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The Kamikaze Kitty: 4/3/88 -- 5/9/06
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The Kamikaze Kitty: 4/3/88 -- 5/9/06
Rona Y. wrote: wrote: Brandy Alexandre wrote: Unsubscribe My condolences Brandy, perhaps when you are up to it you can tell us what happened with Kami her last few days. -mhd I'm guessing that won't happen. Kami had been in poor health for sometime now, and I would bet that she had to be pts. Given how people have reacted to Brandy's treatment of Kami in the past (I probably said a bad word or two, as well, though I don't remember doing so), she couldn't make such an admission without fearing verbal rebukes, insults, or otherwise. No one here would argue that euthanizing a sick, elderly cat was wrong. I think all of the people here have the welfare of cats at heart. It's such a shame, because I'm sure Brandy really did love Kami, and it would be helpful for her to unload some of her sorrow here. I, too, offer my condolences to Brandy, and I hope she has the occasion to subscribe again. I don't understand the "unsubscribe" comment - yeah, unsubscribe since you won't be participating any more, but why post the death notice and then skeedaddle? If you're gonna unsubscribe, unsubscribe and just go. Doesn't make much sense. Unless she's really lurking to read commentary and then leaves - in that case, I would have written up more than just a death notice. Whatever. I feel sorry that she lost Kami - losing a friend after that many years hurts. -L. |
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The Kamikaze Kitty: 4/3/88 -- 5/9/06
"Rona Y." wrote in message oups.com... wrote: Brandy Alexandre wrote: Unsubscribe My condolences Brandy, perhaps when you are up to it you can tell us what happened with Kami her last few days. -mhd I'm guessing that won't happen. Kami had been in poor health for sometime now, and I would bet that she had to be pts. Given how people have reacted to Brandy's treatment of Kami in the past (I probably said a bad word or two, as well, though I don't remember doing so), she couldn't make such an admission without fearing verbal rebukes, insults, or otherwise. Blasting someone for declawing her cat and stating that she had no regrets about doing so is very far removed from blasting someone for having a sick old cat euthanized. Nobody here would do that. Inviato da X-Privat.Org - Registrazione gratuita http://www.x-privat.org/join.php |
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The Kamikaze Kitty: 4/3/88 -- 5/9/06
"-L." wrote in message oups.com... Rona Y. wrote: wrote: Brandy Alexandre wrote: Unsubscribe My condolences Brandy, perhaps when you are up to it you can tell us what happened with Kami her last few days. -mhd I'm guessing that won't happen. Kami had been in poor health for sometime now, and I would bet that she had to be pts. Given how people have reacted to Brandy's treatment of Kami in the past (I probably said a bad word or two, as well, though I don't remember doing so), she couldn't make such an admission without fearing verbal rebukes, insults, or otherwise. No one here would argue that euthanizing a sick, elderly cat was wrong. I think all of the people here have the welfare of cats at heart. It's such a shame, because I'm sure Brandy really did love Kami, and it would be helpful for her to unload some of her sorrow here. I, too, offer my condolences to Brandy, and I hope she has the occasion to subscribe again. I don't understand the "unsubscribe" comment - yeah, unsubscribe since you won't be participating any more, but why post the death notice and then skeedaddle? If you're gonna unsubscribe, unsubscribe and just go. Doesn't make much sense. Unless she's really lurking to read commentary and then leaves - in that case, I would have written up more than just a death notice. Whatever. I feel sorry that she lost Kami - losing a friend after that many years hurts. -L. I feel the same way. Most of us have had to have a sick or elderly cat euthanized, and that is an act of love -- not something that any reasonable person would (or should) criticize. I have had to face that heartwrenching experience twice, and many on this group have had to do it far more often. It is a hearbreaking decision -- but an act of love, as I said. I think we can all feel sympathy for someone who faces that sad time. MaryL |
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The Kamikaze Kitty: 4/3/88 -- 5/9/06
cybercat wrote:
"Rona Y." wrote in message oups.com... wrote: Brandy Alexandre wrote: Unsubscribe My condolences Brandy, perhaps when you are up to it you can tell us what happened with Kami her last few days. -mhd I'm guessing that won't happen. Kami had been in poor health for sometime now, and I would bet that she had to be pts. Given how people have reacted to Brandy's treatment of Kami in the past (I probably said a bad word or two, as well, though I don't remember doing so), she couldn't make such an admission without fearing verbal rebukes, insults, or otherwise. Blasting someone for declawing her cat and stating that she had no regrets about doing so is very far removed from blasting someone for having a sick old cat euthanized. Nobody here would do that. Agreed. Inviato da X-Privat.Org - Registrazione gratuita http://www.x-privat.org/join.php |
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The Kamikaze Kitty: 4/3/88 -- 5/9/06
"-L." wrote in message No one here would argue that euthanizing a sick, elderly cat was wrong. I think all of the people here have the welfare of cats at heart. Absolutely. This is where differences end. It breaks my heart when any cat dies. |
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Update, sort of ( The Kamikaze Kitty: 4/3/88 -- 5/9/06)
I took it upon myself to contact Brandy via email, and give her my
condolences. She replied that she was hesitant to check the group, for fear of getting 'blasted' by those that had blasted her in the past, but *was* curious, but then again, with no cat, she really had no reason to stay any longer (hence the "unsubscribe" comment). I told her that, for the most part, people had set aside their differences and were sending out their condolences, although there were some mentions about the way she was treated in the past, most people thought it 'tactless' to do so now (and I, for one, commend you *all* for that). Then she explained to me that Kami had had yet another UTI, the vet said that, yes, he could get her over it, but with her failing health and the increasing frequency of the recurring UTI's, Brandy and the vet agreed that Kami's quality of life just wouldn't be the same, and so they euthanized her. She misses her terribly. She gave me permission to post this information. NL (a lurker) Phil P. wrote: "-L." wrote in message No one here would argue that euthanizing a sick, elderly cat was wrong. I think all of the people here have the welfare of cats at heart. Absolutely. This is where differences end. It breaks my heart when any cat dies. |
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Update, sort of ( The Kamikaze Kitty: 4/3/88 -- 5/9/06)
On Fri, 12 May 2006 09:40:35 -0400, "Nancy Lee"
wrote: I took it upon myself to contact Brandy via email, and give her my condolences. She replied that she was hesitant to check the group, for fear of getting 'blasted' by those that had blasted her in the past, but *was* curious, but then again, with no cat, she really had no reason to stay any longer (hence the "unsubscribe" comment). I told her that, for the most part, people had set aside their differences and were sending out their condolences, although there were some mentions about the way she was treated in the past, most people thought it 'tactless' to do so now (and I, for one, commend you *all* for that). Then she explained to me that Kami had had yet another UTI, the vet said that, yes, he could get her over it, but with her failing health and the increasing frequency of the recurring UTI's, Brandy and the vet agreed that Kami's quality of life just wouldn't be the same, and so they euthanized her. She misses her terribly. She gave me permission to post this information. NL (a lurker) Thanks for the update. If you should email her again, pass along all the purrs being offered here. |
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Update, sort of ( The Kamikaze Kitty: 4/3/88 -- 5/9/06)
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Update, sort of ( The Kamikaze Kitty: 4/3/88 -- 5/9/06)
Nancy Lee wrote:
I took it upon myself to contact Brandy via email, and give her my condolences. She replied that she was hesitant to check the group, for fear of getting 'blasted' by those that had blasted her in the past, but *was* curious, but then again, with no cat, she really had no reason to stay any longer (hence the "unsubscribe" comment). I told her that, for the most part, people had set aside their differences and were sending out their condolences, although there were some mentions about the way she was treated in the past, most people thought it 'tactless' to do so now (and I, for one, commend you *all* for that). Then she explained to me that Kami had had yet another UTI, the vet said that, yes, he could get her over it, but with her failing health and the increasing frequency of the recurring UTI's, Brandy and the vet agreed that Kami's quality of life just wouldn't be the same, and so they euthanized her. She misses her terribly. She gave me permission to post this information. NL (a lurker) While we may disagree on some issues, we are certainly united in our expression of sadness over this event. There does come a time, difficult as it may be, that a decision needs to be made... those who are in a position to know best make that decision and we certainly respect their judgment and share their grief over it. |
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