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I hate to say it, but you have your hands full. Sometimes cats that have
problems like this, at this age are almost irreversible. I agree with Mary regarding putting her in a bathroom until she settles down, and you get on a normal sleeping schedule, and minimize your damages. Also, granted your resident cat is neutered and declawed, I would just let them go at it. You are dealing with two elderly cats, not tigers. They are going to have to deal with each other eventually, unless you give the newer cat back. What is the worst that can happen? They scream, hiss and spit at each other? Bonding will have to be established eventually. I do know what you are going through. If at all possible, you may want to separate your resident cat in another room to keep him from screaming at your door, and put the new cat in your bathroom, so you can get some sleep. That way everyone is a happy camper for the evening. Good luck with the Feliway. I expect to see updates as they happen. |
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