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my cat REALLY likes me
Hi all,
My male tomcat is almost 1 year old and was neutered last week. for a couple of weeks prior to the neutering, he would straddle my arm and kick at it with his hind legs - i assumed he was trying to mate with me. for some reason, he'd only do it to me, nobody else. made me feel special. now he's been neutered, last night he did the same thing, which worries me a bit because i'm wondering if i've neutered him too late to stop this behavior. he'd even put a barry white record on! any thoughts or advice?? thanks for reading. |
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On Wed, 04 Oct 2006 12:26:51 GMT, Paul wrote:
Hi all, My male tomcat is almost 1 year old and was neutered last week. for a couple of weeks prior to the neutering, he would straddle my arm and kick at it with his hind legs - i assumed he was trying to mate with me. for some reason, he'd only do it to me, nobody else. made me feel special. now he's been neutered, last night he did the same thing, which worries me a bit because i'm wondering if i've neutered him too late to stop this behavior. he'd even put a barry white record on! any thoughts or advice?? thanks for reading. It takes a little time for hormone levels to drop. |
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"Paul" wrote he'd even put a barry white record on! hahaha! I just had to say, thanks for the laugh .. I really needed one this morning. |
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Are you sure he isn't just playing?
Paul wrote: Hi all, My male tomcat is almost 1 year old and was neutered last week. for a couple of weeks prior to the neutering, he would straddle my arm and kick at it with his hind legs - i assumed he was trying to mate with me. for some reason, he'd only do it to me, nobody else. made me feel special. now he's been neutered, last night he did the same thing, which worries me a bit because i'm wondering if i've neutered him too late to stop this behavior. he'd even put a barry white record on! any thoughts or advice?? thanks for reading. |
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Paul wrote: Hi all, My male tomcat is almost 1 year old and was neutered last week. for a couple of weeks prior to the neutering, he would straddle my arm and kick at it with his hind legs - i assumed he was trying to mate with me. for some reason, he'd only do it to me, nobody else. made me feel special. now he's been neutered, last night he did the same thing, which worries me a bit because i'm wondering if i've neutered him too late to stop this behavior. he'd even put a barry white record on! any thoughts or advice?? thanks for reading. sounds like your cat is trying to disembowel you, not make love to you. |
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umm - do you know how long your cat was allowed to bond with his mother
before being separated from her? if kittens are whisked away too soon they can develop weird relationships with female owners. my friend had to stop getting dressed around her cat. if he saw her naked he pounced on her nipples and started sucking them. (I can only image how much that hurt) . He also did the forbidden dance on her legs and arms. She was worried he was neutered too early - so I don't know what to say. She said the behavior never went away - even after he was pretty old. I'm hoping this isn't the story for you, but I'd do some more reseach on this. -- Message posted via CatKB.com http://www.catkb.com/Uwe/Forums.aspx...ealth/200610/1 |
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um, does it really sound to anyone like the OP's cat is doing anything
more than playing?? If not, then I guess all my cats have been behaving inappropriately for their entire lives, including my kitten--from the time he was 4 weeks old (with no significant male hormones to cause sexual behavior...). |
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On Wed, 04 Oct 2006 19:53:09 +0000, kitkat via CatKB.com wrote:
umm - do you know how long your cat was allowed to bond with his mother before being separated from her? I believe he was 7 or 8 weeks when I got him from the shelter. if kittens are whisked away too soon they can develop weird relationships with female owners. i see, but it's strange that he's never tried this with my girlfriend who usually sleeps next to me. and it was only very recently that this behavior started, so i'm not sure. i'm pretty sure he's not just playing though, as he had his "tinkie" on display once or twice. i do have a different relationship with him than my girlfriend does though, as he's often more affectionate with me, and he sleeps next to me 99% of the time. if it carries on, i'll seek advice from our vet. thanks all. |
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Paul wrote: i'm pretty sure he's not just playing though, as he had his "tinkie" on display once or twice. Oh. That's more than playing! And it certainly explains the Barry White. |
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On Wed, 04 Oct 2006 14:08:40 -0700, Lynne wrote:
i'm pretty sure he's not just playing though, as he had his "tinkie" on display once or twice. Oh. That's more than playing! And it certainly explains the Barry White. Hehehe, i thought that'd help clear things up paul |
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