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"bigbadbarry" wrote in message oups.com... -L. wrote: kaeli wrote: It doesn't bode well for anyone who might adopt her, either. And since you know she bites, it opens up the shelter to a lawsuit. How would you feel if she was adopted out to someone and ended up biting a child in the face? If a child gets bitten by an animal, it is the fault of the parents, period. I just hate the "blame the animal" mentality. Children should never be left unsupervised with an animal, ever. -L. get in the bed It was only 11:30 where she lives. All the other humorless harridans were still up watching taped soaps. |
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"Wendy" wrote in message news "Mary" wrote in message ... "bigbadbarry" wrote in message oups.com... Wendy wrote: She didn't bite before she was adopted and declawed. I wonder how much THAT has to do with it. It's a shame people can't be forced to live with the problems they create without the cat suffering too. W I just don't understand people, who ever thought that up? declawing. It makes me *shiver* to think of it. My mind does not work like that, I can't understand how someone would consider this a solution. I did it when I was in my late teens, and I can tell you the main reason why. I thought it was like clipping claws. I had no idea it was major surgery and mutilation. My cat Gnarly was a crazy and beautiful cat. I was clueless about training her and very busy, young and stupid. She bit just for fun and to the bone, and clawed everything including me. She was volatile and unpredticable--had been a pregnant stray when I adopted her and I think people had abused her. When I saw what the vet had done to her beautiful front feet I cannot describe how I felt--except, like a Nazi. It was the worst thing I have ever done in my life, and I would never do it again. I did at least keep her her whole life and keep her inside and safe--no consolation for the mutilation, though. Vets in some places just make it seem like no big deal. I really had no idea, and I thought it was a common practice. There are many people who know exactly what they are doing to the cat and do it anyway. And then when they ask where is the CHEAPEST place to get it done I'm about to go ballistic. I know. Carl, the guy who came in here and announced that he had his three beautiful kittens all declawed and spayed at the same time, knew exactly what he was doing, and why: for the sake of the upholstered walls he had just put in his house. And to make his wife happy. And demanded not to hear anything negative about what he had done. I could not comply. |
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"Wendy" wrote in message news There are many people who know exactly what they are doing to the cat and do it anyway. And then when they ask where is the CHEAPEST place to get it done I'm about to go ballistic. That is what happened to my beautiful Amber (RB). She was two years old when I adopted her, and *all four paws* had been declawed. She was truly a little angel -- one of the sweetest, gentlest cats I have ever seen. These same people permitted their 13-month-old toddler to haul her around by the tail (it's a marvel that she never lashed out and bit him), and they couldn't understand why she was so frightened of people. They were expecting a second child and had decided that it would now be impossible to live in their mobile home with a cat and two children -- so they either had to find someone to adopt the cat (at that time named "Puffy") or they were going to put her outdoors, even with no claws. I adopted her, changed her name to Amber, and she soon became my little sweetheart. She lost all fear of other people. Just as described by Wendy, these people had selected the cheapest vet to do the dirty work. Her poor little paws were mutilated. She compensated very well for the loss of her claws, but she never did have the same type of balance and agility that all my other cats have had. She did not develop the behavioral problems that often accompanies the loss of claws, but she did develop arthritis in her paws and that led to urinating outside the litter box, starting at age 13 -- not behavioral in her case, I think, but a simple matter that it was painful to move litter around. I bought the softest litter I could find, and that helped for awhile; but she eventually urinated outside the litter box at least as often as within it. For awhile, I tried to cover the areas she was using, but I finally decided that it would be better just to let her use one spot and clean it as best I could. I'm happy I did that (despite the obvious unpleasant nature of it) because she was simply trying to avoid the discomfort that her original "owners" caused. She lived to be age 16, and I believe she was happy for at least 14 of those years (the years we had together). MaryL |
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