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Have you checked into food allergies for Shamrock? Poor guy, I wish they
could talk and tell us what's wrong. -- -Kelly kelly at farringtons dot net Check out www.snittens.com "Cheryl" wrote in message ... "KellyH" dumped this in news:NjQmc.37224$Ia6.6488697@attbi_s03 on 07 May 2004: OK, you all might think I'm off my rocker, but sometimes I wonder if cats can be bipolar. My Bartleby acts a lot like Shamrock. I wonder that, too. I've read your posts about Bartleby and he reminds me of Shamrock, also. The NewCat thread sounded so similar. Luckily, his obnoxious times aren't quite as bad, but the change in personality is similar. Sometimes he is we call "being pathetic", where he's super lovey, plows his head into me, kneads and mock-nurses my arm, he walks around this house making a little wimpering sound, and snuggling with the other cats. Then other times, he's a terror, annoying the other cats, chasing NewCat, knocking glasses of water over (his favorite way to get my attention), Shamrock does this, too. But, he's not particular about what he knocks over. If it falls and makes a noise, it suites him fine. I don't get emotional about it because that seems to be what he wants. and if no one pays attention to him, he will go sulk in the basement. He will also be a total pain in the morning, where he keeps jumping up on the headboard and then onto me. I also tried Rescue Remedy and it had no effect. He gets very sad when it's overcast and/or raining. I know that sounds strange, but it's true. I've also thought about taking him to a behaviorist, the vet mentioned it when I told her that Bartleby eats his and the other cats' hair (the clumps from when I brush them). Very weird. Shamrock rubs his nose in fur clumps but doesn't eat it. His queue to Shadow that he's about to attack is to stick his nose in Shadows fur, somewhere around the back or neck area. Shadow has learned that queue and gets very upset when he does it, then runs and hides. I wonder if Shamrock could be experiencing "'roid rage" from the depo shots? Is that a steroid? I have definitely wondered that myself. Unfortunately the depo shots are the only thing that clears up his lesions. He's much worse during a flare-up. I've just recently tried Frontline Plus; I have always used Advantage on him because it is so similar to a flea allergy but none have ever been seen. Even the vets have sort of ruled out fleas, but I do know that it can only take a single flea bite to start the itching and then, lesions. Right this minute he is snuggling up to me, purring yet when I touch him, his mouth opens and he's ready to bite me. Something is surely bothering this cat. -- Cheryl /not touching Shamrock for a while. sigh |
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"KellyH" dumped this in
news:7xXmc.1615$xw3.133860@attbi_s04 on 07 May 2004: Have you checked into food allergies for Shamrock? Poor guy, I wish they could talk and tell us what's wrong. I've talked about that with his vet. She doesn't believe it is a food allergy because depo shots keep his skin clear for 2-3 months. She said if it was a food allergy, depo wouldn't work for that long. Especially since he eats the same things all the time. We tried to go the ellimination route but it was Hills ZD and being a dry food, he wouldn't eat it. Plus, it irks the hell out of Shadow's IBD and if there is dry food around, it is hard to keep Shadow out of it. He wouldn't touch the canned IVD hypo-allergenic foods. I have thought it was a fish allergy but again, the vet doesn't believe it to be a food allergy. She diagnosed him with EGC by ellimination of other possibilies and EGC can sometimes be idiopathic. I can tell she still thinks it is fleas by the way she combs him every time we go in for a shot. Some people here have suggested it could be a residue on the carpet, and that could be the case. I still haven't done a steam cleaning with just steam (no detergent) but now that spring is here, I think it is time. -- Cheryl |
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"KellyH" dumped this in
news:7xXmc.1615$xw3.133860@attbi_s04 on 07 May 2004: Have you checked into food allergies for Shamrock? Poor guy, I wish they could talk and tell us what's wrong. I've talked about that with his vet. She doesn't believe it is a food allergy because depo shots keep his skin clear for 2-3 months. She said if it was a food allergy, depo wouldn't work for that long. Especially since he eats the same things all the time. We tried to go the ellimination route but it was Hills ZD and being a dry food, he wouldn't eat it. Plus, it irks the hell out of Shadow's IBD and if there is dry food around, it is hard to keep Shadow out of it. He wouldn't touch the canned IVD hypo-allergenic foods. I have thought it was a fish allergy but again, the vet doesn't believe it to be a food allergy. She diagnosed him with EGC by ellimination of other possibilies and EGC can sometimes be idiopathic. I can tell she still thinks it is fleas by the way she combs him every time we go in for a shot. Some people here have suggested it could be a residue on the carpet, and that could be the case. I still haven't done a steam cleaning with just steam (no detergent) but now that spring is here, I think it is time. -- Cheryl |
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"KellyH" wrote in message news:jsXmc.1593$536.371909@attbi_s03... "Alison" wrote in message ... Bear in mind that in keeping cats as pets , they're not living the life they are programmed for. By keeping them as pets they have everything provided for them and fussing and petting them and they never really "grow up " . The kneading and purring is reverting to kittenhood and it's pleasant for both cat and owner but they still have that wild side to them that wants to hunt and "walk alone." Crying for attention, kneading , having a wild funny turn and waking owners in the night , I should think all pet cats do this at some times, mine does, it's when it's excessive it becomes a problem to the owner. It's more likely to become excessive when you have more than one cat and also keep them indoors, you're putting them in a stressful situation That's not to say that ALL indoor mulitple cats have problems and that indoor/outdoor mulitple cats never do. ( I'm just making a statement , not arguing whether cats should stay in or go out ) I strongly disagree that keeping multiple cats indoors is stressful for them. It can be for cats that have no stimulation, and usually only cats exhibit signs of boredom. We have a good sized house, the cats do not appear to be crowded and they all have their own places they like to hang out. There are lots of windows and a large cat tower for them to climb. Maybe I should clarify: the episodes of bad behavior I describe with Bartleby are not typical. These do not happen every day. We were going through a stretch of him chasing NewCat a week or two ago, but that appears to have resolved. I know having 6 cats seems like a lot, but everyone who comes over remarks how friendly and well-adjusted they all are. My petsitter couldn't believe I have such a calm cat family. Perhaps your cat is bipoplar or maybe he is bored or frustrated. Maybe he is chewing because he is lacking something in his diet, has an illness or has a behaviour problem. Cats are changable by nature, what we consider odd behaviour is natural to them. I think a behaviourist would be a good idea if he or she could come to your house to assess the situation. Alison I have heard of pica in cats, perhaps Bartleby has a touch of that, and that's why he eats hair sometimes. -- -Kelly kelly at farringtons dot net Check out www.snittens.com |
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"KellyH" wrote in message news:jsXmc.1593$536.371909@attbi_s03... "Alison" wrote in message ... Bear in mind that in keeping cats as pets , they're not living the life they are programmed for. By keeping them as pets they have everything provided for them and fussing and petting them and they never really "grow up " . The kneading and purring is reverting to kittenhood and it's pleasant for both cat and owner but they still have that wild side to them that wants to hunt and "walk alone." Crying for attention, kneading , having a wild funny turn and waking owners in the night , I should think all pet cats do this at some times, mine does, it's when it's excessive it becomes a problem to the owner. It's more likely to become excessive when you have more than one cat and also keep them indoors, you're putting them in a stressful situation That's not to say that ALL indoor mulitple cats have problems and that indoor/outdoor mulitple cats never do. ( I'm just making a statement , not arguing whether cats should stay in or go out ) I strongly disagree that keeping multiple cats indoors is stressful for them. It can be for cats that have no stimulation, and usually only cats exhibit signs of boredom. We have a good sized house, the cats do not appear to be crowded and they all have their own places they like to hang out. There are lots of windows and a large cat tower for them to climb. Maybe I should clarify: the episodes of bad behavior I describe with Bartleby are not typical. These do not happen every day. We were going through a stretch of him chasing NewCat a week or two ago, but that appears to have resolved. I know having 6 cats seems like a lot, but everyone who comes over remarks how friendly and well-adjusted they all are. My petsitter couldn't believe I have such a calm cat family. Perhaps your cat is bipoplar or maybe he is bored or frustrated. Maybe he is chewing because he is lacking something in his diet, has an illness or has a behaviour problem. Cats are changable by nature, what we consider odd behaviour is natural to them. I think a behaviourist would be a good idea if he or she could come to your house to assess the situation. Alison I have heard of pica in cats, perhaps Bartleby has a touch of that, and that's why he eats hair sometimes. -- -Kelly kelly at farringtons dot net Check out www.snittens.com |
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Hi Kelly ,
Every situation is different because of the personality of each cat , the personality of the owners and the circumstances they live in. You've obviously made a great effort with your cats. Alison "KellyH" wrote in message news:jsXmc.1593$536.371909@attbi_s03... " I strongly disagree that keeping multiple cats indoors is stressful for them. It can be for cats that have no stimulation, and usually only cats exhibit signs of boredom. We have a good sized house, the cats do not appear to be crowded and they all have their own places they like to hang out. There are lots of windows and a large cat tower for them to climb. Maybe I should clarify: the episodes of bad behavior I describe with Bartleby are not typical. These do not happen every day. We were going through a stretch of him chasing NewCat a week or two ago, but that appears to have resolved. I know having 6 cats seems like a lot, but everyone who comes over remarks how friendly and well-adjusted they all are. My petsitter couldn't believe I have such a calm cat family. Perhaps your cat is bipoplar or maybe he is bored or frustrated. Maybe he is chewing because he is lacking something in his diet, has an illness or has a behaviour problem. Cats are changable by nature, what we consider odd behaviour is natural to them. I think a behaviourist would be a good idea if he or she could come to your house to assess the situation. Alison I have heard of pica in cats, perhaps Bartleby has a touch of that, and that's why he eats hair sometimes. -- -Kelly kelly at farringtons dot net Check out www.snittens.com |
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Hi Kelly ,
Every situation is different because of the personality of each cat , the personality of the owners and the circumstances they live in. You've obviously made a great effort with your cats. Alison "KellyH" wrote in message news:jsXmc.1593$536.371909@attbi_s03... " I strongly disagree that keeping multiple cats indoors is stressful for them. It can be for cats that have no stimulation, and usually only cats exhibit signs of boredom. We have a good sized house, the cats do not appear to be crowded and they all have their own places they like to hang out. There are lots of windows and a large cat tower for them to climb. Maybe I should clarify: the episodes of bad behavior I describe with Bartleby are not typical. These do not happen every day. We were going through a stretch of him chasing NewCat a week or two ago, but that appears to have resolved. I know having 6 cats seems like a lot, but everyone who comes over remarks how friendly and well-adjusted they all are. My petsitter couldn't believe I have such a calm cat family. Perhaps your cat is bipoplar or maybe he is bored or frustrated. Maybe he is chewing because he is lacking something in his diet, has an illness or has a behaviour problem. Cats are changable by nature, what we consider odd behaviour is natural to them. I think a behaviourist would be a good idea if he or she could come to your house to assess the situation. Alison I have heard of pica in cats, perhaps Bartleby has a touch of that, and that's why he eats hair sometimes. -- -Kelly kelly at farringtons dot net Check out www.snittens.com |
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"Cheryl" wrote in message ... I've talked about that with his vet. She doesn't believe it is a food allergy because depo shots keep his skin clear for 2-3 months. She said if it was a food allergy, depo wouldn't work for that long. Especially since he eats the same things all the time. We tried to go the ellimination route but it was Hills ZD and being a dry food, he wouldn't eat it. Plus, it irks the hell out of Shadow's IBD and if there is dry food around, it is hard to keep Shadow out of it. He wouldn't touch the canned IVD hypo-allergenic foods. I have thought it was a fish allergy but again, the vet doesn't believe it to be a food allergy. She diagnosed him with EGC by ellimination of other possibilies and EGC can sometimes be idiopathic. I can tell she still thinks it is fleas by the way she combs him every time we go in for a shot. Some people here have suggested it could be a residue on the carpet, and that could be the case. I still haven't done a steam cleaning with just steam (no detergent) but now that spring is here, I think it is time. -- Cheryl Hi Cheryl , Sounds a nightmare .! As I've said before Kim has allergies. I've never had her tested but I know she is allergic to fleas and it can only take one flea bite to get her scratching , she is allergic to flea collars too and the Acclaim I spray the carpets with twice a year , if she manages to lick the spot on flea treatment , it make her bottom lip swell . I also think she is allergic to her food as well , perhaps the wheat or the additives. I give her canned food that is wheat and additive free whioch fortunately she eats . I noticed her coat improved when I stopped feeding her the ordinary cat foods. However, since she has to have a supplement Cystease which she doesn't like, the only way to get her to eat this is to mix it in a50 g Sheba or Felix each day and even this small amount seems to affect her coat . You've seen these before but I posting them again for those that haven't . Allergies http://www.marvistavet.com/html/body...allergies.html http://www.marvistavet.com/html/body...allergies.html http://www.marvistavet.com/html/body...granuloma.html About calling in a pet behaviour and calming drugs. Have you discussed drugs with your vet yet? . She is the one who will know about them, she might also ask you to consult a behaviourist first and perhaps recommend one. You have experience and understanding of cats but if you find the right behaviourist , it could be a great help but on the other hand a not so good one could do more damage. In the UK , a vet will recommend a behaviourist or you can find one through The Association of Pet Behaviour Counsellors http://www.apbc.org.uk/ and COAPE http://www.coape.f9.co.uk/ Centre Of Applied Pet Ethology The COAPE behaviourists generally will come to your house for a visit, especially for cats as they need to sum up the big picture. They take note of the lay- out of the house , each cat personality , the owners' personalities and the relationship between cats and owners and the relationship between the different cats . They assess what the problem is and what could have caused it. It can be quite a thorough interview and perhaps upsetting in cases where divorce and bereavement have occured. There are always labels for behaviour like redirected aggression or petting aggression but sometimes it's never that simple. A behaviorists trained by COAPE takes into great consideration the emotions of the cat and they will make : An emotional assessment of the cat at the time of his action(behaviour) e,g angry , aroused , frightened. A mood state assessment of how he feels generally e.g what is imposed on him by changing circumstances A Reinforcement assessment of why the behaviour persists and how can the owner reinforce a new associative behaviour.(That's the hard part!) You and the cats have been through a great deal of upset and loss and changes. From Shamrock's point of view, he has been through: his past before he met you , Shadows illness , the sad loss of your son, Shamrock's and your distress and shock at your loss , the introduction of a new cat , his own allergies, vet trips and nasty injections. Any of this alone could trigger a change of mood and anxiety in a cat, so I expect that all of these over a period of time has made Shamrock feel anxious, less competent to be able to deal with life and more emotionally reactive He deals with it by being aggressive whereas other cats might deal with it by beconing more withdrawn. None of this has been anyone's fault. I think you're doing really well and I'm surprised that you don't have worse problems with them. Also, you said that Bonnie had been chasing Shadow too, so that might have something to do with it . At the time, you shook a can of pennies at Bonnie when she chased Shadow , and it's possible that Shamrock associated the horrid noise with them and he gets aroused and angry when he sees them . This happens to people too. About 4 years, ago I had a terrible row with a near neighbour and even now, if I catch a glimpse of her I get flooded with tension and anxiety , somtimes I cross over the street or we pass and ignore each other but it wouldn't take much to start another row .( When you seperate Shadow during the day, can Bonnie and Shamrock still see him? If not maybe you could put something up like a screen door , (Pam Johnson Bennet recommends baby gates but maybe a small cat could get through them) so they can still see each other. When they meet at night , catching sight of Shadow won't act as a trigger to Shamrock's behaviour. I hope this helps a little bit and I hope I haven't upset or offended you in any way . Alison |
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"Cheryl" wrote in message ... I've talked about that with his vet. She doesn't believe it is a food allergy because depo shots keep his skin clear for 2-3 months. She said if it was a food allergy, depo wouldn't work for that long. Especially since he eats the same things all the time. We tried to go the ellimination route but it was Hills ZD and being a dry food, he wouldn't eat it. Plus, it irks the hell out of Shadow's IBD and if there is dry food around, it is hard to keep Shadow out of it. He wouldn't touch the canned IVD hypo-allergenic foods. I have thought it was a fish allergy but again, the vet doesn't believe it to be a food allergy. She diagnosed him with EGC by ellimination of other possibilies and EGC can sometimes be idiopathic. I can tell she still thinks it is fleas by the way she combs him every time we go in for a shot. Some people here have suggested it could be a residue on the carpet, and that could be the case. I still haven't done a steam cleaning with just steam (no detergent) but now that spring is here, I think it is time. -- Cheryl Hi Cheryl , Sounds a nightmare .! As I've said before Kim has allergies. I've never had her tested but I know she is allergic to fleas and it can only take one flea bite to get her scratching , she is allergic to flea collars too and the Acclaim I spray the carpets with twice a year , if she manages to lick the spot on flea treatment , it make her bottom lip swell . I also think she is allergic to her food as well , perhaps the wheat or the additives. I give her canned food that is wheat and additive free whioch fortunately she eats . I noticed her coat improved when I stopped feeding her the ordinary cat foods. However, since she has to have a supplement Cystease which she doesn't like, the only way to get her to eat this is to mix it in a50 g Sheba or Felix each day and even this small amount seems to affect her coat . You've seen these before but I posting them again for those that haven't . Allergies http://www.marvistavet.com/html/body...allergies.html http://www.marvistavet.com/html/body...allergies.html http://www.marvistavet.com/html/body...granuloma.html About calling in a pet behaviour and calming drugs. Have you discussed drugs with your vet yet? . She is the one who will know about them, she might also ask you to consult a behaviourist first and perhaps recommend one. You have experience and understanding of cats but if you find the right behaviourist , it could be a great help but on the other hand a not so good one could do more damage. In the UK , a vet will recommend a behaviourist or you can find one through The Association of Pet Behaviour Counsellors http://www.apbc.org.uk/ and COAPE http://www.coape.f9.co.uk/ Centre Of Applied Pet Ethology The COAPE behaviourists generally will come to your house for a visit, especially for cats as they need to sum up the big picture. They take note of the lay- out of the house , each cat personality , the owners' personalities and the relationship between cats and owners and the relationship between the different cats . They assess what the problem is and what could have caused it. It can be quite a thorough interview and perhaps upsetting in cases where divorce and bereavement have occured. There are always labels for behaviour like redirected aggression or petting aggression but sometimes it's never that simple. A behaviorists trained by COAPE takes into great consideration the emotions of the cat and they will make : An emotional assessment of the cat at the time of his action(behaviour) e,g angry , aroused , frightened. A mood state assessment of how he feels generally e.g what is imposed on him by changing circumstances A Reinforcement assessment of why the behaviour persists and how can the owner reinforce a new associative behaviour.(That's the hard part!) You and the cats have been through a great deal of upset and loss and changes. From Shamrock's point of view, he has been through: his past before he met you , Shadows illness , the sad loss of your son, Shamrock's and your distress and shock at your loss , the introduction of a new cat , his own allergies, vet trips and nasty injections. Any of this alone could trigger a change of mood and anxiety in a cat, so I expect that all of these over a period of time has made Shamrock feel anxious, less competent to be able to deal with life and more emotionally reactive He deals with it by being aggressive whereas other cats might deal with it by beconing more withdrawn. None of this has been anyone's fault. I think you're doing really well and I'm surprised that you don't have worse problems with them. Also, you said that Bonnie had been chasing Shadow too, so that might have something to do with it . At the time, you shook a can of pennies at Bonnie when she chased Shadow , and it's possible that Shamrock associated the horrid noise with them and he gets aroused and angry when he sees them . This happens to people too. About 4 years, ago I had a terrible row with a near neighbour and even now, if I catch a glimpse of her I get flooded with tension and anxiety , somtimes I cross over the street or we pass and ignore each other but it wouldn't take much to start another row .( When you seperate Shadow during the day, can Bonnie and Shamrock still see him? If not maybe you could put something up like a screen door , (Pam Johnson Bennet recommends baby gates but maybe a small cat could get through them) so they can still see each other. When they meet at night , catching sight of Shadow won't act as a trigger to Shamrock's behaviour. I hope this helps a little bit and I hope I haven't upset or offended you in any way . Alison |
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"Alison" wrote in message ... Hi Kelly , Every situation is different because of the personality of each cat the personality of the owners and the circumstances they live in. You've obviously made a great effort with your cats. Alison, It's that UK/US difference again. My girls climb the cat trees, chase the laser pointer, and zip around the house in great spirits every day. (The latest thing Cheeks likes to do is leap around like a monkey until she has bunched up the carpet runner on the stone floor in the hall, then lay on her side and rabbit kick it. Very cute.) Buddha is very active, eight years old, and has never once in her life been outside. She plays, she leaps, she lays on her back and contemplates the ceiling in a Zen trance, licking her little white mittens every couple of minutes, then leaps up to stalk Cheeky and charges her like a little bull. It would be cruel to let them out, here, where dogs or cars would certainly kill them. But I can imagine if I had a lovely walled garden, or just a big piece of land, no cars zooming past all day and all night, that it would be hard to imagine that a cat deprived of that could be happy. Here outside equals injury and death in most urban areas. I wish it weren't so. --- Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free. Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com). Version: 6.0.676 / Virus Database: 438 - Release Date: 5/3/2004 |
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