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Update from Julie and Sam
Thank you all for your purrs and well wishes. As usual they seem to be
helping. It appears that my brother will not suffer from liver damage and the doctors hope to be able to transfer him tomorrow. He'll be coming to the hospital where I work so I'll be better able to keep an eye on him. Sam's news isn't quite as good although he is breathing better today and had a fairly good night. He had to have a couple of doses of albuterol during the night but he didn't require oxygen. I picked him up from the Emergency Vet this morning (they close at 8:30 a.m.) and we transferred him to his regular vet to spend the day where they'll just keep an eye on his breathing. We'll be able to make sure he's ok to be alone during the day while we're at work. We're no closer to determining what to do about the tumor. On his x-rays in January 2005 this looked like a calcification about the size of a marble. The x-rays yesterday revealed a tumor about 3" ( 7 cm)in diameter. The vet is concerned about even putting him under long enough to take a biopsy. When I left this morning we had about decided to get his asthma under control, take another x-ray in 6 weeks and then consider a biopsy. The questions that have to be answered a 1) can he survive anesthesia long enough to get the biopsy; 2) if it is cancer what are we going to do about it - the chances of him surviving anesthesia administered for surgery of that nature are very slim. 3) So is it really worth the risk to learn what we're pretty sure we already know. I'm sure this will all work itself out in the coming weeks. I just wish there was an easier way. As the vet said last night, however, "Sam doesn't know that Sam has a tumor". As far as we're concerned, whatever we decide to do, as long as Sam's quality of life is good, then we'll help him fight. Again, thank you all for your purrs. They mean so very much. Julie and Sam |
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Update from Julie and Sam
"Julie and Sam" wrote in message ... Thank you all for your purrs and well wishes. As usual they seem to be helping. It appears that my brother will not suffer from liver damage and the doctors hope to be able to transfer him tomorrow. He'll be coming to the hospital where I work so I'll be better able to keep an eye on him. Sam's news isn't quite as good although he is breathing better today and had a fairly good night. He had to have a couple of doses of albuterol during the night but he didn't require oxygen. I picked him up from the Emergency Vet this morning (they close at 8:30 a.m.) and we transferred him to his regular vet to spend the day where they'll just keep an eye on his breathing. We'll be able to make sure he's ok to be alone during the day while we're at work. We're no closer to determining what to do about the tumor. On his x-rays in January 2005 this looked like a calcification about the size of a marble. The x-rays yesterday revealed a tumor about 3" ( 7 cm)in diameter. The vet is concerned about even putting him under long enough to take a biopsy. When I left this morning we had about decided to get his asthma under control, take another x-ray in 6 weeks and then consider a biopsy. The questions that have to be answered a 1) can he survive anesthesia long enough to get the biopsy; 2) if it is cancer what are we going to do about it - the chances of him surviving anesthesia administered for surgery of that nature are very slim. 3) So is it really worth the risk to learn what we're pretty sure we already know. I'm sure this will all work itself out in the coming weeks. I just wish there was an easier way. As the vet said last night, however, "Sam doesn't know that Sam has a tumor". As far as we're concerned, whatever we decide to do, as long as Sam's quality of life is good, then we'll help him fight. Again, thank you all for your purrs. They mean so very much. Julie and Sam Hope his own vet can get him settled and breathing better. It is hard to not go after information you could get, but it sounds like you already know that going after the biopsy really won't make a difference in his treatment. Especially as it would be hard on him and he is already stressed. There does come a time when quality of life and fight are mutually exclusive. I know how hard this can be. Purrs that you still have some good quality time together. Sometimes the last few weeks with mine have been especially sweet even when I've known they were the last few weeks. I've been lucky to be able to take the time to sit and hold them and love them and tell them a proper good-by. Jo |
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Update from Julie and Sam
Jo Firey wrote: Hope his own vet can get him settled and breathing better. It is hard to not go after information you could get, but it sounds like you already know that going after the biopsy really won't make a difference in his treatment. Especially as it would be hard on him and he is already stressed. There does come a time when quality of life and fight are mutually exclusive. I know how hard this can be. Purrs that you still have some good quality time together. Sometimes the last few weeks with mine have been especially sweet even when I've known they were the last few weeks. I've been lucky to be able to take the time to sit and hold them and love them and tell them a proper good-by. Jo One of the reasons that I've not been online a lot recently is that whenever I sit down with my laptop Sam takes over my lap. Then Barnabus sits on the right arm of the loveseat and all of a sudden I don't have a way to type or a place to put my laptop. In the long run, I'd rather have the memories of having Sam cuddle with me, I'm sure everyone knows we're sending purrs when needed and will understand. Julie |
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Update from Julie and Sam
Julie and Sam wrote:
I'm sure this will all work itself out in the coming weeks. I just wish there was an easier way. As the vet said last night, however, "Sam doesn't know that Sam has a tumor". As far as we're concerned, whatever we decide to do, as long as Sam's quality of life is good, then we'll help him fight. Again, thank you all for your purrs. They mean so very much. Can they do a biopsy with local anesthetic? I know it's probably difficult, but it certainly beats having to be put under general anesthesia. I'm glad your brother doesn't have permanent damage to his liver. Purrs for a complete recover from his depression. -- Victor M. Martinez Owned and operated by the Fantastic Seven (TM) Send your spam he Email me he |
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Update from Julie and Sam
"Victor Martinez" wrote in message ... Julie and Sam wrote: I'm sure this will all work itself out in the coming weeks. I just wish there was an easier way. As the vet said last night, however, "Sam doesn't know that Sam has a tumor". As far as we're concerned, whatever we decide to do, as long as Sam's quality of life is good, then we'll help him fight. Again, thank you all for your purrs. They mean so very much. Can they do a biopsy with local anesthetic? I know it's probably difficult, but it certainly beats having to be put under general anesthesia. I'm glad your brother doesn't have permanent damage to his liver. Purrs for a complete recover from his depression. Thank you Victor and everyone for the purrs for my family. When I picked Sam up from the vet tonight we discussed options. The vet clinic has three vets and they discussed Sam's x-rays and situation and they're unsure that his tumor is a tumor. They feel that if this has been going on for 1 1/2 years that ...well, that Sam wouldn't be alive. Therefore, they are referring Sam to a specialty clinic where we're going to let one of the surgeons review the x-rays and exam Sam and see what they suggest. So I'll call tomorrow and get an appointment as soon as possible. In the meantime, Sam is resting well and breathing slowly and deeply and he's very happy to be home. Julie |
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Update from Julie and Sam
Julie and Sam wrote:
Thank you all for your purrs and well wishes. As usual they seem to be helping. It appears that my brother will not suffer from liver damage and the doctors hope to be able to transfer him tomorrow. He'll be coming to the hospital where I work so I'll be better able to keep an eye on him. Sam's news isn't quite as good although he is breathing better today and had a fairly good night. He had to have a couple of doses of albuterol during the night but he didn't require oxygen. I picked him up from the Emergency Vet this morning (they close at 8:30 a.m.) and we transferred him to his regular vet to spend the day where they'll just keep an eye on his breathing. We'll be able to make sure he's ok to be alone during the day while we're at work. We're no closer to determining what to do about the tumor. On his x-rays in January 2005 this looked like a calcification about the size of a marble. The x-rays yesterday revealed a tumor about 3" ( 7 cm)in diameter. The vet is concerned about even putting him under long enough to take a biopsy. When I left this morning we had about decided to get his asthma under control, take another x-ray in 6 weeks and then consider a biopsy. The questions that have to be answered a 1) can he survive anesthesia long enough to get the biopsy; 2) if it is cancer what are we going to do about it - the chances of him surviving anesthesia administered for surgery of that nature are very slim. 3) So is it really worth the risk to learn what we're pretty sure we already know. I'm sure this will all work itself out in the coming weeks. I just wish there was an easier way. As the vet said last night, however, "Sam doesn't know that Sam has a tumor". As far as we're concerned, whatever we decide to do, as long as Sam's quality of life is good, then we'll help him fight. Again, thank you all for your purrs. They mean so very much. Julie and Sam And the purrs for Sam continue. Excellent news on your brother. Continuing purrs for his recovery, physical and psychological. -- Sam, closely supervised by Mistletoe |
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Update from Julie and Sam
Julie and Sam wrote:
Thank you all for your purrs and well wishes. As usual they seem to be helping. It appears that my brother will not suffer from liver damage and the doctors hope to be able to transfer him tomorrow. He'll be coming to the hospital where I work so I'll be better able to keep an eye on him. Sam's news isn't quite as good although he is breathing better today and had a fairly good night. He had to have a couple of doses of albuterol during the night but he didn't require oxygen. I picked him up from the Emergency Vet this morning (they close at 8:30 a.m.) and we transferred him to his regular vet to spend the day where they'll just keep an eye on his breathing. We'll be able to make sure he's ok to be alone during the day while we're at work. We're no closer to determining what to do about the tumor. On his x-rays in January 2005 this looked like a calcification about the size of a marble. The x-rays yesterday revealed a tumor about 3" ( 7 cm)in diameter. The vet is concerned about even putting him under long enough to take a biopsy. When I left this morning we had about decided to get his asthma under control, take another x-ray in 6 weeks and then consider a biopsy. The questions that have to be answered a 1) can he survive anesthesia long enough to get the biopsy; 2) if it is cancer what are we going to do about it - the chances of him surviving anesthesia administered for surgery of that nature are very slim. 3) So is it really worth the risk to learn what we're pretty sure we already know. I'm sure this will all work itself out in the coming weeks. I just wish there was an easier way. As the vet said last night, however, "Sam doesn't know that Sam has a tumor". As far as we're concerned, whatever we decide to do, as long as Sam's quality of life is good, then we'll help him fight. Again, thank you all for your purrs. They mean so very much. I'm glad to hear the good news about your brother, but sorry about the bleak prognosis for Sam. We will be purring hard for him, and for the tumour to stop growing. -- Marina, Miranda and Caliban. In loving memory of Frank and Nikki. Stories and pics at http://koti.welho.com/mkurten/ Pics at http://uk.pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/frankiennikki/ and http://community.webshots.com/user/frankiennikki |
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Update from Julie and Sam
Julie and Sam wrote: Thank you Victor and everyone for the purrs for my family. When I picked Sam up from the vet tonight we discussed options. The vet clinic has three vets and they discussed Sam's x-rays and situation and they're unsure that his tumor is a tumor. They feel that if this has been going on for 1 1/2 years that ...well, that Sam wouldn't be alive. Therefore, they are referring Sam to a specialty clinic where we're going to let one of the surgeons review the x-rays and exam Sam and see what they suggest. So I'll call tomorrow and get an appointment as soon as possible. In the meantime, Sam is resting well and breathing slowly and deeply and he's very happy to be home. Julie Best of luck at the clinic tomorrow. If it is not a tumour, you might possibly be looking at a reprieve? We can only hope (and purr). I am truly very sorry about the condition your brother is in. I know that you are all breathing a sigh of relief that he was unsuccessful, but bear in mind that he might not be relieved at all. Do keep in mind (cruel as it may sound) that if you cannot get his cooperation to seek treatment, you would be justified in trying to save his life by having him committed for a short time, for full psyche evaluation. At least long enough to give him time to think before going out there unsupervised again. I have some experience in this area, and you are more than welcome to e-mail me if you want to discuss it in more detail without violating his confidence & privacy. Purrs & prayers for your whole family with any number of legs... --tension/luthien/muezza.glorio |
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Update from Julie and Sam
On Tue, 19 Sep 2006 13:58:35 -0400, Julie and Sam
wrote: Thank you all for your purrs and well wishes. As usual they seem to be helping. It appears that my brother will not suffer from liver damage and the doctors hope to be able to transfer him tomorrow. He'll be coming to the hospital where I work so I'll be better able to keep an eye on him. Sam's news isn't quite as good although he is breathing better today and had a fairly good night. He had to have a couple of doses of albuterol during the night but he didn't require oxygen. I picked him up from the Emergency Vet this morning (they close at 8:30 a.m.) and we transferred him to his regular vet to spend the day where they'll just keep an eye on his breathing. We'll be able to make sure he's ok to be alone during the day while we're at work. We're no closer to determining what to do about the tumor. On his x-rays in January 2005 this looked like a calcification about the size of a marble. The x-rays yesterday revealed a tumor about 3" ( 7 cm)in diameter. The vet is concerned about even putting him under long enough to take a biopsy. When I left this morning we had about decided to get his asthma under control, take another x-ray in 6 weeks and then consider a biopsy. The questions that have to be answered a 1) can he survive anesthesia long enough to get the biopsy; 2) if it is cancer what are we going to do about it - the chances of him surviving anesthesia administered for surgery of that nature are very slim. 3) So is it really worth the risk to learn what we're pretty sure we already know. I'm sure this will all work itself out in the coming weeks. I just wish there was an easier way. As the vet said last night, however, "Sam doesn't know that Sam has a tumor". As far as we're concerned, whatever we decide to do, as long as Sam's quality of life is good, then we'll help him fight. Again, thank you all for your purrs. They mean so very much. Julie and Sam {{{{{Julie}}}}}}} Continuing purrs from here. I have two asthmatic cats, and lost another last year to lymphoma, so you have my sympathies. And the same with your brother; I understand what he is going through, as well as what you are. Purrs that all will be well soon. Ginger-lyn Home Pages: http://www.moonsummer.com http://www.angelfire.com/folk/glsummer (homepage & cats) http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb....mmer/index.htm (genealogy) http://www.movieanimals.bravehost.com/ (The Violence Against Animals in Movies Website) |
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Update from Julie and Sam
Julie and Sam wrote:
Thank you all for your purrs and well wishes. As usual they seem to be helping. It appears that my brother will not suffer from liver damage and the doctors hope to be able to transfer him tomorrow. He'll be coming to the hospital where I work so I'll be better able to keep an eye on him. Sam's news isn't quite as good although he is breathing better today and had a fairly good night. He had to have a couple of doses of albuterol during the night but he didn't require oxygen. I picked him up from the Emergency Vet this morning (they close at 8:30 a.m.) and we transferred him to his regular vet to spend the day where they'll just keep an eye on his breathing. We'll be able to make sure he's ok to be alone during the day while we're at work. We're no closer to determining what to do about the tumor. On his x-rays in January 2005 this looked like a calcification about the size of a marble. The x-rays yesterday revealed a tumor about 3" ( 7 cm)in diameter. The vet is concerned about even putting him under long enough to take a biopsy. When I left this morning we had about decided to get his asthma under control, take another x-ray in 6 weeks and then consider a biopsy. The questions that have to be answered a 1) can he survive anesthesia long enough to get the biopsy; 2) if it is cancer what are we going to do about it - the chances of him surviving anesthesia administered for surgery of that nature are very slim. 3) So is it really worth the risk to learn what we're pretty sure we already know. I'm sure this will all work itself out in the coming weeks. I just wish there was an easier way. As the vet said last night, however, "Sam doesn't know that Sam has a tumor". As far as we're concerned, whatever we decide to do, as long as Sam's quality of life is good, then we'll help him fight. Belated purrs from all the denizens here. -- "In 2005, the refining margin...has exceeded $20 per barrel, far above the long-term average of $6. That has meant record profits for oil companies and refiners" NYT 2005/09/11 |
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