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Visiting cat.
One of my neighbours, perhaps not the most approachable one, acquired this summer , a beautiful black longish haired female cat. She is adorable, affectionate and very spirited. Winter seems to have come early in the UK. The cat seems outside at all times of day, from early morning to late at might. often very late. She wears a little red collar and although is a very small cat, I am not sure I could regard her as malnourshed, but she certainly isnt fat. But I "rescued" another cat last year from ANOTHER neighbour after she moved to the next street and wouldn't take to his new home, just kept coming back. He is a nervous cat As its winter and often cold,. or wet and cold, I wouild like to help the little visitor. I have fed her and given her affection. And my cat ( a large neutered male tomcat, 3 times her size) just won;t stay around if she walks in the door. It takes some coaxing, or even capturing, to get him back in if she is anywhere near. I fear I am making a rod for my own back, but I my conscience pricks me about this visitor. Even an approach to the neighbour is lilkely to lead to some real unpleasantness, and if anyone else later complains to the RSPCA, I will be suspected, and likely there would be some revenge. I have a rep[utation for intervening, because I forced another neighbour to let me take his flea infested flea allergic, cat (also with excma) to the vet. Will I experience real problems with my cat if I allow the other cat to spend some time with me by day ? I feel sorry for him too, This is his home and he has an unsettled start to his life and has calmed down a lot since I took him on. PS I have the idea that people just vtake on the cutie kitten, and then realise actually it wants company, wants play, needs to be factored into your life, and all of a sudden the idea becomes less attractive, so just put it out, shut the door, and open it when you can be bothered. The cat comes in exhausted after a day in he cold, and sleeps until it it put outside again. I would say every cat should be microchipped, and a database of owners and cats should be maintained, One of the most intelligent animals is treated as if was braineless and armor plated. |
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Visiting cat.
I'd pinch puss if badly done too, and find little love another home in a
different area. but I'm a bit naughty when it comes to keeping cats safe... |
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Visiting cat.
If I were you, and I felt 100% sure the cat was being neglected, I would
definitely start feeding it and giving it shelter. You cannot just take the cat however as it could be reported as theft and unless you plan to keep it as an indoor only cat, it may well go back to the neighbours anyway. It may also be microchipped. Any accusation of theft could be countered with you accusing them of neglect if you can prove it is being shut out for long periods without food. Get some evidence by photographing the cat before you start feeding and sheltering it. Your other cat will come to accept the new cat in time, and there are others here who will advise on the best way to help them both accept each other. But at the moment it seems the stray needs you more. I'm in the UK - I know how awful the weather has been lately. If you cannot take the cat in. it may be worth getting advice from the Cats Protection League (not the RSPCA as they will just trap it and if it is not rehomed, destroy it. That's if you can even get through on the phone). Cats choose us remember - and sometimes out of necessity. So keep feeding it and offering it shelter, 'forget' to let it back out at night, and it may choose to stay. If the neighbour takes it back - they may be inclined to keep it in to stop it coming to you. Which kind of achieves what the cats needs at the moment anyway. chas |
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