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Curious re-united behavior!
Hello everybody.
A while back I adopted two cats from the pound at the same time, a female kitten and a 2 year old male. The male is super laid back, the female had obviously been traumatized. Even though they spent some time together at the animal shelter she was pretty cautious about him and the rest of the new house for about 2 weeks. And of course they quickly became best buddies always hanging out together, grooming each other and other behavior that you think means mutual acceptance. Well the male is adventurous and loves to go outside. At first it was just a couple hours, then the night, then two nights, then three nights. I got used to his coming and going. He would come home for food and a nap and then want to go outside again. And because he would make sure I get ZERO sleep and destroy things if he didn't get outside, I would accommodate his outdoor ambitions. Plus he seems to be healthier being outside. He lost a bunch of weight (was pretty obese), became much more active and the coat got nicer. You know where this is going. 7 days pass. Where is he? I put up posters, and in everybody's mailbox. Nothing for 3 more days. All the while the female cat is REALLY making it known that she's lonely and bored. Staying at the door, mewing at it. Going out and in and out and in. Wife equally getting restless and concerned. OKAY, time to go to the shelter and get a new cat. You know where this is going. At the shelter, ask what kinds of cats they have for adoption. Well they have this and that but they're all short-hairs and wife loves fluffy long-haired cats. So they bring out who else but our lost male cat. Their "clinic cat" recently passed away and they had intended this particularly friendly cat to be the new mascot, so he wasn't on the list of available animals but I guess we described him. It was surreal for sure. They scan the chip and confirm he's registered to us (by the way, why didn't they scan him at first??) and we get to take him home. It's been 10 days. Bring the male home and the female is VERY ****ed. Like we just introduced a wolf to her habitat. The male seemed kind of disoriented.. I imagine the trip to the pound and several days there was a bit of a culture shock. After we showed him his cat tree he figured it all out and remembered everything. But the female!! Growling, hissing, behaving like it's a new werewolf drinking from her bowl. 10 days ago they were grooming each other; he tries to approach her now and she's angry!! I've never seen that before... Like he cheated on her. I hope he just smells like an animal shelter full of dogs. For now he's giving her the space. If his back is to her she'll sneak up and sniff him, at which point he notices her and lazily turns his head to face her. She growls and hisses and swats him as soon as he looks at her. She's spending her time watching (and growling) from a distance now. She'll hide under blankets or behind curtains but constantly has one eye watching him. I must admit it really is amusing to observe the paranoid female trying to covertly inspect an apparently brand new animal. Anyways, just wanted to share my story. Anybody else have re-uniting stories? |
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Curious re-united behavior!
On Thu, 10 Nov 2011 21:05:16 +0000 (GMT), Judith Latham
wrote: In article , Lord_Alex wrote: Hello everybody. .... Anyways, just wanted to share my story. Anybody else have re-uniting stories? I don't have a re-uniting story but your's is amusing. I think she knows who he is and just wants to get her point over that he left her and she's not happy about it. Judith Well yes. Plus, he smells like a shelter full of dogs... |
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