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I'm Home!
At least I'm on trial - to see if I can manage - otherwise straight back to
Auntie Margarets..She made me promise not to lift anything heavier than a kettle of water or try to clean chicken pens out, so I've promised. I was just so homesick and wanted to see KFC & BF. Actually, I think I missed them more than they did me, judging how BF wound himself round Stan's legs! I am glad in one way because it means he would settle with anyone that fed him and if anything should happen to me (and it still could) that would be great that he could be happy. But..I am a bit selfish. Now I have a chance on life again I want him to be mine only, like he was. I know that I shouldn't feel this, but I do. Am I bad to feel this, or is it normal? Tweed |
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"Christina Websell" wrote in message
... At least I'm on trial - to see if I can manage - otherwise straight back to Auntie Margarets..She made me promise not to lift anything heavier than a kettle of water or try to clean chicken pens out, so I've promised. I was just so homesick and wanted to see KFC & BF. Actually, I think I missed them more than they did me, judging how BF wound himself round Stan's legs! I am glad in one way because it means he would settle with anyone that fed him and if anything should happen to me (and it still could) that would be great that he could be happy. But..I am a bit selfish. Now I have a chance on life again I want him to be mine only, like he was. I know that I shouldn't feel this, but I do. Am I bad to feel this, or is it normal? Tweed Here are purrs to help you pass the "trial". There truly is no place like home and I'm thrilled you are well enough for it this quickly. As to being selfish, I don't think so. He's your baby and you rightly expect him to be yours for a long, long time. Complete recovery purrs coming across the pond as well. Sam, closely supervised by Mistletoe |
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On Sun, 05 Jun 2005 21:56:14 +0100, Christina Websell wrote:
At least I'm on trial - to see if I can manage - otherwise straight back to Auntie Margarets..She made me promise not to lift anything heavier than a kettle of water or try to clean chicken pens out, so I've promised. I was just so homesick and wanted to see KFC & BF. Actually, I think I missed them more than they did me, judging how BF wound himself round Stan's legs! I am glad in one way because it means he would settle with anyone that fed him and if anything should happen to me (and it still could) that would be great that he could be happy. But..I am a bit selfish. Now I have a chance on life again I want him to be mine only, like he was. I know that I shouldn't feel this, but I do. Am I bad to feel this, or is it normal? Tweed You will do just fine if you just forget your normal routine and just do the easy things. Cleaning and cooking can wait -- When I couldn't bend easily to scoop the litter box,my son made a long wooden handle for a scooper, which made the job easy. I had to get help later on when the litter needed changing. If you have a microwave oven, frozen food makes that job easier. When I drove the car, I used a small pillow under the seat belt to protect my sore tummy. Walking helps restore your strength but don't make it strenuous. Purrs for a complete recovery. MLB |
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"Christina Websell" wrote in message ... At least I'm on trial - to see if I can manage - otherwise straight back to Auntie Margarets..She made me promise not to lift anything heavier than a kettle of water or try to clean chicken pens out, so I've promised. I was just so homesick and wanted to see KFC & BF. Actually, I think I missed them more than they did me, judging how BF wound himself round Stan's legs! I am glad in one way because it means he would settle with anyone that fed him and if anything should happen to me (and it still could) that would be great that he could be happy. But..I am a bit selfish. Now I have a chance on life again I want him to be mine only, like he was. I know that I shouldn't feel this, but I do. Am I bad to feel this, or is it normal? Tweed Its normal to feel this way. However cats being what they are it isn't likely to do you much good. Some of them do prefer men. That's why I still miss my Rosie so much. All the other cats we've had prefer Charlie. And Molly prefers the neighborhood kids and the teenage grandsons. Jake at least tries not to play favorites. He knows I'm the only one that will brush him and let him kneed with his needle sharp claws. But still I know if he had to choose.... Hopefully BF is just giving you the cold shoulder for a while so you will be properly contrite for abandoning him. Jo |
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"Christina Websell" wrote in message
... At least I'm on trial - to see if I can manage - otherwise straight back to Auntie Margarets..She made me promise not to lift anything heavier than a kettle of water or try to clean chicken pens out, so I've promised. I was just so homesick and wanted to see KFC & BF. Actually, I think I missed them more than they did me, judging how BF wound himself round Stan's legs! I am glad in one way because it means he would settle with anyone that fed him and if anything should happen to me (and it still could) that would be great that he could be happy. But..I am a bit selfish. Now I have a chance on life again I want him to be mine only, like he was. I know that I shouldn't feel this, but I do. Am I bad to feel this, or is it normal? Tweed It's wonderful that you're home! I hope you really will go back to Auntie Margaret's if you aren't up to being on your own, but I hope you can stay there. Dorothy was right. There's no place like home! As for BF, no you aren't bad. Your feelings are perfectly normal. I suspect his attitude will change quickly. When my daughter took me home from the airport, after four weeks in Australia, Lindy allowed me to pet her, but when we sat down, it was my daughter she went to, rather than me. After my daughter left, though, Lindy was all over me. BF is probably just punishing you for being away, and he'll soon forgive you because he's glad you're home. -- Joy **Don't believe everything you think** |
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"Christina Websell" wrote in message ... .... Now I have a chance on life again I want him to be mine only, like he was. I know that I shouldn't feel this, but I do. Am I bad to feel this, or is it normal? Tweed He knows you're still Number 1. He was just kissing up to Stan because he didn't know if you were back for good or not and he didn't want to risk insulting the provider of the food. Simply a survival tactic, I'd say. Annie |
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Glad to see you're feeling well enough to at least try out being back home.
BF will come around. Take it easy and take advantage of being with the furry healers. |
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Christina Websell wrote:
At least I'm on trial - to see if I can manage - otherwise straight back to Auntie Margarets..She made me promise not to lift anything heavier than a kettle of water or try to clean chicken pens out, so I've promised. I was just so homesick and wanted to see KFC & BF. Actually, I think I missed them more than they did me, judging how BF wound himself round Stan's legs! I am glad in one way because it means he would settle with anyone that fed him and if anything should happen to me (and it still could) that would be great that he could be happy. But..I am a bit selfish. Now I have a chance on life again I want him to be mine only, like he was. I know that I shouldn't feel this, but I do. Am I bad to feel this, or is it normal? Tweed aw, BoyFriend is YOUR boyfriend and he loves you and missed you lots just like KFC. Glad to hear you're back home, take it easy, and check in here with us everyday to let us know how everything is going, ok? Jazz & his mama -- Irulan from the stars we came, to the stars we return from now until the end of time. |
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"Christina Websell" wrote in message
... At least I'm on trial - to see if I can manage - otherwise straight back to Auntie Margarets..She made me promise not to lift anything heavier than a kettle of water or try to clean chicken pens out, so I've promised. I was just so homesick and wanted to see KFC & BF. Actually, I think I missed them more than they did me, judging how BF wound himself round Stan's legs! I am glad in one way because it means he would settle with anyone that fed him and if anything should happen to me (and it still could) that would be great that he could be happy. But..I am a bit selfish. Now I have a chance on life again I want him to be mine only, like he was. I know that I shouldn't feel this, but I do. Am I bad to feel this, or is it normal? Tweed Welcome home. Feeling this way is perfectly normal - all love is just a little bit selfish. Hugs, CatNipped |
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