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Ian C wrote:
Now that I think about it, putting her to sleep is for more than just the pain. It would be quite loving to put her to sleep as Amy doesn't sleep much anymore (I assume she is sleeping some time), instead she lays around on her side with her eyes open staring blankly. Ian, I'm so sorry. Putting Amy to sleep is truly the compassionate thing to do if she's suffering. You obviously love her very much, don't feel like you're betraying her. I'm so sorry. Karen M. |
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Ian C wrote:
Now that I think about it, putting her to sleep is for more than just the pain. It would be quite loving to put her to sleep as Amy doesn't sleep much anymore (I assume she is sleeping some time), instead she lays around on her side with her eyes open staring blankly. Ian, I'm so sorry. Putting Amy to sleep is truly the compassionate thing to do if she's suffering. You obviously love her very much, don't feel like you're betraying her. I'm so sorry. Karen M. |
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"Laura R." wrote As do I. When my time comes, I hope people euthanization is legal wherever I'm living. "Hope," hell, and "legal," schmegal!! I'll do it anyway. A fate worse than death, to me: Alzheimers or dementia, where your "shell" can live on for decades. *shudder* |
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"Laura R." wrote As do I. When my time comes, I hope people euthanization is legal wherever I'm living. "Hope," hell, and "legal," schmegal!! I'll do it anyway. A fate worse than death, to me: Alzheimers or dementia, where your "shell" can live on for decades. *shudder* |
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"Laura R." wrote As do I. When my time comes, I hope people euthanization is legal wherever I'm living. "Hope," hell, and "legal," schmegal!! I'll do it anyway. A fate worse than death, to me: Alzheimers or dementia, where your "shell" can live on for decades. *shudder* |
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Brandy Alexandre wrote:
Laura R. wrote in rec.pets.cats.health+behav: circa 17 Jan 2004 20:10:09 GMT, in rec.pets.cats.health+behav, Sherry ) said, Amen. When I had Alex euthanized in August, I was there with him the whole time, and I felt *so* much better knowing that he died with me holding him and stroking him and telling him that it was okay to let go. The greatest kindness that we can do for our pets is to help them to leave when it is time, rather than making them suffer until they die "naturally", IMO. Laura It *is* a kindess. When we had our beloved cat euthanized, the vet stroked him, kissed him on the head and said, "It's a shame we can't do this for people." I wholeheartedly agree. As do I. When my time comes, I hope people euthanization is legal wherever I'm living. Laura Ditto. You have to move to Oregon, if I recall. Yep. Of course Nazi Ashcroft has tried to dismantle our law several times, but so far we've kept it on the books. |
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Brandy Alexandre wrote:
Laura R. wrote in rec.pets.cats.health+behav: circa 17 Jan 2004 20:10:09 GMT, in rec.pets.cats.health+behav, Sherry ) said, Amen. When I had Alex euthanized in August, I was there with him the whole time, and I felt *so* much better knowing that he died with me holding him and stroking him and telling him that it was okay to let go. The greatest kindness that we can do for our pets is to help them to leave when it is time, rather than making them suffer until they die "naturally", IMO. Laura It *is* a kindess. When we had our beloved cat euthanized, the vet stroked him, kissed him on the head and said, "It's a shame we can't do this for people." I wholeheartedly agree. As do I. When my time comes, I hope people euthanization is legal wherever I'm living. Laura Ditto. You have to move to Oregon, if I recall. Yep. Of course Nazi Ashcroft has tried to dismantle our law several times, but so far we've kept it on the books. |
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Brandy Alexandre wrote:
Laura R. wrote in rec.pets.cats.health+behav: circa 17 Jan 2004 20:10:09 GMT, in rec.pets.cats.health+behav, Sherry ) said, Amen. When I had Alex euthanized in August, I was there with him the whole time, and I felt *so* much better knowing that he died with me holding him and stroking him and telling him that it was okay to let go. The greatest kindness that we can do for our pets is to help them to leave when it is time, rather than making them suffer until they die "naturally", IMO. Laura It *is* a kindess. When we had our beloved cat euthanized, the vet stroked him, kissed him on the head and said, "It's a shame we can't do this for people." I wholeheartedly agree. As do I. When my time comes, I hope people euthanization is legal wherever I'm living. Laura Ditto. You have to move to Oregon, if I recall. Yep. Of course Nazi Ashcroft has tried to dismantle our law several times, but so far we've kept it on the books. |
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Brandy Alexandre wrote:
Karen M. wrote in rec.pets.cats.health+behav: Brandy Alexandre wrote: Laura R. wrote in rec.pets.cats.health+behav: circa 17 Jan 2004 20:10:09 GMT, in rec.pets.cats.health+behav, Sherry ) said, Amen. When I had Alex euthanized in August, I was there with him the whole time, and I felt *so* much better knowing that he died with me holding him and stroking him and telling him that it was okay to let go. The greatest kindness that we can do for our pets is to help them to leave when it is time, rather than making them suffer until they die "naturally", IMO. Laura It *is* a kindess. When we had our beloved cat euthanized, the vet stroked him, kissed him on the head and said, "It's a shame we can't do this for people." I wholeheartedly agree. As do I. When my time comes, I hope people euthanization is legal wherever I'm living. Laura Ditto. You have to move to Oregon, if I recall. Yep. Of course Nazi Ashcroft has tried to dismantle our law several times, but so far we've kept it on the books. A friend of my sister's was just given 6 months. She had some crazy itching all over, but no sign of allergy or anything. She went to a dematologist who suspected bile backup in her blood and sent her to another doctor. That doctor determined there was a bile duct blockage and they went in to stent it opened. While there they discovered a tumor was pressing on it, but it was attached to a vein. They took a sample and closed her up. They couldn't remove it. Sample malignant, death sentence issued and other than itching like a mad woman, she feels just fine. I think at that point I would pack up my stuff, including medical history, fly to oregon and register to vote to and do other things that establish residency, visit a doctor, get the drugs and be done with it. I've worked in two different nursing homes and god help me if I ever ended up like some of the poor people there. Alive only in body and no family ever comes to visit them. It was horrible to see. |
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Brandy Alexandre wrote:
Karen M. wrote in rec.pets.cats.health+behav: Brandy Alexandre wrote: Laura R. wrote in rec.pets.cats.health+behav: circa 17 Jan 2004 20:10:09 GMT, in rec.pets.cats.health+behav, Sherry ) said, Amen. When I had Alex euthanized in August, I was there with him the whole time, and I felt *so* much better knowing that he died with me holding him and stroking him and telling him that it was okay to let go. The greatest kindness that we can do for our pets is to help them to leave when it is time, rather than making them suffer until they die "naturally", IMO. Laura It *is* a kindess. When we had our beloved cat euthanized, the vet stroked him, kissed him on the head and said, "It's a shame we can't do this for people." I wholeheartedly agree. As do I. When my time comes, I hope people euthanization is legal wherever I'm living. Laura Ditto. You have to move to Oregon, if I recall. Yep. Of course Nazi Ashcroft has tried to dismantle our law several times, but so far we've kept it on the books. A friend of my sister's was just given 6 months. She had some crazy itching all over, but no sign of allergy or anything. She went to a dematologist who suspected bile backup in her blood and sent her to another doctor. That doctor determined there was a bile duct blockage and they went in to stent it opened. While there they discovered a tumor was pressing on it, but it was attached to a vein. They took a sample and closed her up. They couldn't remove it. Sample malignant, death sentence issued and other than itching like a mad woman, she feels just fine. I think at that point I would pack up my stuff, including medical history, fly to oregon and register to vote to and do other things that establish residency, visit a doctor, get the drugs and be done with it. I've worked in two different nursing homes and god help me if I ever ended up like some of the poor people there. Alive only in body and no family ever comes to visit them. It was horrible to see. |
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