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Moving House with cats who are already at war
hello all
i am about to move house with 2 cats and 2 dogs. one cat Rabs who is a year old gets on with the dogs very well. the other cat Monday cannot stand either the dogs or the young cat. they have to be kept seperate all the time - which is a pain. the oldest cat was the 2nd cat i had, and the first cat, who was top cat, disappeared about 1.5 years ago, after we got our first dog (unlikely to be related to dog). Monday appeared unafffected for a few months and suddenly developed what we can only describe as pathological fear of the dog. we thought getting another cat would help distract her from the dog but from the beginning on she was so aggressive that we kept them seperate. the kitten became friends with the dog, and about 4 months after her arrival, we got another puppy. kitten and pup became fast friends. in effect we have a situation where we either have monday in the room and the other 3 elsewhere or reversed. a few times when the cats have met and started fighting (immediately - no warnings) the dogs have joined in and stuck up for their mate Rab's. usually, Monday is on the offensive, snarling under doors etc. yesterday they were accidently in the garden at the same time and this time Rabs was on the offensive, maybe because she knew that if she was getting the worst of it, she only had to return to the garden where she was safe with the dogs. we speculate that Monday as the oldest pet, and who was never top cat, cannot deal well with the other pets. we have never left them to "fight it out" as with dogs, since cat injuries have a habit of taking long to heal (especially in the tropics where we live) we are now about to move house and are wondering if this would be the time to try to re-introduce them to each other on neutral ground. Monday is the oldest pet and has not tolerated intrusion by any other species. any comments or advice welcome thanks zhaopin |
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Moving House with cats who are already at war
It sounds to me like the best solution would be to find Monday a home where
she will be the only animal in the house. Maybe you could fine a retired person or couple to take her so she'd have a nice quite home. Celeste "zhaopin" u26574@uwe wrote in message news:6639b60d8e639@uwe... hello all i am about to move house with 2 cats and 2 dogs. one cat Rabs who is a year old gets on with the dogs very well. the other cat Monday cannot stand either the dogs or the young cat. they have to be kept seperate all the time - which is a pain. the oldest cat was the 2nd cat i had, and the first cat, who was top cat, disappeared about 1.5 years ago, after we got our first dog (unlikely to be related to dog). Monday appeared unafffected for a few months and suddenly developed what we can only describe as pathological fear of the dog. we thought getting another cat would help distract her from the dog but from the beginning on she was so aggressive that we kept them seperate. the kitten became friends with the dog, and about 4 months after her arrival, we got another puppy. kitten and pup became fast friends. in effect we have a situation where we either have monday in the room and the other 3 elsewhere or reversed. a few times when the cats have met and started fighting (immediately - no warnings) the dogs have joined in and stuck up for their mate Rab's. usually, Monday is on the offensive, snarling under doors etc. yesterday they were accidently in the garden at the same time and this time Rabs was on the offensive, maybe because she knew that if she was getting the worst of it, she only had to return to the garden where she was safe with the dogs. we speculate that Monday as the oldest pet, and who was never top cat, cannot deal well with the other pets. we have never left them to "fight it out" as with dogs, since cat injuries have a habit of taking long to heal (especially in the tropics where we live) we are now about to move house and are wondering if this would be the time to try to re-introduce them to each other on neutral ground. Monday is the oldest pet and has not tolerated intrusion by any other species. any comments or advice welcome thanks zhaopin |
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