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That's the part that baffles me most. I just don't get why she wouldn't just 'fess up that something had gone wrong if it was a reaction to the anesthesia. It makes it seem like there was a combination of errors- anesthesia reaction plus something else that she wouldn't want to admit to, you know? Then again, if it was a tech doing the procedure instead of the vet, that would explain it, too. Regardless, it's just completely unethical on the part of the vet to not tell you about whatever had happened. It's not like an owner doesn't understand that things sometimes go wrong, but it is not her decision as to whether or not the owner should know when something goes wrong. *** I've been wondering the same. Unless the BAER vet was right ... that Ming had a heart attack while under anesthesia. What he suspects is that it was a tech who administered the anesthesia to perform the flush. It's possible Ming could've choked, then stopped breathing. Then the tech lied to the vet. Something tells me that that's more the likely scenario. Because out of the blue while I stood there during that week to make my payment, the vet made a comment about "this is why I pay my techs expensively; it's hard to find good techs." Where that came from, I don't remember .. if she's responding to a comment I made about her techs doing everything like being in the back and answering phones. But in hindsight now, I'd say I can take the comment as a defensive one. You sound like a tough cookie, Zaida; I know I'm impressed. It sounds like Ming couldn't be in better hands with this challenge, and I think if anybody can get the little guy adjusted to the changes in his abilities, you can. *** Gee, thanks, Laura. I just feel so sorry for him. He loves looking out the window, you know. My husband even said to allow him for a few minutes outside. But that just scares me because he is totally deaf. He can still make a leap for that wall if he wants to; I don't underestimate this cat at all. And I'm not scared of him leaping and missing, but of getting hit. So I dare not let him out even if it's to make him feel good. *** OT (I hope you all forgive me) ... There's a very long story behind Ming. I adopted him when he was feral. I don't know where he came from, but all I know is it all started when he came over to visit. There are other cats in the neighborhood, I suspect some from the backyard neighbor who prefers to let his cats loose and uncollared. So here's Ming who came over to snack and sleep in my house for a good 3-month period. Then one day, he stopped coming. 3 days have passed before I saw him again. Then gasp I discovered he had a big chunk of his rear end gone. But the wound isn't fresh anymore; it was green with pus and obviously festering. I didn't know what to do. I cleaned it, bandanged it and applied antibiotic as best I could, but I also bought a collar and put it on Ming, attached a note with it for any of the neighbors to find and read. Then the next day as I had hoped, the other backyard neighbor said that no one owned this cat; but that he also visited her and her kids. Apparently, some rottweiler was loose in the neighborhood several nights before. She did say I can keep this cat. So without further delay and concession from my husband who said I can keep Ming vbs, I immediately took him in to an emergency vet close by and the rest is history. *** I literally saved his ass. lol. *** But incorporating him within the household in totality didn't come easy. He was sweet when he was visiting, but after bringing him in permanently, he was such a b****. He literally climbed "walls", window screens, curtains, blinds. He had an incessant howl and he peed everywhere. Oh he knew where the potty was, but he just refused to be "won" over. He also bit our hands or would pounce on our ankles. There was no telling with this cat. He was absolutely unpredictable. I had nearly given up on him so many times, I can't count the number of times I came thisclose to bringing him to the pound. We had, oh I'd say, at least 10 months of sleepless nights because all he wanted was out. Finally, I came to the conclusion that I have to compromise. So I let him out one day. He came back after 7 hours, dusty, dirty, muddy -- but happy apparently. *** Surprisingly, giving him a bath was a breeze. Ah, so he was cared for at one point in his life. At any rate, when I wrote the Siamese Rescue to ask for help in curbing Ming's bad habits, I was told among other things to never to let him out. The dog bite was a good example why not to and though I did understand, Ming's personality was such that I had to consider what it was that just made him tick the way he did. I sometimes wonder how he became feral. He is neutered, so the neighbor and I were guessing that he must've been abandoned. *** So ya know, Laura, giving up on him many times in the past would've been too easy. I've also perused other boards on the Humane Society posts and you'd all be surprised how many vets are simply screwed. Screwed how? Incompetent? *** Exactly. And by the by, the animal lawyer I contacted told me that the cost to pursue this matter outweighs the cost that I can recover. No real surprise there; did he say whether you'd be able to recover court costs and fees if you won? *** Actually, this was what the lawyer wrote: ========== Ms. Tandoc: First of all, it sounds to me like Ming is improving finally. Obviously, the difficulty with your situation is that it would be difficult to show that the IBD is somehow related to the ear flush. Since you indicate you have gotten second opinions, a veterinarian is the correct party to help you get to the underlying problem. In terms of a legal case, you still have the difficulty of proving that Ming's symptoms and problems are related to the ear flush. Even then, and despite the fact that you have spent quite a large sum of money, the cost of pursuing the case would not justify what you would recover, even if you were given back every dime you have spent. In other words, it would cost more to go after the vet than you have already paid. That tends to be the problem with these types of cases ... cost-benefit analysis often makes them unfeasible. My advice is that you find a new vet that you are pleased with, focus on getting Ming to continue the eating and healthy again, and, if your are insistent on going after the first vet consider small claims court. You will need another vet to testify that the first vet caused the problem (often the toughest part of the case) and then establish your damages (what you have paid) in order to prevail. Sorry I can't give you better news, and best of luck with Ming. ========== If nothing else, I hope that this veterinarian learns to be honest with her clients. Good luck, Zaida. *** With her ego, I expect her to be miffed, Laura. :-) But I've been reading California's VBM's complaint process and I expect an uphill battle, to be realistic. She could simply get fined and the matter wouldn't even appear on public record. I will keep y'all updated for sure. :-) |
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On Fri, 18 Jun 2004 17:32:50 -0700, "Zaida"
wrote: Hi Laura and everyone! I've been in a tailspin since my last post, occasionally checking this ng. I've sad news. Ming has been diagnosed officially as being deaf bilaterally (both ears). I found a vet within reasonable distance who had a BAER diagnostic equipment and I took Ming there. I was present and assisting the vet throughout the whole procedure. He sedated Ming with a small dose of Katamine and found that this cat is very sensitive to this drug. He suspects if it's the same one the vet administered during his ear flushing procedure, that Ming OD'd on it. His personal take is that Ming suffered an acute MI (heart attack) and from that, Ming was anoxic (lacking oxygen) for a good 4 to 5 minutes during the ear flushing. Anoxia, he suspects, is enough to affect any number of nerve tissue, and in Ming's case, render his 8th cranial nerve (auditory) damaged. He said that other cats normally come out of sedation, from the small dose he gave Ming, within 10 to 15 minutes. In Ming's case, it took 45 minutes. Even at home, he was still groggy coming out of it and it took 5 hours to fully recover. This vet thinks that Ming's vet's assistant probably lied to the vet. I even had the notion in the first place that it wasn't the vet who performed the ear flush procedure but one of her assistants, which begs the question: who is allowed to perform any procedure involving anesthesia? Just the vet, right? As for Ming, I've been giving him nothing but total TLC, playing with him gently now. Because he's strength is nowhere near as his old self. As I've told the vet who gave the BAER test, Ming is weak in his hind legs and yes, he did note that to be true. Ming can't push himself to jump. And he totally misses the couch or chair. When having to jump to bed, he has to pull himself up by standing up to lean himself with his front paws against the side of the bed, then pull himself up with his claws from that position. Last night he missed, I think, because I heard a big thud and that woke me and my husband up. I immediately picked him up from the floor and when I got him to the bed, he was shaking his head; poor thing. I also have lighting now in the hallways, through the staircase and kitchen. He still loves to roam around the house, but I make sure his pathways are always lit. His meows are so-loud now and he doesn't "talk" to me in those different inflections that he used to have anymore. What is my next recourse? Vet board? The last vet told me that even if I had taken Ming to the farthest part in town (Tustin, California - I live 40 miles away) where they have the fancy diagnostic machines, no surgery can bring Ming's hearing back if it's an auditory nerve damage. I am so sullen with this diagnosis, even if in my heart, I knew, but denied the possibility of his being totally deaf. I'm so grief-stricken that I can't even begin to write up the most objective complaint report. I have all the forms here and have been dragging my feet. My brother told me that I'm grieving is what I look like, being unable to put together the courage to fight the b**** who did this to Ming. Small claims court? No vet would like to support me on my behalf (remember their famous line "in the best interest of professionalism"?) BUT yes, I do have the last vet's diagnosis on paper and yes, he knows what I'm planning to do. So he stamped it with his name, address and phone number, wrote in his diagnosis of "this pet is deaf bilaterally", then signed his own name. That was the best he could do without having to speak up against a co-vet in writing. I don't know ... after Ming someday, I don't think I'd ever want to own another pet, knowing what I know now that if something ever does go wrong with my pet, I can't count on any vet to be honest with me. At any rate, thanks everyone for all your input and help in the initial stages to help me muddle through. If someone out there knows what other legal recourse I have to ensure that this mishap goes into Ming's vet's file, I'll do everything I can to do that. I find myself completely stupefied that at this day and age, "mistakes" like these can still go unpunished. The BAER vet said to me that most likely, Ming's vet's notes will stand. I'm like "even in the face of total deafness?" The only way I know for her to get away with this is to say to the board that she informed me of everything that was performed or has been diagnosed in Ming. Well, I have this long thread to support all my suspicions from day one. Will keep you all posted. Thanks again! Your story was very touching - I don't have any legal advise for you but I will keep you and Ming in prayer Rev Karryl |
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On Fri, 18 Jun 2004 17:32:50 -0700, "Zaida"
wrote: Hi Laura and everyone! I've been in a tailspin since my last post, occasionally checking this ng. I've sad news. Ming has been diagnosed officially as being deaf bilaterally (both ears). I found a vet within reasonable distance who had a BAER diagnostic equipment and I took Ming there. I was present and assisting the vet throughout the whole procedure. He sedated Ming with a small dose of Katamine and found that this cat is very sensitive to this drug. He suspects if it's the same one the vet administered during his ear flushing procedure, that Ming OD'd on it. His personal take is that Ming suffered an acute MI (heart attack) and from that, Ming was anoxic (lacking oxygen) for a good 4 to 5 minutes during the ear flushing. Anoxia, he suspects, is enough to affect any number of nerve tissue, and in Ming's case, render his 8th cranial nerve (auditory) damaged. He said that other cats normally come out of sedation, from the small dose he gave Ming, within 10 to 15 minutes. In Ming's case, it took 45 minutes. Even at home, he was still groggy coming out of it and it took 5 hours to fully recover. This vet thinks that Ming's vet's assistant probably lied to the vet. I even had the notion in the first place that it wasn't the vet who performed the ear flush procedure but one of her assistants, which begs the question: who is allowed to perform any procedure involving anesthesia? Just the vet, right? As for Ming, I've been giving him nothing but total TLC, playing with him gently now. Because he's strength is nowhere near as his old self. As I've told the vet who gave the BAER test, Ming is weak in his hind legs and yes, he did note that to be true. Ming can't push himself to jump. And he totally misses the couch or chair. When having to jump to bed, he has to pull himself up by standing up to lean himself with his front paws against the side of the bed, then pull himself up with his claws from that position. Last night he missed, I think, because I heard a big thud and that woke me and my husband up. I immediately picked him up from the floor and when I got him to the bed, he was shaking his head; poor thing. I also have lighting now in the hallways, through the staircase and kitchen. He still loves to roam around the house, but I make sure his pathways are always lit. His meows are so-loud now and he doesn't "talk" to me in those different inflections that he used to have anymore. What is my next recourse? Vet board? The last vet told me that even if I had taken Ming to the farthest part in town (Tustin, California - I live 40 miles away) where they have the fancy diagnostic machines, no surgery can bring Ming's hearing back if it's an auditory nerve damage. I am so sullen with this diagnosis, even if in my heart, I knew, but denied the possibility of his being totally deaf. I'm so grief-stricken that I can't even begin to write up the most objective complaint report. I have all the forms here and have been dragging my feet. My brother told me that I'm grieving is what I look like, being unable to put together the courage to fight the b**** who did this to Ming. Small claims court? No vet would like to support me on my behalf (remember their famous line "in the best interest of professionalism"?) BUT yes, I do have the last vet's diagnosis on paper and yes, he knows what I'm planning to do. So he stamped it with his name, address and phone number, wrote in his diagnosis of "this pet is deaf bilaterally", then signed his own name. That was the best he could do without having to speak up against a co-vet in writing. I don't know ... after Ming someday, I don't think I'd ever want to own another pet, knowing what I know now that if something ever does go wrong with my pet, I can't count on any vet to be honest with me. At any rate, thanks everyone for all your input and help in the initial stages to help me muddle through. If someone out there knows what other legal recourse I have to ensure that this mishap goes into Ming's vet's file, I'll do everything I can to do that. I find myself completely stupefied that at this day and age, "mistakes" like these can still go unpunished. The BAER vet said to me that most likely, Ming's vet's notes will stand. I'm like "even in the face of total deafness?" The only way I know for her to get away with this is to say to the board that she informed me of everything that was performed or has been diagnosed in Ming. Well, I have this long thread to support all my suspicions from day one. Will keep you all posted. Thanks again! Your story was very touching - I don't have any legal advise for you but I will keep you and Ming in prayer Rev Karryl |
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On Fri, 18 Jun 2004 17:32:50 -0700, "Zaida"
wrote: Hi Laura and everyone! I've been in a tailspin since my last post, occasionally checking this ng. I've sad news. Ming has been diagnosed officially as being deaf bilaterally (both ears). I found a vet within reasonable distance who had a BAER diagnostic equipment and I took Ming there. I was present and assisting the vet throughout the whole procedure. He sedated Ming with a small dose of Katamine and found that this cat is very sensitive to this drug. He suspects if it's the same one the vet administered during his ear flushing procedure, that Ming OD'd on it. His personal take is that Ming suffered an acute MI (heart attack) and from that, Ming was anoxic (lacking oxygen) for a good 4 to 5 minutes during the ear flushing. Anoxia, he suspects, is enough to affect any number of nerve tissue, and in Ming's case, render his 8th cranial nerve (auditory) damaged. He said that other cats normally come out of sedation, from the small dose he gave Ming, within 10 to 15 minutes. In Ming's case, it took 45 minutes. Even at home, he was still groggy coming out of it and it took 5 hours to fully recover. This vet thinks that Ming's vet's assistant probably lied to the vet. I even had the notion in the first place that it wasn't the vet who performed the ear flush procedure but one of her assistants, which begs the question: who is allowed to perform any procedure involving anesthesia? Just the vet, right? As for Ming, I've been giving him nothing but total TLC, playing with him gently now. Because he's strength is nowhere near as his old self. As I've told the vet who gave the BAER test, Ming is weak in his hind legs and yes, he did note that to be true. Ming can't push himself to jump. And he totally misses the couch or chair. When having to jump to bed, he has to pull himself up by standing up to lean himself with his front paws against the side of the bed, then pull himself up with his claws from that position. Last night he missed, I think, because I heard a big thud and that woke me and my husband up. I immediately picked him up from the floor and when I got him to the bed, he was shaking his head; poor thing. I also have lighting now in the hallways, through the staircase and kitchen. He still loves to roam around the house, but I make sure his pathways are always lit. His meows are so-loud now and he doesn't "talk" to me in those different inflections that he used to have anymore. What is my next recourse? Vet board? The last vet told me that even if I had taken Ming to the farthest part in town (Tustin, California - I live 40 miles away) where they have the fancy diagnostic machines, no surgery can bring Ming's hearing back if it's an auditory nerve damage. I am so sullen with this diagnosis, even if in my heart, I knew, but denied the possibility of his being totally deaf. I'm so grief-stricken that I can't even begin to write up the most objective complaint report. I have all the forms here and have been dragging my feet. My brother told me that I'm grieving is what I look like, being unable to put together the courage to fight the b**** who did this to Ming. Small claims court? No vet would like to support me on my behalf (remember their famous line "in the best interest of professionalism"?) BUT yes, I do have the last vet's diagnosis on paper and yes, he knows what I'm planning to do. So he stamped it with his name, address and phone number, wrote in his diagnosis of "this pet is deaf bilaterally", then signed his own name. That was the best he could do without having to speak up against a co-vet in writing. I don't know ... after Ming someday, I don't think I'd ever want to own another pet, knowing what I know now that if something ever does go wrong with my pet, I can't count on any vet to be honest with me. At any rate, thanks everyone for all your input and help in the initial stages to help me muddle through. If someone out there knows what other legal recourse I have to ensure that this mishap goes into Ming's vet's file, I'll do everything I can to do that. I find myself completely stupefied that at this day and age, "mistakes" like these can still go unpunished. The BAER vet said to me that most likely, Ming's vet's notes will stand. I'm like "even in the face of total deafness?" The only way I know for her to get away with this is to say to the board that she informed me of everything that was performed or has been diagnosed in Ming. Well, I have this long thread to support all my suspicions from day one. Will keep you all posted. Thanks again! Your story was very touching - I don't have any legal advise for you but I will keep you and Ming in prayer Rev Karryl |
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*** Thank you, thank you, {{{everyone}}} =)
"soft" wrote in message ... On Fri, 18 Jun 2004 17:32:50 -0700, "Zaida" wrote: Your story was very touching - I don't have any legal advise for you but I will keep you and Ming in prayer Rev Karryl |
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*** Thank you, thank you, {{{everyone}}} =)
"soft" wrote in message ... On Fri, 18 Jun 2004 17:32:50 -0700, "Zaida" wrote: Your story was very touching - I don't have any legal advise for you but I will keep you and Ming in prayer Rev Karryl |
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*** Thank you, thank you, {{{everyone}}} =)
"soft" wrote in message ... On Fri, 18 Jun 2004 17:32:50 -0700, "Zaida" wrote: Your story was very touching - I don't have any legal advise for you but I will keep you and Ming in prayer Rev Karryl |
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"Zaida" wrote in message ... *** Thank you, thank you, {{{everyone}}} =) You're welcome. I think you are a class act because your response to this is so measured. I'm afraid I'd do something that would send me up the river if someone did this to my cat. |
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"Zaida" wrote in message ... *** Thank you, thank you, {{{everyone}}} =) You're welcome. I think you are a class act because your response to this is so measured. I'm afraid I'd do something that would send me up the river if someone did this to my cat. |
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"Zaida" wrote in message ... *** Thank you, thank you, {{{everyone}}} =) You're welcome. I think you are a class act because your response to this is so measured. I'm afraid I'd do something that would send me up the river if someone did this to my cat. |
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