A cat forum. CatBanter

If this is your first visit, be sure to check out the FAQ by clicking the link above. You may have to register before you can post: click the register link above to proceed. To start viewing messages, select the forum that you want to visit from the selection below.

Go Back   Home » CatBanter forum » Cat Newsgroups » Cats - misc
Site Map Home Register Authors List Search Today's Posts Mark Forums Read Web Partners

My Cats, the Cattery and the Guilt!!!



 
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #11  
Old April 1st 04, 10:20 PM
Hailey
external usenet poster
 
Posts: n/a
Default

Hi Claire

I don't think it's any big deal at ALL that you leave them in a good
cattery, well cared for. I was thinking of taking at least one of ours to a
similar thing we have here, friends use this lady and she actually only
takes a certain # of kitties at any given time, they all have their own
cages, except for multiple kitties in a household. But she also gets to know
them day one and then lets them roam her house from then on, if she's able.

We do not take the boys camping with us on the reunion campouts, so that
means twice a year they have to stay at home, alone (well, with each other)
and someone comes in to feed and play with them twice a day. Not a lot, I
know, but they also have each other.
It's usually 4-5 days each time and when we get home Tucker (mine) is *very*
****y. And not just mad ****y LOL He has shown his displeasure by peeing on
the futon. It's not as bad as it sounds, however, because the first time he
did it (he's done it a total of three times now) he peed on a pillow on the
futon and we do have a cover on the futon, some pee got on it. All in all it
was no biggie. the pillow was ruined, the cover can be washed. I now put a
45 gallon garbage bag, cut open completely, under the cover and twice he
peed on that. Not for a good long time, though.
James is a darling and never gets mad, just clingy and lovey.
I guess all cats act out in different ways, just like their people do!
Hailey

I have two cats tigger and tootsie there both 2yrs old! Im going away on
holiday and this is the first time they have had to go into a cattery. I
have made sure that they are together at all times - but i feel terrible

for
putting them in!!! (Im quite attached to them really!).

I feel really daft but are cats different when they come back - and do

they
still remember you and go back to 'normal'! (its very sad really but oohhh
the guilt!)

Basically these cats have always been indoor cats and i suppose what im
asking is - do they mind going into a cattery (its only for 4 days!).

Have everyone elses cats been through the gruelling experience of going on
'holiday' or am i just a daft owner who is too attached!

Ta Claire :S

(on someone elses name cos i cant change it!) DOH!




  #12  
Old April 2nd 04, 12:30 AM
Xmar
external usenet poster
 
Posts: n/a
Default

Some do ok..others dont...My sister's cat stopped eating to the point
she had to be at hospitalised due to de-hydration.


Alternatives to bring them to a strange place is see if you have a
friend, family member, neighbor or neighbor kid you feel comfortable
with who can stop in and check in on them daily..

Also see if you have pet sitters in your area...

Since they have each other, they wont get lonely by remaining
home...taking them to a strange place would be far more stressful for
them possibly...

But then some cats do fine being borded...

Gary wrote:
Hi all,

I have two cats tigger and tootsie there both 2yrs old! Im going away on
holiday and this is the first time they have had to go into a cattery. I
have made sure that they are together at all times - but i feel terrible for
putting them in!!! (Im quite attached to them really!).

I feel really daft but are cats different when they come back - and do they
still remember you and go back to 'normal'! (its very sad really but oohhh
the guilt!)

Basically these cats have always been indoor cats and i suppose what im
asking is - do they mind going into a cattery (its only for 4 days!).

Have everyone elses cats been through the gruelling experience of going on
'holiday' or am i just a daft owner who is too attached!

Ta Claire :S

(on someone elses name cos i cant change it!) DOH!



  #13  
Old April 2nd 04, 12:30 AM
Xmar
external usenet poster
 
Posts: n/a
Default

Some do ok..others dont...My sister's cat stopped eating to the point
she had to be at hospitalised due to de-hydration.


Alternatives to bring them to a strange place is see if you have a
friend, family member, neighbor or neighbor kid you feel comfortable
with who can stop in and check in on them daily..

Also see if you have pet sitters in your area...

Since they have each other, they wont get lonely by remaining
home...taking them to a strange place would be far more stressful for
them possibly...

But then some cats do fine being borded...

Gary wrote:
Hi all,

I have two cats tigger and tootsie there both 2yrs old! Im going away on
holiday and this is the first time they have had to go into a cattery. I
have made sure that they are together at all times - but i feel terrible for
putting them in!!! (Im quite attached to them really!).

I feel really daft but are cats different when they come back - and do they
still remember you and go back to 'normal'! (its very sad really but oohhh
the guilt!)

Basically these cats have always been indoor cats and i suppose what im
asking is - do they mind going into a cattery (its only for 4 days!).

Have everyone elses cats been through the gruelling experience of going on
'holiday' or am i just a daft owner who is too attached!

Ta Claire :S

(on someone elses name cos i cant change it!) DOH!



  #14  
Old April 2nd 04, 01:04 AM
Wendy
external usenet poster
 
Posts: n/a
Default


"kilikini" wrote in message
...

"Karen" wrote in message
...
Four days? No problem. They may be clingy for a while (this is how mine

get.
It's like double velcro, three cats and me) or they may give you a cold
shoulder for a day or two (I personallly have never experienced this.

Karen


(snip)

Mine always give me the cold shoulder if I leave them for a couple of

days.
They get real "****y" and it takes a day or so for them to come crawling
into my lap again. They always do, tho!

kili


Tigger was always that way when we left her (and Ralf) home with a sitter.
She wouldn't even look at me for a day and then the next day things were
back to normal.

W


  #15  
Old April 2nd 04, 01:04 AM
Wendy
external usenet poster
 
Posts: n/a
Default


"kilikini" wrote in message
...

"Karen" wrote in message
...
Four days? No problem. They may be clingy for a while (this is how mine

get.
It's like double velcro, three cats and me) or they may give you a cold
shoulder for a day or two (I personallly have never experienced this.

Karen


(snip)

Mine always give me the cold shoulder if I leave them for a couple of

days.
They get real "****y" and it takes a day or so for them to come crawling
into my lap again. They always do, tho!

kili


Tigger was always that way when we left her (and Ralf) home with a sitter.
She wouldn't even look at me for a day and then the next day things were
back to normal.

W


  #16  
Old April 2nd 04, 01:19 AM
Antagonist
external usenet poster
 
Posts: n/a
Default

Make sure you choose a good place with knowledgeable staff. Her comfort
during her stay will be reflected.


"Xmar" wrote in message
...
Some do ok..others dont...My sister's cat stopped eating to the point
she had to be at hospitalised due to de-hydration.


Alternatives to bring them to a strange place is see if you have a
friend, family member, neighbor or neighbor kid you feel comfortable
with who can stop in and check in on them daily..

Also see if you have pet sitters in your area...

Since they have each other, they wont get lonely by remaining
home...taking them to a strange place would be far more stressful for
them possibly...

But then some cats do fine being borded...

Gary wrote:
Hi all,

I have two cats tigger and tootsie there both 2yrs old! Im going away

on
holiday and this is the first time they have had to go into a cattery.

I
have made sure that they are together at all times - but i feel terrible

for
putting them in!!! (Im quite attached to them really!).

I feel really daft but are cats different when they come back - and do

they
still remember you and go back to 'normal'! (its very sad really but

oohhh
the guilt!)

Basically these cats have always been indoor cats and i suppose what im
asking is - do they mind going into a cattery (its only for 4 days!).

Have everyone elses cats been through the gruelling experience of going

on
'holiday' or am i just a daft owner who is too attached!

Ta Claire :S

(on someone elses name cos i cant change it!) DOH!





  #17  
Old April 2nd 04, 01:19 AM
Antagonist
external usenet poster
 
Posts: n/a
Default

Make sure you choose a good place with knowledgeable staff. Her comfort
during her stay will be reflected.


"Xmar" wrote in message
...
Some do ok..others dont...My sister's cat stopped eating to the point
she had to be at hospitalised due to de-hydration.


Alternatives to bring them to a strange place is see if you have a
friend, family member, neighbor or neighbor kid you feel comfortable
with who can stop in and check in on them daily..

Also see if you have pet sitters in your area...

Since they have each other, they wont get lonely by remaining
home...taking them to a strange place would be far more stressful for
them possibly...

But then some cats do fine being borded...

Gary wrote:
Hi all,

I have two cats tigger and tootsie there both 2yrs old! Im going away

on
holiday and this is the first time they have had to go into a cattery.

I
have made sure that they are together at all times - but i feel terrible

for
putting them in!!! (Im quite attached to them really!).

I feel really daft but are cats different when they come back - and do

they
still remember you and go back to 'normal'! (its very sad really but

oohhh
the guilt!)

Basically these cats have always been indoor cats and i suppose what im
asking is - do they mind going into a cattery (its only for 4 days!).

Have everyone elses cats been through the gruelling experience of going

on
'holiday' or am i just a daft owner who is too attached!

Ta Claire :S

(on someone elses name cos i cant change it!) DOH!





  #20  
Old April 2nd 04, 04:03 AM
rangitotogirl
external usenet poster
 
Posts: n/a
Default


Basically these cats have always been indoor cats and i suppose what im
asking is - do they mind going into a cattery (its only for 4 days!).

Have everyone elses cats been through the gruelling experience of going on
'holiday' or am i just a daft owner who is too attached!


My cat was different for a little while after going to a cattery. For the
first 48 hours after she got home she would wander around the house and meow
lots. Sometimes she was very cuddly and affectionate. Other times she was
quite aloof.

I stopped putting her in a cattery several years back when she lost
condition. We had put three cats in and while the other two were okay,
Mindy was miserable. She hissed at the owners and wouldn't let them near
her and looked like she had spent the time pining away.

From then on I left her at home with plenty of food and water and with
someone to keep an eye on her. She was much happier in her own environment.

I was in a real bind before Christmas when we were planning our holiday.
Her health deteriorated in November and I knew there was no way I could
leave her at home. I was also concerned that putting her in a cattery would
finish her off. We booked her into a cattery in the same town as we were
going on holiday as she was a great traveller and it would allow us to make
frequent visits. As her health declined I seriously considered cancelling
the trip. Mindy's health deteriorated to the point that she stopped eating
just a few days before hand and as she had no reserves left I really had no
option but to have her put down so I never had to make the final decision
about the cattery.

I think most cats respond differently. On our next trip we're taking Tigga
back to the breeder who also has a small Bengal cattery. He's too young and
unpredictable to leave at home. Caspa will stay behind with her food and
water and someone to watch out for her. Tigga demands company, Caspa
couldn't care. She's a very independent cat who would much rather spend 90%
of the time outside even though she has full access to the great indoors.
She really gives the impression she couldn't care whether we were around or
not. Given her nature the cattery environment wouldn't really work for
her.



 




Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

vB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Forum Jump


All times are GMT +1. The time now is 01:45 PM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.6.4
Copyright ©2000 - 2024, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Copyright ©2004-2024 CatBanter.
The comments are property of their posters.