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"Zaida" wrote in message ... Laura - YOU HIT IT - I think you and someone else did, but his old vet faxed me today (NO CONFIRMATION THOUGH because I never thought he'd get my message) ... but there are 4 pages of reference materials he sent with the heading "Ideopathic Vestibular Syndrome". No way, man, Laura's just a Big Bad Twoll who never posts nuthin' but flames. The "Professor" sed so. --- Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free. Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com). Version: 6.0.681 / Virus Database: 443 - Release Date: 5/10/2004 |
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"Mary" wrote in message
om... "Zaida" wrote in message ... Laura - YOU HIT IT - I think you and someone else did, but his old vet faxed me today (NO CONFIRMATION THOUGH because I never thought he'd get my message) ... but there are 4 pages of reference materials he sent with the heading "Ideopathic Vestibular Syndrome". No way, man, Laura's just a Big Bad Twoll who never posts nuthin' but flames. The "Professor" sed so. I never said that, Mara. Why do you use the name Mary when you post? |
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"Mary" wrote in message
om... "Zaida" wrote in message ... Laura - YOU HIT IT - I think you and someone else did, but his old vet faxed me today (NO CONFIRMATION THOUGH because I never thought he'd get my message) ... but there are 4 pages of reference materials he sent with the heading "Ideopathic Vestibular Syndrome". No way, man, Laura's just a Big Bad Twoll who never posts nuthin' but flames. The "Professor" sed so. I never said that, Mara. Why do you use the name Mary when you post? |
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LOL ... Laura cool thumbs up
"Professor" wrote in message ... "Mary" wrote in message om... "Zaida" wrote in message ... Laura - YOU HIT IT - I think you and someone else did, but his old vet faxed me today (NO CONFIRMATION THOUGH because I never thought he'd get my message) ... but there are 4 pages of reference materials he sent with the heading "Ideopathic Vestibular Syndrome". No way, man, Laura's just a Big Bad Twoll who never posts nuthin' but flames. The "Professor" sed so. I never said that, Mara. Why do you use the name Mary when you post? |
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LOL ... Laura cool thumbs up
"Professor" wrote in message ... "Mary" wrote in message om... "Zaida" wrote in message ... Laura - YOU HIT IT - I think you and someone else did, but his old vet faxed me today (NO CONFIRMATION THOUGH because I never thought he'd get my message) ... but there are 4 pages of reference materials he sent with the heading "Ideopathic Vestibular Syndrome". No way, man, Laura's just a Big Bad Twoll who never posts nuthin' but flames. The "Professor" sed so. I never said that, Mara. Why do you use the name Mary when you post? |
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in article , Zaida at
wrote on 5/11/04 4:00 PM: Laura - YOU HIT IT - I think you and someone else did, but his old vet faxed me today (NO CONFIRMATION THOUGH because I never thought he'd get my message) ... but there are 4 pages of reference materials he sent with the heading "Ideopathic Vestibular Syndrome". He hasn't called to ask to see Ming. I have yet to get copies of Ming's medical records, lab work, etc. The receptionist of the current vet is not lukewarm to my request, saying I need the vet's permission. Well, there's another vet I'm waiting to hear from. So I have a new dilemma now. If I receive 2 differing diagnosis from that (IBD) which Ming has been given by his current vet, I know first thing to have him checked, and certainly have his medications and diet revised or changed accordingly. But what do I do with the vet? All told, Ming's expenses (after the ear flush procedure) from lab, ultrasound and hospitalization came up to $1500+. Can I recover all that and if so, how do I go about it? I only want what's fair if I can't recover everything, at least some to help defray future office visits and treatments for Ming. I also think I ought to mention, since this new 2nd opinion came out, that yesterday when I took Ming to his current vet for his follow-up (and by the way, is it a normal occurrence to be charged for a *follow-up* for the same illness?) she reprimanded me big time for "tweaking" with Ming's Prednisone. She said Ming WILL DIE WITHOUT PREDNISONE. Prednisone is the ONLY thing that's keeping him alive. She said to forget her initial order of once-daily-then-every-other-day. She wants it bumped up to twice a day. Knowing the long-term effects of this steroid, I asked her for how long. She said probably forever. She further said this to me: "It's not up for you to change his dosage, that's my job." And when I told her I was fearful of the long-term effects of Prednisone, she said "I will tell you when, where and what to give Ming and until then, you will do exactly as I say." She further added that "I don't understand why you want your cat to die. You've already spent thousands to treat him and if he deteriorates because you don't follow my orders, your husband will get mad at you for even more costly medical problems because of this." Because I was thisclose to screaming at her, I said nothing though I've been dying to mention about Ming's black stools and acrid, pungent, urine smell worse than ammonia. Let's just say I left her office very upset. There's another follow-up that Ming has this coming Monday. Oh I'm sure though it's a "follow-up", I will be charged again. I will definitely cancel because I now have to select between the 2 vets I'm pinning my hopes on. I'm simply waiting for the other 2nd opinion to come in. Thanks much for everything, everyone! You've all been such a great moral support to me. I think your vet sounds like they have terrible bedside manners. As far as charging, all vets have different policies. Mine doesn't usually charge much if anything for followups, my mothers does. I really don't know that pred can be said to be keeping Ming alive. It's not a cure. It's an anti inflamatory and may be keeping Ming more comfortable. I think you have to wait on a final diagnosis before you have a way to think about getting some fo your money back. I hope Ming is still eating. karen |
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Then it's time to push for those records. It's ridiculous for you not to be able to get a copy of them. I have never had a vet (or one of their receptionists) hesitate to give me copies of my cats records when I've asked for them, and I can't believe they're giving you the runaround on this. Get pushy if you have to. ** I will. The receptionist did say she'll just give them to me on Ming's next check-up. I'm hoping to hear from the other vet so I won't have to bring him back Monday. I can't wait to get those records. Should I tell the receptionist that I need them to take with me for a 2nd opinion? She just said she'll hand them to me on my next visit. Well, wait to see what the other vets say. While your vet may not have diagnosed exactly what ends up being the cause of Ming's problems, from what you've said, she has, at least, followed a pretty typical path of diagnosis- she just seems to charge a helluva lot to do it. ** The charges, I wouldn't have given any qualms if only the diagnosis fit the bill. The problem is I know now that IBD is a condition; not a disease in and of itself. And now that I've gotten a 2nd opinion that it's Vestibular, what am I supposed to think but: how did Ming get it if she didn't flush his ears in a manner that got him in this condition? Well, as I said in another post, prednisone in low doses is an anti- inflammatory, and in high doses is an immunosuppressive, so it's pretty common for IBD (or cancer) cats to be put on high doses to help suppress the immune system responses that are causing the symptoms. So that doesn't sound strange to me. Also, for what it's worth, Alex was on prednisone for the last two years of his life with no ill effects. ** What is high, Laura? Ming is on 5 mg. Twice a day. She further said this to me: "It's not up for you to change his dosage, that's my job." And when I told her I was f earful of the long-term effects of Prednisone, she said "I will tell you when, where and what to give Ming and until then, you will do exactly as I say." She further added that "I don't understand why you want your cat to die. You've already spent thousands to treat him and if he deteriorates because you don't follow my orders, your husband will get mad at you for even more costly medical problems because of this." Now, that kind of statement is just bizarre. I can't imagine any veterinarian I've ever had talking to me in a fashion even remotely resembling that. ** I stepped on her bright, shiny ego. :-T My vets have all been extremely willing to discuss any of my questions to my satisfaction. The fact that yours doesn't seem to want to do so would actually be the chief reason I'd recommend a different vet at this point. You're just having way too many problems getting answers that she should be providing you willingly. ** Because I've a feeling she doesn't want me questioning her judgment. I'm not in the position to challenge her expertise. And I don't disagree. I know that I know diddly-squat. She reacted only when I said that I decided to give the prednisone to Ming at *only* once daily (since he's already eating). I wanted to discuss her diagnosis, but she firmly said, "Yes, he's got IBD; that's my diagnosis." But consider this: what stood between Monday morning when he was perfectly fine and Monday afternoon when I picked him up and was as sick as hell? The ear flush procedure! Try convincing my husband that there's no correlation between the gastric problem and the ear flushing. Before the procedure, he was eating as strong as a horse. By the time we got him and now 3 weeks after, we were considering euthanasia at one point. Imagine all of this. :-( |
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Then it's time to push for those records. It's ridiculous for you not to be able to get a copy of them. I have never had a vet (or one of their receptionists) hesitate to give me copies of my cats records when I've asked for them, and I can't believe they're giving you the runaround on this. Get pushy if you have to. ** I will. The receptionist did say she'll just give them to me on Ming's next check-up. I'm hoping to hear from the other vet so I won't have to bring him back Monday. I can't wait to get those records. Should I tell the receptionist that I need them to take with me for a 2nd opinion? She just said she'll hand them to me on my next visit. Well, wait to see what the other vets say. While your vet may not have diagnosed exactly what ends up being the cause of Ming's problems, from what you've said, she has, at least, followed a pretty typical path of diagnosis- she just seems to charge a helluva lot to do it. ** The charges, I wouldn't have given any qualms if only the diagnosis fit the bill. The problem is I know now that IBD is a condition; not a disease in and of itself. And now that I've gotten a 2nd opinion that it's Vestibular, what am I supposed to think but: how did Ming get it if she didn't flush his ears in a manner that got him in this condition? Well, as I said in another post, prednisone in low doses is an anti- inflammatory, and in high doses is an immunosuppressive, so it's pretty common for IBD (or cancer) cats to be put on high doses to help suppress the immune system responses that are causing the symptoms. So that doesn't sound strange to me. Also, for what it's worth, Alex was on prednisone for the last two years of his life with no ill effects. ** What is high, Laura? Ming is on 5 mg. Twice a day. She further said this to me: "It's not up for you to change his dosage, that's my job." And when I told her I was f earful of the long-term effects of Prednisone, she said "I will tell you when, where and what to give Ming and until then, you will do exactly as I say." She further added that "I don't understand why you want your cat to die. You've already spent thousands to treat him and if he deteriorates because you don't follow my orders, your husband will get mad at you for even more costly medical problems because of this." Now, that kind of statement is just bizarre. I can't imagine any veterinarian I've ever had talking to me in a fashion even remotely resembling that. ** I stepped on her bright, shiny ego. :-T My vets have all been extremely willing to discuss any of my questions to my satisfaction. The fact that yours doesn't seem to want to do so would actually be the chief reason I'd recommend a different vet at this point. You're just having way too many problems getting answers that she should be providing you willingly. ** Because I've a feeling she doesn't want me questioning her judgment. I'm not in the position to challenge her expertise. And I don't disagree. I know that I know diddly-squat. She reacted only when I said that I decided to give the prednisone to Ming at *only* once daily (since he's already eating). I wanted to discuss her diagnosis, but she firmly said, "Yes, he's got IBD; that's my diagnosis." But consider this: what stood between Monday morning when he was perfectly fine and Monday afternoon when I picked him up and was as sick as hell? The ear flush procedure! Try convincing my husband that there's no correlation between the gastric problem and the ear flushing. Before the procedure, he was eating as strong as a horse. By the time we got him and now 3 weeks after, we were considering euthanasia at one point. Imagine all of this. :-( |
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Hey there, Laura. Don't worry about it; I wrote pretty much the same
thing here already. I was just really feeling bummed and needed an "e-shoulder" (sniffles) g ... and my saying that at the risk of ruining your rep with the football ng. vbg "Laura R." wrote in message .. . circa Tue, 11 May 2004 08:50:42 -0700, in rec.pets.cats.health+behav, Zaida ) said, Laura ... lol ... I did figure it out when I looked at the "instruction" after your name, plus I also did see this response. Anyway, I sent out the e-mail again last night. I hope it's in your inbox by now. Unfortunately, the account to which that address forwarders has been failing all day. Yeesh. Hopefully it'll come in tomorrow. :-) Laura -- I am Dyslexia of Borg, Your ass will be laminated. |
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