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Moving a cat - and adding another?
Hi everyone,
I'm moving into my girlfriend's and have a ten year old cat I'm bringing with me. She has no animals. We want to go to the shelter and get an additional kitten, but I have a few concerns::: 1) My cat has not lived with a kitten in a very long time, but when he did live with other cats (about three years ago) he got along with them well. Are there any special considerations with this? Should I get a male, or female kitten, or does it even matter? 2) Should I move my cat into his new surroundings and let him settle in before I introduce another variable into the situation with him? 3) Is there anything else I can do so that his world is not turned too upside down? He's always been used to a lot of commotion (lots of people, numerous dog visitors, at times two other cats) so I'm not too worried, but he's getting on in years and I want to make sure he's not too unsettled. Thanks in advance - Johnny |
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Moving a cat - and adding another?
1) My cat has not lived with a kitten in a very long time, but when he
did live with other cats (about three years ago) he got along with them well. Are there any special considerations with this? Should I get a male, or female kitten, or does it even matter? Some folks will have differing opinions on this, but as long as the kitten will be spayed/neutered, it does not matter what sex he/she is. It's better to match personalities instead. (For instance, if you're cat is timid, don't get an aggressive kitten.) 2) Should I move my cat into his new surroundings and let him settle in before I introduce another variable into the situation with him? YES. He'll already have to adjust to a new location and living with another person, which is stressful enough. Give him several months (or however long it takes, depending on his personality). 3) Is there anything else I can do so that his world is not turned too upside down? He's always been used to a lot of commotion (lots of people, numerous dog visitors, at times two other cats) so I'm not too worried, but he's getting on in years and I want to make sure he's not too unsettled. When you move into the new place, put his litterbox,etc. in a room and shut the door while you're moving in. As he gets comfortable with the room, allow him to explore the rest of the place. This could take a couple of days to a few weeks; just follow his lead. I've had good luck with using Rescue Remedy, an herbal remedy available at health food stores. Just put a few drops in his water a week or so before you move. Good luck! Rene |
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Moving a cat - and adding another?
Unless you have a very playful ten year old cat, you may find he is
more annoyed than happy to have a kitten. Why not look for a mellow young adult (2-6 years old) who won't be in your cat's face all the time? Gender is not the key issue - temperament is. Accurately assess your cats' personality (active, mellow, fussy, possive, cuddly, distant - whatever) and look for a good match. A female who is a bit on the shy side will often be a fine match for an older male cat, but it all depends. Find someone at a shelter who really knows the cats and ask them to help you make a match .... and let your cat settle in the new place for 2-3 months before introducing him to his new roommate ... Rene S. wrote: 1) My cat has not lived with a kitten in a very long time, but when he did live with other cats (about three years ago) he got along with them well. Are there any special considerations with this? Should I get a male, or female kitten, or does it even matter? Some folks will have differing opinions on this, but as long as the kitten will be spayed/neutered, it does not matter what sex he/she is. It's better to match personalities instead. (For instance, if you're cat is timid, don't get an aggressive kitten.) 2) Should I move my cat into his new surroundings and let him settle in before I introduce another variable into the situation with him? YES. He'll already have to adjust to a new location and living with another person, which is stressful enough. Give him several months (or however long it takes, depending on his personality). 3) Is there anything else I can do so that his world is not turned too upside down? He's always been used to a lot of commotion (lots of people, numerous dog visitors, at times two other cats) so I'm not too worried, but he's getting on in years and I want to make sure he's not too unsettled. When you move into the new place, put his litterbox,etc. in a room and shut the door while you're moving in. As he gets comfortable with the room, allow him to explore the rest of the place. This could take a couple of days to a few weeks; just follow his lead. I've had good luck with using Rescue Remedy, an herbal remedy available at health food stores. Just put a few drops in his water a week or so before you move. Good luck! Rene |
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