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I can't send ut any e mails and other info
I'm so frustrated I could just cry.
I can't send out any e mails, Cheezburgers, LOLCATS and The Daily Word ( only to those who want it) My husband is un the bedroom, crying/screaming in pain, because he fell off our bed last night, and he blames ME because I happened to be out of the room, but not that far away.I got to him as fast as I could, which is rather slow because I'm disabled, as is he. I called 911 and 2 firefighters came over and got him back into bed and told him to call our Doctor this morning, and tell The Doctor what is going on. They also told Dutch to try and have a different more of a positive attitude about his pain, which he _really_ resented. He is 66 years old. Dutch has taught me how to deal with _my_ pain, close my eyes, breathe deeply, imagine the shape, size, color, thing positive/ happy thoughts and , and I pray a lot as well. Does he do this for his pain? No! He'd rather bitch at me and scream in pain. Long heavy sigh. Also , I surmise it was yesterday, 2 policemen showed up at our front door, (I have no clue who called them) I asked them if they would like to come in, and they helped my husband back into bed, and he was still screaming in pain. I think a concerned neighbor called them because Dutch was screaming in pain so loudly. Meanwhile, I have been waiting on my husband, making him food, coffee and he had the nerve to ask me to go outside to HIS car and get him some beef Jerky which is inside the car. I told him I could not do that because I am too weak from taking care of him and he got mad at me again. He gets so mean when he is in pain. I have been in osteoarthritis pain since 1998 or so, then had both of my knees replaced with metal ones in Dec of 2001. My knees feel like they are broken, feels like someone whacked both of them with a baseball bat. It's 6 am (PDT) and I feel like sleeping on our couch, but I can't because he 'needs' me in the bedroom to do this and that for him. I am so tired and frustrated and I have to make some phone calls today to try and get both of us some in- home care soon, which I was told we are covered for by our medical insurance company. He also needs a few things, like a wheelchair, a commode for the bedroom, etc. I hurt SO much for trying to push him into his bathroom in a heavy office chair with wheel casters, but he doesn't care about me at all, it seems. After all of that, he never made it into the bathroom. Thank you for letting me vent and now I am _reluctantly_ going back to bed. Love to all, Kyla |
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On 7/14/2015 9:00 AM, Kyla=^..^= wrote:
I'm so frustrated I could just cry. I can't send out any e mails, Cheezburgers, LOLCATS and The Daily Word ( only to those who want it) My husband is un the bedroom, crying/screaming in pain, because he fell off our bed last night, and he blames ME because I happened to be out of the room, but not that far away.I got to him as fast as I could, which is rather slow because I'm disabled, as is he. I called 911 and 2 firefighters came over and got him back into bed and told him to call our Doctor this morning, and tell The Doctor what is going on. They also told Dutch to try and have a different more of a positive attitude about his pain, which he _really_ resented. He is 66 years old. Dutch has taught me how to deal with _my_ pain, close my eyes, breathe deeply, imagine the shape, size, color, thing positive/ happy thoughts and , and I pray a lot as well. Does he do this for his pain? No! He'd rather bitch at me and scream in pain. Long heavy sigh. Also , I surmise it was yesterday, 2 policemen showed up at our front door, (I have no clue who called them) I asked them if they would like to come in, and they helped my husband back into bed, and he was still screaming in pain. I think a concerned neighbor called them because Dutch was screaming in pain so loudly. Meanwhile, I have been waiting on my husband, making him food, coffee and he had the nerve to ask me to go outside to HIS car and get him some beef Jerky which is inside the car. I told him I could not do that because I am too weak from taking care of him and he got mad at me again. He gets so mean when he is in pain. I have been in osteoarthritis pain since 1998 or so, then had both of my knees replaced with metal ones in Dec of 2001. My knees feel like they are broken, feels like someone whacked both of them with a baseball bat. It's 6 am (PDT) and I feel like sleeping on our couch, but I can't because he 'needs' me in the bedroom to do this and that for him. I am so tired and frustrated and I have to make some phone calls today to try and get both of us some in- home care soon, which I was told we are covered for by our medical insurance company. He also needs a few things, like a wheelchair, a commode for the bedroom, etc. I hurt SO much for trying to push him into his bathroom in a heavy office chair with wheel casters, but he doesn't care about me at all, it seems. After all of that, he never made it into the bathroom. Thank you for letting me vent and now I am _reluctantly_ going back to bed. Love to all, Kyla Lots of purrs and prayers for you and Dutch. It does sound like you need someone in to help you both. Ann |
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.... On 7/14/2015 9:00 AM, Kyla=^..^= wrote: I'm so frustrated I could just cry. I can't send out any e mails, Cheezburgers, LOLCATS and The Daily Word ( only to those who want it) My husband is un the bedroom, crying/screaming in pain, because he fell off our bed last night, and he blames ME because I happened to be out of the room, but not that far away.I got to him as fast as I could, which is rather slow because I'm disabled, as is he. I called 911 and 2 firefighters came over and got him back into bed and told him to call our Doctor this morning, and tell The Doctor what is going on. They also told Dutch to try and have a different more of a positive attitude about his pain, which he _really_ resented. He is 66 years old. Dutch has taught me how to deal with _my_ pain, close my eyes, breathe deeply, imagine the shape, size, color, thing positive/ happy thoughts and , and I pray a lot as well. Does he do this for his pain? No! He'd rather bitch at me and scream in pain. Long heavy sigh. Also , I surmise it was yesterday, 2 policemen showed up at our front door, (I have no clue who called them) I asked them if they would like to come in, and they helped my husband back into bed, and he was still screaming in pain. I think a concerned neighbor called them because Dutch was screaming in pain so loudly. Meanwhile, I have been waiting on my husband, making him food, coffee and he had the nerve to ask me to go outside to HIS car and get him some beef Jerky which is inside the car. I told him I could not do that because I am too weak from taking care of him and he got mad at me again. He gets so mean when he is in pain. I have been in osteoarthritis pain since 1998 or so, then had both of my knees replaced with metal ones in Dec of 2001. My knees feel like they are broken, feels like someone whacked both of them with a baseball bat. It's 6 am (PDT) and I feel like sleeping on our couch, but I can't because he 'needs' me in the bedroom to do this and that for him. I am so tired and frustrated and I have to make some phone calls today to try and get both of us some in- home care soon, which I was told we are covered for by our medical insurance company. He also needs a few things, like a wheelchair, a commode for the bedroom, etc. I hurt SO much for trying to push him into his bathroom in a heavy office chair with wheel casters, but he doesn't care about me at all, it seems. After all of that, he never made it into the bathroom. Thank you for letting me vent and now I am _reluctantly_ going back to bed. Love to all, Kyla Lots of purrs and prayers for you and Dutch. It does sound like you need someone in to help you both. Ann Thank you,Ann for your prayers and your cats purrs We have to get our doctor's referral for home health care which I'm sure he will Ann you are so sweet to me and I will keep you in my kind thoughts and my prayers. Love, Kyla |
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Kyla=^..^= wrote in rec.pets.cats.community:
I'm so frustrated I could just cry. I can't send out any e mails, Cheezburgers, LOLCATS and The Daily Word ( only to those who want it) My husband is un the bedroom, crying/screaming in pain, because he fell off our bed last night, and he blames ME because I happened to be out of the room, but not that far away.I got to him as fast as I could, which is rather slow because I'm disabled, as is he. I called 911 and 2 firefighters came over and got him back into bed and told him to call our Doctor this morning, and tell The Doctor what is going on. They also told Dutch to try and have a different more of a positive attitude about his pain, which he really resented. He is 66 years old. Dutch has taught me how to deal with my pain, close my eyes, breathe deeply, imagine the shape, size, color, thing positive/ happy thoughts and , and I pray a lot as well. Does he do this for his pain? No! He'd rather bitch at me and scream in pain. Long heavy sigh. Also , I surmise it was yesterday, 2 policemen showed up at our front door, (I have no clue who called them) I asked them if they would like to come in, and they helped my husband back into bed, and he was still screaming in pain. I think a concerned neighbor called them because Dutch was screaming in pain so loudly. Meanwhile, I have been waiting on my husband, making him food, coffee and he had the nerve to ask me to go outside to HIS car and get him some beef Jerky which is inside the car. I told him I could not do that because I am too weak from taking care of him and he got mad at me again. He gets so mean when he is in pain. I have been in osteoarthritis pain since 1998 or so, then had both of my knees replaced with metal ones in Dec of 2001. My knees feel like they are broken, feels like someone whacked both of them with a baseball bat. It's 6 am (PDT) and I feel like sleeping on our couch, but I can't because he 'needs' me in the bedroom to do this and that for him. I am so tired and frustrated and I have to make some phone calls today to try and get both of us some in- home care soon, which I was told we are covered for by our medical insurance company. He also needs a few things, like a wheelchair, a commode for the bedroom, etc. I hurt SO much for trying to push him into his bathroom in a heavy office chair with wheel casters, but he doesn't care about me at all, it seems. After all of that, he never made it into the bathroom. Thank you for letting me vent and now I am reluctantly going back to bed. Love to all, Kyla Hi Kyla, I was wondering as I had not heard from you in a bit. I hope things get better. It's a tough time you are in. Carol -- |
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Kyla=^..^= wrote in rec.pets.cats.community: snip Hi Kyla, Hi Carol, I was wondering as I had not heard from you in a bit. Hi Carol, Oh, but you have heard from me, but Mosey=^..^= 'usually' does the posting here I hope things get better. Thank you Us as well, and as I am typing this, they are _trying_ to discharge Dutch from the ER with a shot of Demerol, and a referral for a rheumatologist,and our Doctor told them that he should be in the hospital for 2 or 3 days, because Dutch, my hubby, can't move/walk and I sure can’t take care of Dutch. This is absurd/bordering on malpractice. We've both had a _couple_ of _bad_ issues with this particular ER before. Dr Graves , our family Doctor is calling the hospital at 8 [m PST to_ try _and talk them into keeping Dutch for the time he specified. Dutch NEEDS to be in the hospital, where he can be looked after. It's a tough time you are in. Carol Yes, it surely is, but I am praying a _lot_. Thank you so much for your kindness and concern Most _deeply_ appreciated. Kyla -- |
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