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What Am I doing Wrong?
Candace wrote:
snip Abbey had chylothorax in 2005 and almost died but survived and is doing wonderfully even though she had a very poor prognosis. I did post about her here a little when Dan's cat, Harri, was ill a couple years ago. But other than that, I mostly lurk here. I know about all the regulars' cats. And that's about it...thanks for asking. Candace I'm so glad to hear Abbey recovered so well. Best wishes, POlonca and Soncek |
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Verbal abuse vs physical
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Verbal abuse vs physical
tanadashoes wrote:
Amen to that Cheryl. Looking back it was all the kind people who ultimate kept me from using that razor on my wrists. There was a bus driver who'd buy my sisters and I lunches on band trips. A teacher that got me away from the family for the summers from my first through fourth grade by taking me to hers and her husband's house in Idaho to stay. Another teacher who did what she could to shield me after she knew about the parents' abuse. Friends in later years who were not afraid to answer questions about parenting and dealing with the real world when I felt so stupid asking. And above all friends who were sympathetic for all I'd been through without judging me or my parents for the mistakes we'd made. Pam S. Lots and lots of hugs and purrs, Polonca and Soncek |
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Verbal abuse vs physical
polonca12000 wrote: wrote: I can't agree more! My dad was both physically and emotionally/verbally abusive toward us kids. But what I'm still angry about, 40-50 years later, is not the physical punishments, but all the horrible things he used to say about me, many of which I still believe about myself and still struggle with every day. I haven't been following this thread, but I remember once "enjoying" a very uncomfortable evening meal with an acquaintance and her husband. A mutual friend had told me he beat her, but after that evening meal, I was pretty much on hubby's side! (Practically every word out of her mouth was in some way belittling to him - the sort of thing you just don't SAY with guests present - especially if they are not intimate friends!) I don't think I've ever spent quite such an embarrassing couple of hours - by the time I found an opportunity to excuse myself and leave, I was about ready to belt her one, myself! |
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Verbal abuse vs physical
"EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque)" wrote:
I haven't been following this thread, but I remember once "enjoying" a very uncomfortable evening meal with an acquaintance and her husband. A mutual friend had told me he beat her, but after that evening meal, I was pretty much on hubby's side! (Practically every word out of her mouth was in some way belittling to him - the sort of thing you just don't SAY with guests present - especially if they are not intimate friends!) I don't think I've ever spent quite such an embarrassing couple of hours - by the time I found an opportunity to excuse myself and leave, I was about ready to belt her one, myself! Ugh, I've been around couples where one of them is constantly belittling the other. I don't find it embarrassing, but it does upset me. It's really depressing to be around that kind of ugliness. Sometimes I get angry about it, but usually I don't say anything unless it just goes on end on. And then my comments are focused on my feelings, rather than on meddling in their relationship issues. I must say, though, that since they've chosen to exhibit their behavior in front of me, I consider their personal struggles to be fair game for my commentary. I just prefer not to jump into something like that impulsively - it could turn into a real mess. I have at times been asked to mediate problems between couples, but that's different. -- Joyce To email me, remove the triple-X from my user name. ^..^ |
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