing, slit it open, and place the wires inside the tube. Do you have a cat tree? Many cats, especially energetic ones, love to climb them, or perch on them. Also, you can rotate his toys so he always has something "new" to play with. Try adding simple toys, like wads of crumpled paper, ping pong balls, or a paper bag (no handles) randomly. Lastly, he will adjust to your schedule. Cats crave routine and will adjust to when you're not at home. If you're concerned about him getting into trouble, have a vigorous play session with him just before you leave. You'll tire him out and he'll go to sleep while you're away. If you ar that worried you can always put him with toys in a big cat cage 4'X3' and 4' tall with shelves for jumping up and down. |
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"James" wrote If you ar that worried you can always put him with toys in a big cat cage 4'X3' and 4' tall with shelves for jumping up and down. James! You're still alive! I felt sure you must have frozen to death by now. |
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New Cat Mom Needs Help!
wrote in message ... Hello! I am a new cat mom with some worries. I am having a hard time leaving my cat Rudy (1.5 year old Tabby) at home while I am gone even an hour. I think part of it is I am worried he will get into something and get hurt or be lonely and decide to be overly snoopy. This is my first cat ever and my husbands first in many years. He says everything will be fine because we cat proofed, but I still worry about something we missed! Help! I am going crazy! We have a lot of toys laying around and a couch next to a window so he can peer out, but I still find myself overly anxious leaving for even an hour! Any suggestions? This is really a replication of what the others have said, but it may ease your mind to see that a number of us agree. First, relax! Cats do very well on their own, as long as they have plenty of toys and nice places to snuggle up. Have good, sturdy scratching posts handy, too. I have them in every room except the bathrooms. My cats use them as scratching posts but also climb them, and Duffy likes to "perch" on them. Second, a cat tree is great for cats. Make sure it is tall and sturdy. It's best if you get one with three or four beds or "levels" that your cat can use, and place it beside a window where kitty can look outside. Third, you might want to consider getting a kitty companion. Adopt one from an animal shelter; it will save the life of another cat, give your resident cat a companion, and bring pleasure to you. Incidentally, your cat probably spends a *large* percentage of his time napping. That's one of the things cats do best! Note: You said you have cat proofed. Be *very sure* when you do that to get rid of (or securely place in inaccessible drawers) any ribbons, string, rubber bands, paper clips, etc. Cats love to play with them, but they can be deadly if swallowed. If you have any toys on the end of a rope, make sure that they are out *only* when you are on the other end of the toy! MaryL |
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On Jan 29, 10:23*pm, wrote:
Hello! I am a new cat mom with some worries. I am having a hard time leaving my cat Rudy (1.5 year old Tabby) at home while I am gone even an hour. I think part of it is I am worried he will get into something and get hurt or be lonely and decide to be overly snoopy. This is my first cat ever and my husbands first in many years. He says everything will be fine because we cat proofed, but I still worry about something we missed! Help! I am going crazy! We have a lot of toys laying around and a couch next to a window so he can peer out, but I still find myself overly anxious leaving for even an hour! Any suggestions? Thank you everyone for your help! I left today to get groceries and I came back and he was snoozing on the bed, of course he was playing with all his new toys I got him while I was out. I couldnt resist I guess I just have to get used to the new guy being around. |
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On Jan 30, 12:37*pm, "cybercat" wrote:
"James" wrote If you ar that worried you can always put him with toys in a big cat cage 4'X3' and 4' tall with shelves for jumping up and down. James! You're still alive! I felt sure you must have frozen to death by now. I'm now used to waking at 50F as I turn off the heat at bed time. |
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MaryL wrote:
Note: You said you have cat proofed. Be *very sure* when you do that to get rid of (or securely place in inaccessible drawers) any ribbons, string, rubber bands, paper clips, etc. Cats love to play with them, but they can be deadly if swallowed. If you have any toys on the end of a rope, make sure that they are out *only* when you are on the other end of the toy! MaryL I second this suggestion. I am going through a bout of diagnosis with one of my cats right now. He had been barfing, no eating or drinking, so we put him up at the vet on IVs for a few days. We thought there might be an obstruction, because I found a piece of chewed plastic from around the edge of a milk bottle. Anyway, to diagnose it required x-rays and a barium series. If it turned out to be an obstruction, surgery might have been required. just getting to that point ran up a little over $1K. If surgery had been required, I have no idea what more it would have cost. Not saying that cost is the main thing, it's not - just that you should be very careful to truly catproof, remove rubber bands, little pieces of just about anything, to prevent what can be very serious. Not trying to scare you, but before I found out it WASN'T an obstruction, I was kicking myself for letting that piece of plastic slip through the cracks. I hope everyone else is smarter than me! In my case, still no diagnosis, cat will now eat a little, but is lethargic and fevered, scheduled for a specialist Tuesday :-( |
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