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  #56  
Old November 14th 03, 03:27 PM
MaryL
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"Luvskats00" wrote in message
...
...Sometimes cats that have
problems like this, at this age are almost irreversible. I agree with

Mary
regarding putting her in a bathroom until she settles down, and you get

on a
normal sleeping schedule, and minimize your damages....granted your
resident cat is neutered and declawed, I would just let them go at it.

You
are dealing with two elderly cats, not tigers. They are going to have to
deal with each other eventually


I hope I'm making correct decisions here. I'm caging her until I know she

can
use the litterbox NOT my bed...and she goes 24 hours w/out throwing up.

As for
putting her in the bathroom...I don't want to find any surprises in
there...putting her in the bathroom will NOT force her to use the
litterbox...As for sleeping...I do need to replace the mattress..it is
impossible to mask the odor AND that is a trigger to the new cat as a

place to
pea and a trigger to the resident cat as a territorial marker to frenzy

about.
I am still considering a week's stay at a mental health facility...more

updates
later. Thanky thanky all.


Putting her in the bathroom would not force her to use a litterbox, but it
surely would be easier to clean than your mattress. If the floor is vinyl
(rather than carpet), then it would be easier still.

MaryL


  #57  
Old November 14th 03, 03:27 PM
MaryL
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"Luvskats00" wrote in message
...
...Sometimes cats that have
problems like this, at this age are almost irreversible. I agree with

Mary
regarding putting her in a bathroom until she settles down, and you get

on a
normal sleeping schedule, and minimize your damages....granted your
resident cat is neutered and declawed, I would just let them go at it.

You
are dealing with two elderly cats, not tigers. They are going to have to
deal with each other eventually


I hope I'm making correct decisions here. I'm caging her until I know she

can
use the litterbox NOT my bed...and she goes 24 hours w/out throwing up.

As for
putting her in the bathroom...I don't want to find any surprises in
there...putting her in the bathroom will NOT force her to use the
litterbox...As for sleeping...I do need to replace the mattress..it is
impossible to mask the odor AND that is a trigger to the new cat as a

place to
pea and a trigger to the resident cat as a territorial marker to frenzy

about.
I am still considering a week's stay at a mental health facility...more

updates
later. Thanky thanky all.


Putting her in the bathroom would not force her to use a litterbox, but it
surely would be easier to clean than your mattress. If the floor is vinyl
(rather than carpet), then it would be easier still.

MaryL


  #58  
Old November 14th 03, 03:27 PM
MaryL
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"Luvskats00" wrote in message
...
...Sometimes cats that have
problems like this, at this age are almost irreversible. I agree with

Mary
regarding putting her in a bathroom until she settles down, and you get

on a
normal sleeping schedule, and minimize your damages....granted your
resident cat is neutered and declawed, I would just let them go at it.

You
are dealing with two elderly cats, not tigers. They are going to have to
deal with each other eventually


I hope I'm making correct decisions here. I'm caging her until I know she

can
use the litterbox NOT my bed...and she goes 24 hours w/out throwing up.

As for
putting her in the bathroom...I don't want to find any surprises in
there...putting her in the bathroom will NOT force her to use the
litterbox...As for sleeping...I do need to replace the mattress..it is
impossible to mask the odor AND that is a trigger to the new cat as a

place to
pea and a trigger to the resident cat as a territorial marker to frenzy

about.
I am still considering a week's stay at a mental health facility...more

updates
later. Thanky thanky all.


Putting her in the bathroom would not force her to use a litterbox, but it
surely would be easier to clean than your mattress. If the floor is vinyl
(rather than carpet), then it would be easier still.

MaryL


  #59  
Old November 14th 03, 06:52 PM
Alison
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IMO the cat is peeing on the bed to get your attention. Make the

cat sleep
somewhere else. Your the boss, you can't let her kick you out of

your own
bed!! Now you are no longer sleeping there, she must think she's

won and
has claimed your bed as her own space.


I don't think the cat's peeing on beds to get attention or to turf
her owner off the bed or to mark her territory This cat has been
through major life changes and feels threatened by the resident cat .
She's weeing on the bed because that is where her owners scent is
strongest to reassure herself. She's trying to create a group scent ,
which is why cats also rub their faces on people and other cats .
putting a tiny bit of litter from each cats tray into the other cats
and rubbing a tissue on the face glands and then rubbing on the other
cat also helps a group smell. This helps cats accept each other.



My friend had a similar problem with her 2 cats fighting, her

solution was
to put the cats in 2 separate cages and leave them in the same room

for a
couple of hours at a time. Over the days, she moved the cages

nearer and
nearer to each other so they got the cats got the opportunity to get

to know
each other in a non-life threatening manner. They got used to each

other
eventually. Patience is the key.


That would help and also feed tasty treats as well so they
associate nice things with each other.
Alison

Jeannie




  #60  
Old November 14th 03, 06:52 PM
Alison
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IMO the cat is peeing on the bed to get your attention. Make the

cat sleep
somewhere else. Your the boss, you can't let her kick you out of

your own
bed!! Now you are no longer sleeping there, she must think she's

won and
has claimed your bed as her own space.


I don't think the cat's peeing on beds to get attention or to turf
her owner off the bed or to mark her territory This cat has been
through major life changes and feels threatened by the resident cat .
She's weeing on the bed because that is where her owners scent is
strongest to reassure herself. She's trying to create a group scent ,
which is why cats also rub their faces on people and other cats .
putting a tiny bit of litter from each cats tray into the other cats
and rubbing a tissue on the face glands and then rubbing on the other
cat also helps a group smell. This helps cats accept each other.



My friend had a similar problem with her 2 cats fighting, her

solution was
to put the cats in 2 separate cages and leave them in the same room

for a
couple of hours at a time. Over the days, she moved the cages

nearer and
nearer to each other so they got the cats got the opportunity to get

to know
each other in a non-life threatening manner. They got used to each

other
eventually. Patience is the key.


That would help and also feed tasty treats as well so they
associate nice things with each other.
Alison

Jeannie




 




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