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How is the wall problem coming???/
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"pat Chlebowski" wrote in message ... How is the wall problem coming???/ I haven't confronted them yet. The drop kerb situation was so stressful with them blocking me in my house for months (my blood pressure must have gone up by miles every time I realised I could not get my car out) that now *that* is resolved, although I wanted to get the problem of the wall out of the way fairly quickly, I've decided to let it rest for a while. Lull them into a false sense of security. I have 7 years or more to do it, and can still win. I won't wait that long of course, but realised I needed a break from feuding with my bad new neighbours. It will be done, but not quite yet. Tweed |
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On Apr 7, 2:27*pm, "Christina Websell"
wrote: *I won't wait that long of course, but realised I needed a break from feuding with my bad new neighbours. Good move sometimes you just need to let go for a while..when I had that problem with the bullying manager at work who took 4 months to get a hearing over her allegations where her only witness broke down and accused her of lying and I still got a final written warning for 1 year after which it should be struck off my record I was told I should appeal plenty of grounds etc and I said "I need a break from this!" then decided (okay it's not the same for you) I'd just spent too much emotional energy (it got so bad I decided one Friday near the first hearing I worked out I needed to sort my will out over the weekend so if I then went ahead and killed myself Dave would be okat money wise) I wasn't going to waste emotional energy on an appeal since however much I was in the right I wouldn't win since they'd have to admit a manager was a bully for me to do so, Gonna be fun when I get back to work-the manager was sent on a secondment due to her post being axed last August/resigned or somethink- the final written warning expired last Thursday and I now want it in writing that it's off my record Lesley Slave of the Fabulous Furballs |
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Christina Websell wrote:
I haven't confronted them yet. The drop kerb situation was so stressful with them blocking me in my house for months (my blood pressure must have gone up by miles every time I realised I could not get my car out) that now *that* is resolved, although I wanted to get the problem of the wall out of the way fairly quickly, I've decided to let it rest for a while. Lull them into a false sense of security. I have 7 years or more to do it, and can still win. I won't wait that long of course, but realised I needed a break from feuding with my bad new neighbours. It will be done, but not quite yet. Sounds like a smart move. Your health is more important. You can get back to it when you're less stressed about it. And yeah, let them think you're going to let it go and then, wham! -- Joyce I will not sniff at my male human's feet after he takes his shoes off, freeze my mouth open in disgust and then sniff my private parts to compare odors. -- Cat Resolutions |
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"Lesley" wrote in message ... On Apr 7, 2:27 pm, "Christina Websell" wrote: I won't wait that long of course, but realised I needed a break from feuding with my bad new neighbours. Good move sometimes you just need to let go for a while..when I had that problem with the bullying manager at work who took 4 months to get a hearing over her allegations where her only witness broke down and accused her of lying and I still got a final written warning for 1 year after which it should be struck off my record I was told I should appeal plenty of grounds etc and I said "I need a break from this!" then decided (okay it's not the same for you) I'd just spent too much emotional energy (it got so bad I decided one Friday near the first hearing I worked out I needed to sort my will out over the weekend so if I then went ahead and killed myself Dave would be okat money wise) I wasn't going to waste emotional energy on an appeal since however much I was in the right I wouldn't win since they'd have to admit a manager was a bully for me to do so, Gonna be fun when I get back to work-the manager was sent on a secondment due to her post being axed last August/resigned or somethink- the final written warning expired last Thursday and I now want it in writing that it's off my record.- I know your pain. I shipped out to live on my savings. Best thing I ever did. Yes, it is hard, but I have never regretted it. Once July 2013 is here I will be fine. |
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"Bastette" wrote in message ... Christina Websell wrote: I haven't confronted them yet. The drop kerb situation was so stressful with them blocking me in my house for months (my blood pressure must have gone up by miles every time I realised I could not get my car out) that now *that* is resolved, although I wanted to get the problem of the wall out of the way fairly quickly, I've decided to let it rest for a while. Lull them into a false sense of security. I have 7 years or more to do it, and can still win. I won't wait that long of course, but realised I needed a break from feuding with my bad new neighbours. It will be done, but not quite yet. Sounds like a smart move. Your health is more important. You can get back to it when you're less stressed about it. And yeah, let them think you're going to let it go and then, wham! -- It will be done, I have 2 hospital appointments next week that are important. Mammogram and shoulder. I almost live in hospital and physiotherapy. Don't forget my broken ankle that I am in the gym for every Monday for an hour. |
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Christina Websell wrote:
"Bastette" wrote in message ... Christina Websell wrote: I haven't confronted them yet. The drop kerb situation was so stressful with them blocking me in my house for months (my blood pressure must have gone up by miles every time I realised I could not get my car out) that now *that* is resolved, although I wanted to get the problem of the wall out of the way fairly quickly, I've decided to let it rest for a while. Lull them into a false sense of security. I have 7 years or more to do it, and can still win. I won't wait that long of course, but realised I needed a break from feuding with my bad new neighbours. It will be done, but not quite yet. Sounds like a smart move. Your health is more important. You can get back to it when you're less stressed about it. And yeah, let them think you're going to let it go and then, wham! -- It will be done, I have 2 hospital appointments next week that are important. Mammogram and shoulder. I almost live in hospital and physiotherapy. Don't forget my broken ankle that I am in the gym for every Monday for an hour. Did I miss a post, or have you not yet gotten results from the MRI, etc, that you had a month or 2 ago? -- Joyce Socialism never took root in America because the poor see themselves not as an exploited proletariat but as temporarily embarassed millionaires. --John Steinbeck |
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On Apr 7, 6:53*pm, "Christina Websell"
wrote: I know your pain. I shipped out to live on my savings. *Best thing I ever did. * Yes, it is hard, but I have never regretted *it. Once July 2013 is here I will be fine. More and more people I know about my age are shipping out to a degree- one couple have taken their pensions (Both long service NHS so they get a decent one each), sold their house and moved to Turkey. Another friend has taken her civil service pension at 50 and retired. A friend is considering that she'll be able to claim her NHS pension later this year so she might do that and go part time as it is she's cut her hours (But that's more because of her mother's health problems meaning she feels she needs to help out more otherwise her sister does it all). I'll be able to start claiming (at a reduced amount obviously) my private pension later this year so I think at least I'll have the option although it's not in my plans right now but I can see myself in a few more years going part time and using my pension and savings to make up any shortfalls Lesley Slave of the Fabulous Furballs |
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That is a good plan....
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On Sunday, April 8, 2012 11:38:12 AM UTC-4, Judith Latham wrote: In article , Christina Websell wrote: "pat Chlebowski" wrote in message ... How is the wall problem coming???/ I haven't confronted them yet. The drop kerb situation was so stressful with them blocking me in my house for months (my blood pressure must have gone up by miles every time I realised I could not get my car out) that now *that* is resolved, although I wanted to get the problem of the wall out of the way fairly quickly, I've decided to let it rest for a while. Lull them into a false sense of security. I have 7 years or more to do it, and can still win. I won't wait that long of course, but realised I needed a break from feuding with my bad new neighbours. It will be done, but not quite yet. Tweed I think that you're very sensible leaving another battle until you feel up to it and have your tactics sorted. Judith -- Judith Latham Stourbridge, West Midlands. UK. .. . . yes: thatis what they say about artists: step back; go out and relive your old life for a while so that you can recover what it was that, in the first place, made of you the beautiful artist that you now are . . . i feel this can be applied to everylthing, not just art . . . My health is completely gone and rolling downhill fast toward the cliff, as iam now winding up in the E.R. or at a doctor's office nearly every week, but i have invented the most beautiful kitty in the world. As soon as i get a male, i just know i will become a millionaire . . . yup, where there is life there is hope. |
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