What colour candles? [OT]

I need help here. What candles should I light for my father? I'm
terrified. I think I'm going to lose him.

Jill
--
I used to have a handle on life...but it broke off.

"jmcquown" wrote in message
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I need help here. What candles should I light for my father? I'm
terrified. I think I'm going to lose him.

Jill
--
I used to have a handle on life...but it broke off.

I've heard white, turquoise, and blue are all used for healing, but I think
more importantly than the color of the candle is just using it to focus your
psychic energy and then use *that* to direct healing thoughts towards your
father. I wouldn't use dark colors - those are more associated with the
darker / stronger powers.

What's going on Jill, have you heard something else, or is the waiting
getting to you?

Please know we're sending *our* psychic energy towards you and your father -
purrs and prayers are heading your way.

Hugs,

CatNipped

"jmcquown" wrote in message
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I need help here. What candles should I light for my father? I'm
terrified. I think I'm going to lose him.

Jill

I don't know what candles, but I'm sending hugs and purrs your way.

Joy

Catnipped wrote:
"jmcquown" wrote in message
...
I need help here. What candles should I light for my father? I'm
terrified. I think I'm going to lose him.

Jill
--
I used to have a handle on life...but it broke off.

I've heard white, turquoise, and blue are all used for healing, but I
think more importantly than the color of the candle is just using it
to focus your psychic energy and then use *that* to direct healing
thoughts towards your father. I wouldn't use dark colors - those are
more associated with the darker / stronger powers.

What's going on Jill, have you heard something else, or is the waiting
getting to you?

Please know we're sending *our* psychic energy towards you and your
father - purrs and prayers are heading your way.

Hugs,

CatNipped

It's the waiting and not knowing that is getting to me.

Persia is being very supportive. My LLL is being supportive over the phone
halfway to a show in Kansas. Peaches is quietly chirping. I'm worried
sick.

Jill

Jill

"jmcquown" wrote in message
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Catnipped wrote:
"jmcquown" wrote in message
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I need help here. What candles should I light for my father? I'm
terrified. I think I'm going to lose him.

Jill
--
I used to have a handle on life...but it broke off.

I've heard white, turquoise, and blue are all used for healing, but I
think more importantly than the color of the candle is just using it
to focus your psychic energy and then use *that* to direct healing
thoughts towards your father. I wouldn't use dark colors - those are
more associated with the darker / stronger powers.

What's going on Jill, have you heard something else, or is the waiting
getting to you?

Please know we're sending *our* psychic energy towards you and your
father - purrs and prayers are heading your way.

Hugs,

CatNipped

It's the waiting and not knowing that is getting to me.

Persia is being very supportive. My LLL is being supportive over the
phone
halfway to a show in Kansas. Peaches is quietly chirping. I'm worried
sick.

Ah! Well, you can come here and we'll worry with you to keep you company!
;

Have faith, the power of purrs is sometimes amazingly powerful!

Hugs,

CatNipped

"jmcquown" wrote in message
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I need help here. What candles should I light for my father? I'm
terrified. I think I'm going to lose him.

Whatever colour feels "right" to you, something you associate with your
father, something you associate with good things, wholeness, healing etc
etc.

In the end, i don't think its the colour of the candle that matters so much
as your thoughts and prayers.

And our thoughts and prayers and purrs are with you & your Dad.

Yowie

"jmcquown" wrote in message
...
I need help here. What candles should I light for my father? I'm
terrified. I think I'm going to lose him.

Jill
--
I used to have a handle on life...but it broke off.


Purrs and purrayers for your dad and for you, Jill.
Christine and Omar, Oreo, Midnight, Robin & Tucker

"jmcquown" wrote in message
...
I need help here. What candles should I light for my father? I'm
terrified. I think I'm going to lose him.

Jill
--
I used to have a handle on life...but it broke off.

Purrs still winging their way for your Dad.
Sam (by myself tonight - not sure why)
Mistletoe is on supervisor break.

Jill wrote:

I need help here. What candles should I light for my father? I'm
terrified. I think I'm going to lose him.

I don't have any worthwhile advice on candle color, but I've got an
observation for anyone who has a gravely ill relative.

The fear of losing someone you love can be mind-numbing. Don't let it
cut you off from communication with him. When my mother told me she
had cancer, I let it put a distance between us because I was afraid
that any conversation would necessarily turn morbid. It was a mistake
I've regretted ever since.

Light a candle, but call him up just to say hello.

Regards and Best of Purrs,
O J (Old John) Gritmon

I've heard white, turquoise, and blue are all used for healing, but I think
more importantly than the color of the candle is just using it to focus your
psychic energy and then use *that* to direct healing thoughts towards your
father. I wouldn't use dark colors - those are more associated with the
darker / stronger powers.

I agree. Far more important than color is the energy you direct through
it. You can never go wrong with good old white, as long as you focus
your energies and visualize the results.

Dan